UPDATE Regarding my pending divorce. I just wanted to let everyone know that so far all is okay. Surprisingly so. We have agreed to a settlement and I sent it off to my lawyer. Naturally, he is now questioning it, but I'm praying about that also. For all those who said keep records, I do have pictures and recordings if it turns out I need them. With him, you never know. God bless you all for your sweet concern and prayers. They are appreciated more than you will ever know. Thank you, Anne

Glad things are going alright for you. Keep us informed! Suzanne

thank you for the update. Hang in there, prayers and hugs, G.

Anne, thank you for giving an update. I have continued to pray in your behalf and I'm happy to hear that things are going well. Blessings on you. ;)

Keep your chin up and remember we are here for you.

Hang in there, Anne! Praying the Lord will grant the best outcome of this situation for you! My ex and I sat calmly and agreed on a settlement equitable to both. He agreed because he did not want the cost of a court proceeding, and knew the evidence of repeated infidelities would weigh heavily against him. I made a conscious decision to not be vindictive and filled with anger towards him, but, cordial and kind through it all. Unknowingly, it worked to my benefit, as it made him feel like the villain (he was), and not the victim. As we have a disabled daughter, and I knew we would have to have continuous contact because of her, I wanted an amiable relationship. That was over twenty years ago, and he has remarried, yet we remain friends. Children deserve to see their parents get along well, inspite of the reason for a divorce. I, also, never spoke unkindly of their father to them, nor discussed our issues with them, and today, they have a good relationship with both of us, which they needed.
May the Lord bless you on this journey.
Hugs, Angel

It is a little more pleasant when things are amicable. Prayers that the rest will go just as smoothly.

Glad to hear that all is well - keep it up !

Thanks for updating us. You are right where you are supposed to be, and you will only move forward. I hope all goes well and he follows the agreement.

Thanks for he update. You remain on my prayer list. You sound like you are a strong smart woman. Good for you. Stay strong and remember you have a whole network of Cuties in your corner.

God bless you Anne and thanks for updating us on what is happening. I too, like Bev, believe that we are stronger than we think we are. Positive thoughts and prayers being sent your way, love and blessings Chris, Newcastle, Australia.

You will feel so much better afterwards,my lawyer told me to get out for my mental health,best advice I have ever received. Things will get better. Just keep believing in yourself. We are stronger than we think.
Bev

Thanks for thee update am praying for u hugs

Hello and thank you for your update. I am sure that everyone here will be releived to hear that you are bearing up and moving forward. I am also sure that your friends here will be heartened to know that you have heeded their advice with regard to keeping records. That, in itself, is a difficult thing to do but you must remain strong, disciplined and determined. Take good care of yourself and remain confident in the knowledge that your friends are supporting you.