by dennis999 06 Mar 2014

Coincidence or What:


I've just been watching a programme on UK tv which is all about people who hoard piles and piles of possessions (mostly rubbish) gathered over the years, and often referred to as Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.

Strangely, the phenomenon of OCD also extends to people who have a compulsion to collect specific items and indeed to 'rave' publically about the extent of the collection and their desire to add to it! It seems that it is 'immaterial' whether the item has any beneficial use, the important issue being that they own it!! Since I mentioned the word 'material' it also appears that this obsessive collecting even extends in that direction, namely the gathering together of huge quantities of fabric material, often to be found in various secretive zones of the house.

Sound familiar...............................YES, it's the Scissor and Stash Sisters (excluding Yoriko who has admitted to only having two pairs of scissors, poor mite).

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by ribblev 07 Mar 2014

We are who we are, we do what we do and collect "stuff" that might come in handy one day. If we weren't of that ilk we would not be here replying to this rant. My husband tells everyone it keeps me out of the pubs and off the streets, neither of which I have ever been drawn towards. My reply is that my sewing keeps me sane and him alive so there!!! That's my excuse and I'm sticking to it...............Ann

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by ruthc 07 Mar 2014

I admit it I am a hoarder but my stash is not huge I have 9 tubs and a dresser drawer full. I keep it all in my spare room and my sewing room stays more moveable with it all in the other room:) my problem is putting it all back up when I am thru but i am never done......I kind of enjoy the extra room in my sewing room so my grands can sit and watch and play when i am in there. We are a diminishing group of folks because a whole lot of stores are losing their fabrics and increasing their sporting goods section so i think we need a pop out fishing pole and all sewing machines run off solar power

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by almag 07 Mar 2014

Not my idea of OCD from teaching children diagnosed with it.
However, my kitchen drawer does display a degree of OCD and if the spoons are not in their right pile I get slightly agitated (now, how useless is that) but go off then into my sewing room and you'll see that the OCD element just doesn't carry over into my playroom. Here you will find your statement about the important issue being the ownership of a constantly-growing collection absolutely true. Who, in their right mind, would pass up a chance to purchase another pair of gorgeous little snippers in the shape of a fairy or a lady or a little bird???? Who, in all the world, would pass up a chance to snap up that lovely piece of fabric, knowing full-well that one day it might come in handy, and probably won't????
My stuff isn't secreted in unseen zones around the place, either .... it's all on view in my lovely den and it's a real mess. It's such a happy place. It's so much fun out there that I just love to get there and gloat.
Not an item of rubbish to be found in My Playroom...... :}
AlmaG ( new blood, new iron, new energy, new fightin' gloves)

Boy Oh Boy, Mr D.... you nearly got me stirred up there.

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dennis999 by dennis999 07 Mar 2014

If it's any consolation, Mrs A.................I was getting a little worried there for a moment..............especially when you mentioned new fighting gloves. I said to myself........."What are you, man or mouse?" and the only noise I could make was "Eeeeeeeeeeeek!"

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by Patricia109 07 Mar 2014

I thought OCD was harmful behaviour?!
Buying and collecting fabric and notions is GOOD/helpful behaviour!
I didn't "collect" my range of scissors, they were bought for a job and they do their jobs well.
Dennis, don't you know that the TV people over dramatise everything. It makes for a good story.
After all a story about Dennis who buys fabric, thread, emb designs and scissors then makes items to give to family, friends and charities is not much of a story. Now is it?? :-)

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dennis999 by dennis999 07 Mar 2014

True......................so true.....................I'm now crawling back under my little stone!

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by kezza2sew 07 Mar 2014

No Comment................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................................
You Got Me......

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dennis999 by dennis999 07 Mar 2014

HaHaHa

toogie by toogie 07 Mar 2014

Kerry,you are too honest.

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by dennis999 07 Mar 2014

I think I've just been told off twenty three times in one post! That's got to be a first for me here..................................oh! hang on, I'm forgetting about that other time.........................................

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toogie by toogie 07 Mar 2014

I am positive if you think a little while, the count will be higher.Who knows ,maybe get into Genius Book of Records.

dennis999 by dennis999 07 Mar 2014

That's one record I shall never aspire to.....lol

bevintex by bevintex 07 Mar 2014

Now remember Dennis ,about that time. I DID apologize.
Bev

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by airyfairy 07 Mar 2014

Dennis, I think that everyone on this site is a collector/ hoarder of some sort. Unfortunately I cannot hoard too much material as I do not have the room, also I cannot get decent material where I live - so that helps!!!
I have watched several programs of hoarders in USA and UK and find it difficult to believe how some people live. I am afraid I am a tidy freak. Sarah

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toogie by toogie 07 Mar 2014

Now that I have my sewing room and all my 'hoard' in order,I have been introduced by a very nice Cutie, to a Grace quilting frame.I want to take the second bedroom for this.The only thing is,my husband is still alive.-LOL

dennis999 by dennis999 07 Mar 2014

Mrs. T.....................!!!!!!!

toogie by toogie 07 Mar 2014

He said we can't take the whole house for sewing projects.I told him he will still have our bedroom and bath,the TV room and Kitchen , what more does HE need?

snowbird42 by snowbird42 07 Mar 2014

toogie I like your stuyle...lol...soozie

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by lique 07 Mar 2014

In these days we can not function normally without one or other disorder.(Look at the labels we add on persons 40 years ago we would have not heard of any of them!)
I am proud to admit collecting (hoarding?) fabrics and embroidery designs make me function according to what is expected now a days!
So I am NORMAL! (Ain't I?)

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spendlove by spendlove 07 Mar 2014

I'm not sure "normal" is a good thing!

CymbleneJones by CymbleneJones 07 Mar 2014

But really, Ladies, NORMAL is simply a setting on our clothes dryers, isn't it?

asterixsew by asterixsew 07 Mar 2014

But what is 'nomal?'

bevintex by bevintex 07 Mar 2014

Normal is boring.

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by spendlove Moderator 07 Mar 2014

Thanks Dennis - I've just read through this thread whilst eating my breakfast. It is good to start the day with a giggle.
My very good friend Scottie described her condition as OCO (Obsessive Compulsive Order) How could it be a disorder anyway?
Her daughter and I will be going through her fabric stash tomorrow.

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Leaha by Leaha 07 Mar 2014

Wonderful, every piece will be a loving touch from her to you both. Have a happy day. Tears are welcome.

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by marianb 07 Mar 2014

Well Dennise, if we stop adding to our stashes we would be responsable for countless fabric stores having to close up shop and lovely shop assistant losing their jobs. So if that is not a good enough reason to use and replenish then I'm sure nothing is..

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by manami 07 Mar 2014

Hi Dennis, I'm going shopping for scissors in Japan, I just hope the custom at the airport doesn't classified me as terrorist :)) Fingers crossed for me! Hugs, Yoriko

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asterixsew by asterixsew 07 Mar 2014

Good Luck,I had my scissors taken off me as I went through customs on leaving . I have a super cutting out pair of scissor from Japan but they were mail order

mops by mops 07 Mar 2014

Just don't put them in your hand luggage. My sister bought a nice nail set in Boston taxfree. It was confiscated at the gate!

toogie by toogie 07 Mar 2014

Now that is one expensive shopping trip!

manami by manami 07 Mar 2014

thanks for the tips! Hugs,Yoriko

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by eyeztodiefor10 06 Mar 2014

I consider myself a collector not a hoarder. My fabric gets used up and usually given away. My designs are my Library where I can get lost for hours just deciding which one I need at the moment. Fabric and designs, notions, thread, etc. are necessities to create beautiful things, like an artist who has canvas and paints and brushes. If one collects but doesn't use their collections it may be thought of as hoarding. Relax ladies and gents, we are all collectors not hoarders! lol
Meri

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toogie by toogie 07 Mar 2014

I agree wholeheartedly!

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by dander163 06 Mar 2014

First I would like to say--He (She) who has the most embroidery designs wins. :) Next, I am not hoarding fabric--I am providing economic stimulus to the textile industry. :) Makes it sound good doesn't it.

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toogie by toogie 07 Mar 2014

Quiet fancy job you have.

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by shozo1271 06 Mar 2014

we at Cuties can become a group of "Fabric Hoarders Anonymous" (and proud of it? LOL) Flowers to everybody.... We also hoard our flowers don't we?

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toogie by toogie 07 Mar 2014

I thought FHA was Future Homemakers of America,not Fabic Hoarders Anonymous...learn new things everyday,probally because I forget everyday too-LOL

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by sewist1 06 Mar 2014

The compulsion to collect designs is the worst.

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toogie by toogie 07 Mar 2014

Guilty

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by katydid 06 Mar 2014

I also collect cook books. I am finding it hard to find more places to keep them. Do I qualify?

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toogie by toogie 07 Mar 2014

Guilty again.Did you get the new Duck Dynasty one?

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by dec716 06 Mar 2014

uh-oh. GUILTY!!

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by hightechgrammy 06 Mar 2014

How about flashlights... do they count?

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graceandham by graceandham 07 Mar 2014

Yes, since I don't collect THEM.

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by Leaha 06 Mar 2014

My collections multiply in the dark! I have nothing to do with it. Thank you kind sir. :P

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dennis999 by dennis999 07 Mar 2014

You need to start collecting flashlights, apparently.

Leaha by Leaha 07 Mar 2014

Hm...maybe...maybe not so much. I don't want to ruin the fun of the little elves, fairies and sprites who aid and abet my therapy! I even know where they live...in my collection of thimbles. I just haven't lifted the right one to catch them yet! :<>)

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by jrob Moderator 06 Mar 2014

I can't imagine what any of you are talking about....



denial

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by pennifold 06 Mar 2014

Well I have it and by my mind it should be CDO (alphabetical order) of course - he he he!!!!! Love your sense of humour, Chris

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graceandham by graceandham 07 Mar 2014

Chris, I had a friend in college who could immediately alphabetize the letters in any word quirky, and totally useless except as a party trick.

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by shirley124 edited 06 Mar 2014

Strange. When I tuned into the radio here in 'Convict Land' Australia last night they were discussing the same topic - OCD. I think most of us are guilty of collecting somethings to the extreme Dennis. be it scissors, fabric, designs or whatever. Just as long as it keeps us out of the pubs and off the pockies I think it it is fine LOL Shirley

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by graceandham edited 06 Mar 2014

SASS, abbreviated. There must be a 12,000 Stitch Program that will help us. First, we must acknowledge that we have a stash and that there is a Higher Power, uh, Higher Speed.

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by graceandham 06 Mar 2014

Let's all send her a pair and get her caught up!

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by asterixsew Moderator 06 Mar 2014

Well Dennis I do have a quantity of fabric in my home. Being aware that I have al this fabric I set a new years resolution not to buy any for as long as possible this year and to use what I have. Its now March and I have not bought any fabric. Come on Dennis what do you collect?

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graceandham by graceandham 06 Mar 2014

And has your stash decreased - that's the other half of the bargain?

asterixsew by asterixsew 06 Mar 2014

a small amount

dennis999 by dennis999 06 Mar 2014

I collect fire brigade memorabelia and the character figures from Trumpton, Camberwick Green and Chigley, oh! and artwork.

hightechgrammy by hightechgrammy 06 Mar 2014

I have made the last two baby quilt for gifts without having to purchase an inch of fabric! Now that is stash!

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by rescuer Moderator edited 06 Mar 2014

I stitch and sell what I can in order to feed my habit....it is an addiction not hoarding....everything can be used...eventually! Lol

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dennis999 by dennis999 06 Mar 2014

That's what I said....................addictive hoarding

rescuer by rescuer 06 Mar 2014

LOL
Hoarding is reserved for useless stuff....like stacks of old newspaper or rubbish in the house. I have quality scissors and fabric with more than one machine so I can always have my therapeutic uhhhh I mean hobby at the ready.
We won't even discuss parading photos of ones orderly scissor collection in photos...are your scissors named or numbered? If one is out of place, do you notice? LOL

hightechgrammy by hightechgrammy 06 Mar 2014

I think it is only hoarding IF you never use it, or give it to a friend when she needs it. Otherwise, it's just being ready to stitch!

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by toogie 06 Mar 2014

You better be careful.You are walking on thin ice,when you speak of fabric,notions,etc to 'ladies' that appreciate ALL of it,no matter how much they have,use,and store.We may dis-own you.-lol

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shirley124 by shirley124 06 Mar 2014

He He

dennis999 by dennis999 06 Mar 2014

I've been wandering in the wilderness for many a year

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by mops Moderator 06 Mar 2014

Mr. D, did you by any chance see the BBC programme on COD cleaners who organised themselves into a group who cleans other peoples dirty homes that was broadcast this afternoon ? Apparently they used their COD to help others and said it was a sort of therapy for them as well.
I think therapy is what most of us would confess to.

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dennis999 by dennis999 06 Mar 2014

I have seen that program many times. I'm required to as Ann is herself compulsive in wanting to watch it!

CymbleneJones by CymbleneJones 07 Mar 2014

MOPS those organized cleaners could help themselves more by cleaning for us seamstress while we stitch. Then we'd all be happy.

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by suelyn7 06 Mar 2014

I maybe a little guilty of this ... Sometimes I buy fabric just because I like it the feel of it....the look or just because its gorgeous I don't want to use it for anything because then it would be gone not really the same any more ..... What does that make me ........

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spendlove by spendlove 06 Mar 2014

One of us.

asterixsew by asterixsew 06 Mar 2014

I do this too

suelyn7 by suelyn7 06 Mar 2014

Do you mean I'm not alone there are really more like me out there WOW !!!!

rescuer by rescuer 06 Mar 2014

Many thousands like you...we will never have to be cold as we will always have the means to make a blanket or other necessities. Some can even use a stash of yarn to knit or crochet some warm socks. ;)
I will always have a least one pair sharp scissors. ;)

granniebea by granniebea 06 Mar 2014

Me too. We are called tactile people, I love the feel of fabric.
Welcome to the club. :)

toogie by toogie 07 Mar 2014

My husband tells people in the fabric shop, not to buy that one,because I've worn a hole in it, just feeling it so much!

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