having trouble commenting and posting..any advice? aslo how to pm?

I wish those who ask questions would indicate they read info meant for them.

SQ

If you are having trouble, how did you post this question?

Hi and welcome. I suggest that you go and look at the postings in Q&A as there is much advice there as to how to do what you are asking plus loads more. I see I am the second person to suggest this

When there is a red number by your inbox click Inbox and read your message.

SQ

Welcome to Cute!
Click on the Q&A button above and you will find loads of information about how the site works. Read through the threads and have a go - nothing will break!