Please pray for me snd my family I laid my husband to rest yeaterday. The pain hurts to much to go on without him. We had 24 wonderful years together. We have 3 kids,2 grandkids and 1 on the way. I need all the prayers I can get right. Thanks so much

My prayers and thoughts for you and your family,
Hugs From Bev

So very sorry for your loss. I can imagine how I would feel if I lost my husband.....I really feel bad for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you

Dear Bibee, so very sorry for your loss,I lost my husband,many years ago,I have no words to take away your pain,but I can tell you,that in time it does get easier,the pain softens and you will cope better,remember that your children and grandchildren are going through this with you,but they also have the added sorrow,of seeing your pain,and not being able to take it away.%here's a time for mourning and a time for healing,and the healing will come.love and prayers to you and family,lesley

Prayers for you and your family during this very difficult time. Donna

May God grant you the strength and comfort to get you through.

Prayers going up for you and your family.
Hugs
Doreen

Bibee,
You have many friends on the forum and they all have given you good advise, prayers, hugs & good wishes. I would like to add mine. Remember all 24 years, the good & the bad times, you will cry & laugh when you do. Just remember, he will always be with you. I lost my husband 6 1/2 yrs ago and keeping busy with work & my daughters got me thru it. You & your children will be in my thoughts & prayers. Debbie

Thanks everyone for the kind words & prayers. They are much needed. I.m sorry I'm lost for words don't know what to say but thanks

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by airyfairy 25 Sep 2011

Thinking about you so much. Big hugs Sarah.

Just stick with us here, try to think of happy memories. A hot fudge sundae from Dairy Queen always seems to help me when I am sad. Time will be the thing that will heal you but in the meantime LEAN ON US!!! Hugs and Prayers!!!~Carolyn~

You CAN go on...I walked in those same shoes 2 1/2 yrs. ago. We were married 36 yrs. Keep Yourself BUZY.. I know, you walk in circles for months but you have to keep in close contact with the kids. It hurts to look at them and see HIM, and when they talk about HIM, but YOU will know how much LOVE you shared thru them. HUGs to You, when anyone wants to give you a HUG...TAKE IT!!

My deepest sympathy go out to you in your time of need. Keep strong. Hugs and Blessings, Rachel

Sorry for your loss. May God bless you and keep.

My heart weeps for you in your pain. Know that my prayers are with you to come through this difficcult time. God bless you and keep you safe.
Marion in KY

I am so sorry for your lost. May his soul rest in peace. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

I'm so sorry to hear about your great loss, I'll be thinking of you and your family. I hope you have lots of nice memories to think over and over again.

So sorry to read of your very sad loss. I will be thinking of you frequently in the days and weeks to come. My wishes for you will be that you gradually heal over the months to come and your memories will start to fill the holes that grieving has caused.All of my sympathy to you and your family - you will never forget but you can remember. A big hug from South Africa, Cheryl.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

I am so sorry, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your fanily.

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I think two of the best answers I've seen on here were from Meganne and anangel.
It's been almost 23 yrs. since (in just under two months) I lost my mother, an uncle, and then my hubby of 20 short yrs.
You never forget - but the pain does go away and you have your memories and they never go away.
Your kids and grandkids need you and they will keep you going.

Oh Sweetie...I'm so sorry. My prayers are with you and the family. God heals ALL.
Love and Hugs
Linda

I am so sorry to hear about your husband . I have lost my husband and I know what a loss you are enduring. I am always here to support and to listen. My prayers are with you and your family. Love, Nancy

What a difficult time for you, Bibee. May the Lord's loving arms of comfort be felt by your heart& the hearts of your family as you grieve the loss of your dear husband& father. Do you have info on a grief support group in your area? God's grace& comfort to you daily.

I am so sorry. I can only imagine what you must be felling. I pray God gives you and your family strength and comfort.

You are in my prayer, my God give you and your family all the strength you need to go on. Please take care.

Very sorry for your loss. It is good you have family to get you through, hugs Lisa

we all will pray for you and your family
big hugs Sonja

Prayers and hugs to you edith

I am so sorry for your loss. My heartfelt sympathy.

Dear Bibee,

My heartfelt sympathy for you and your family. May God grant you peace and I just wanted you to know that there are many of your Cute family who are praying for you. Love and blessings Chris

I t has allbeen said better than i could my heart goes out to you and your family...one step and a time the pain will lessen ...soozie

My deepest sympathy and condolences. May God give you the strength to cope with the loss and pain and may your husband's soul rest in heaven.

hugs

I am so very sorry to see this post. My thoughts, love and condolences go to you at this very sad time for you and your family. Sarah.

My heartfelt and deepest condolences go to you at this sad, sad time. I pray that you will find the strength for understanding and acceptance of his passing in the love from your family surrounding you right now. There will always be a place in your heart where you will honour and celebrate those wonderful years you had together.

Much love and sincere sympathy - AlmaG.

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by poohbear 18 Sep 2011

sorry to hear the sad news, we will all be thinking of you and your family

God bless you.

my prays are with you and your family I know your hurt I loss my husband of 31 years on feb 14 this year , just hold on your faith and god well get you though it I am sending you a big hug .

You and your family are in my prayers for the Lord to wrap you in his loving arms and help you through this grief and pain......many hugs....Vicki

Prayers for you and yours...

I am so sorry to hear this. I will keep you in my prayers.
Alice.

Deepest Sympathy being sent your way. Hang in there.

It was good of you to share, so your friends could offer their support. I add my healing thoughts.

I cannot fathom the pain you are feeling. My husband had 2 bad falls in the last 5 years where he should have been paralyzed or worse. He still undergoes pain and surgeries. But he is still with me---after 44 years. My heart feels your pain. I pray that our Lord Jesus Christ will fill you with His Holy presence and give you peace and strength at this your time of sorrow.

My prayers are with you.

My sincere condolences to you and your family. May God provide you with the strength to face the upcoming days and help you through this difficult time in your life. Hugs, Mary

My deepest sympathy and condolences. May God give you the strength to cope with the loss and pain and may your husband's soul rest in heaven.

hugs, Starlet

So sorry to hear of your loss. You and family in my prayers

So sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers. Hugs Yvonne

Very sorry to hear this it must be bad i will pray for you hugs carolyn

Sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

My heartfelt sympathy and prayers are yours, Bibee! When you love someone so dearly, the loss and pain never goes away totally. As time goes on acceptance of your new way of life and focusing on the things that add beauty to each new day for you, will ease the loss. Knowing he wants you, the kids, and grandkids, smiling and happy will help you all adjust. He is now your guardian angel keeping watch on all the lives he helped nurture for so many years. Make him smile, as you forge ahead to happiness in all your endeavors daily!
May the Lord bless you and the children with a special strength and peace, as you reach that place of contentment.
Angel

Take care, dear friend. Good thoughts and prayers going out and up for you.

My prayers are with you. So sorry for your loss.

You have my prayers and my condolences! Suzanne

May God carry you and your family through this difficult time and ease the pain of his passing. I pray for you all and think of you. Please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your dear husband. May God bless you and your family with courage and strenght throughout this time. Hugs Kisses and lots of flowers.

Will be praying for you, so sorry for your loss.

I'm deeply sorry to hear about the death of your husband. Will be thinking of you during this difficult time with my deepest sympathy and sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

Thinking and praying for you!

bibee: Sending prayers your way and a big hug. It's been 1 1/2 years since my dear hubby passed away so I know how you are feeling right now. My heart aches for you and your family. When you feel like you can't make it thru another day hold your children and grandchildren close and remember all the wondeful years you've had. There is nothing anyone can say that will ease your pain for now but time does help. Just take one day at a time and msy God comfort you. Just know we are all here and always ready to give you encouragement. Big Hugs Judy

Of coarse you have my prayes - what a time - you really have been dealing with alot - God Bless You and your family.

You have my most heartfelt prayers as you journey through this dark time. I pray that God will hold you in his arms and soothe you with His love and that you will always hold on to how short time is, when you will be joined with him again.;)

prayers and hugs for you, wishing you strength in this hard and difficult time.

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God be with you and give you that precious Peace that passes understanding!

MJDG

I am sending deep and heartfelt sympathy to you and your family during this difficult time in your life.

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Hello Bibee, I am so sorry for your loss, and will also be praying for you. God helps us to accept, but we will always have beautiful memories. Hold on to those. Your kids and their kiddies are still there for you. Love them as much you can.
Hugs and God bless
Marietta

I will pray for strength and peace of mind for both you and your children and grandchildren. We are all here for you if you need to talk. God Bless you bibee.

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So sorry for your loss, mere words can never express to you how sorry I am. I can not imagine the sorrow you feel. The only thing I can tell you is to keep yourself busy and that will help. Friends here on Cute here for you and will talk to you. Just know that God loves you and with his help you can get through this very trying time in your life. Sara

Iam so sorry...sending hugs and prayers for you....

Oh my dear I am so very sorry for your tragic loss. The pain of losing a loved one is so great that it can overwhelm us and choke our breath right out of us, but we have to go on and be strong for each other.
All you can do is take each day as it comes and allow yourself to grieve. Each time the pain overtakes you, just go with it, do whatever it takes to get you through it and eventually it will ease. As each day passes, these tougher times will also ease and in time you will find that they will be replaced with little memories, things long forgotten will come back to you, shared precious moments that will make you smile, and these memories are what will get you through until it is your time to join your beloved.

As hard as it is to believe, your pain will lessen in time, but it never really goes away, it just softens and becomes part of you and you will go on because your family need you to.

I truly believe our loved ones don't leave us, they stay close and watch over us and they are waiting for us when it is our time to move on to a better place.

There are no words anyone can say that will ease your pain right now, but one can only hope that they bring you a small measure of comfort while you face the worst of days. You are not alone, many Cuties have been where you are now, we understand what you are going through and we feel your pain.
May the Lord help you and your family, you have my prayers to help ease your suffering.
With heartfelt Sympathy, Meganne

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I am so sorry to hear this, I can't imagine life without my husband to help me through each day. I hope that you find peace and that your kids and grands can fill your day and your heart with enough love to see you through. Blessings to you.

Bibee, I know how you feel, i lost my DH 4 months ago,28 years together, It hurts so much, that sometimes is unbearable,I have to thank all the cuties with their support, I found a site just for widows, it is been my therapy, i have received tones of help from all of them. My sincere and deepest simpathy, God gives you confort, you all will need it.

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by mary51 18 Sep 2011

Bibbe this ihttp://www.personal-growth-with-c... the site, I found it by accident, or maybe not i heard that there are not such a thing as accidents that everyting happens for a reason if you go there I am Mary,

May the Lord Bless you and Keep You during your time of need. Amen

My heart aches for you. Please exept my deepest sympathy. I know it means nothing right now when I say the pain will lessen. Hopefully the family will be supportive of each other. You will be in my prayers. Hugs Angie

I feel so sad for you. God will carry you through it. Will pray for you.

Just take it 1 day at a time, that is what I am doing. I lost 3 family members in less then a month and I know how hard it is. I lost a nephew, sister, and father. It is hard to wake up in the morning but you will do it because you will find strength in God. I will pray for you and your family to gain peace in his love.

Bless your heart! Go easy and be patient with yourself - the pain must be acute - how good that you have family to help you through and for you to help with. Will be praying for you and your family!! Hugs, Laura*

Sending prayers your way. Hugs DeVon

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Bibee, you and your lovely family are in our prayers. I know today is hard and tomorrow must seem impossible...but you can and will be able to pull through this. I believe in you and will keep you in my prayers and heart. Our God is willing to carry you through this time and be your comfort. Search His promises and find them true. Try Him...He asks for you to do this.

Much strengh and my deepest sympathies for you and the rest of your family

My deepest sympathy, you are in my prayers, hugs S*

My deepest sympathies. I am so sorry for your loss.Just think of all the wonderful years you had together.May the wonderful memories help ease the pain that never goes away.Stella

You have my heartfelt deepest sympathies. It will take time but you will make it thru with the love of
your family, friends and extended cutie family.
Hugs
Linda