I usually make mention of Orthodox Christmas, since my paternal grandparents came from Ukraine. I was just thinking how sad it is that they are still in turmoil 100 years after the Bolshevik revolution. I am sorry to hear the news of the past year in your life. When ever you choose to celebrate, I know it will have the most meaning.
My prayer for you both is that you find the peace that comes with knowing that God is in control. Love Chris
I hope 2015 is a much better year for your family