Well, I am back, well maybe not all of me, but my fingers are here. I think my brain & heart are somewhere else. My Wonderful Husband was interred on Monday the 18th, and since the accident, last night is the first I have been alone, just me & the dog, who is wondering around in a daze. (Dog & Me both) hahaha! Just so you know, my DH and I were having a house moved to my GD's property, because as we are getting up there (He was 82) she felt we needed closer to he & family. She wanted to take care of use as we needed it. Well, he & his son were using a large type ditcher to dig ditch for gas line, and he reached to keep a wire out of the auger thing and it pulled him in with the wire. Police said he went instantly as he hit, so there was no pain, but ohhhh, the pain is here with all of us. He was almost "perfect in every way" Hahaha. We had 5 different Pastors come to his service. I didn't know any of them were coming. They were all from churches he had attended or helped with at one time or another. Plus the 3 Pastors that did the service. Our whole Church is in mourning. Everyone loved him, especially me. In all my years of Church, this is the first time I saw the whole church cry for one human being so much. Sorry to take so much time, but if I make mistakes in things, just consider the reason, please. I try to read over what I type, but I probably won't catch all mistakes. Love youns all, Huggs, Judy

Judy, I am so very sorry for the loss of your loved one. :(

Oh Judy I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. May you hold your memories close to your heart and gain strength from them.
Lois W

I, too, am sorry about this unfortunate accident and the loss for everyone. May you find comfort in the knowledge that it seems he was loved by so many. May God bless you, in all ways, in the days to come-Toogie

Sorry for your loss. What wonderful memories you must carry in your heart.

There is nothing one can say to make you feel better. Just looking at the warm smile on your husband's face, I hope that you will find some solace in the memories of the years you shared.

Hi Judy,

I am sooooooo sorry to read about the loss of your husband. I don't pretend know what you're going through, but my but my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Again so sorry for your loss,
Suzan

Dear Judy, what a happy, lovely man your husband is! He looks like he would have welcomed people into his home, and his heart, with a big hug. I feel like it would have been joyful and peaceful to have a cup of coffee and conversation around the kitchen table with you both. This photo of him says so much. I know you and your doggie will both miss him terribly, but it obvious that your faith, family and friends will help you get through the days and weeks without this beautiful human being at your side. You wrote such a moving tribute, and I know you'll be ok, because I started on this path 5 years ago when my Bud left me, and I sure wouldn't have even been able to TYPE a ha ha at that point. I'm so glad you have such wonderful memories of him to cherish, the deep satisfaction of a life well lived together in faith and love, until you can be reunited again in that place where "every tear will be wiped from your eye". My love, my admiration, and my very best hugs, Marji

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I've walked the same path that you have started, it will not be easy, but be sure that God does heal your heart and give you comfort. I now have shed tears with you. Hugs and lots of love from South Africa.

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. You can tell from the smile on his face in the picture that he was one very special man. My prayers are with you and your family. Cindy

So sorry for your loss, I can't even imagine what you and your family are going through. I know God will give you the peace and understanding you need. Will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Love in Christ,
Becky

Thanx sooo much every one of you for all the thoughts, concern and especially the Prayers. I would love to answer each post, but need to get busy now. I read each post & appreciate each of you and what you wrote. Thanx again, Love, Huggs & Flowers, Judy

Judy, what a tragedy. You and your family are in my prayers. Hugs Yvonne

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Oh Judy my heart is aching for you. I am so glad you came back here to spend some time with your other family, we too are in mourning for the loss of your beloved. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy. Meg

I am so sorry for your loss. How wonderful to have had such a person in your life. I pray God will ease your pain.
Sharon

My condolences on the loss of your dear husband. The two of you must of had a wonderful life together with many blessings. I send my best wishes for your family. christine

My thoughts ans prayers are with you and your family. I've walked the path that you have started, it will not be easy. However, be open to those that love you and honor him by continuing to live life as he would have want you to do.

Dear Gramsbear,
I just read your post on your dear hubby and a few of the words from others.
I have no words except may God give you that "Peace that passes understanding." in this time of such sorrow.
MJDG

My heart aches for you. What a wonderful legacy he has left for you and your family. May you be wrapped in the love and comfort of our Father in Heaven. I pray for comfort and peace for you and those who are left behind.

I am so sorry for your loss!!! May God bring you comfort and peace!!! Sounds like he was a true man of God!!!

So, so sorry .... keep those wonderful memories uppermost and just know that there are so many of us thinking of you with love

I am so sorry,,,,words are not enough...I wish I had the right ones to comfort you. Sending hugs to you....Darlene

Judy,
My heart grieves for you in this great loss. In this photo, he looks so happy, so pull forth all those wonderful memories of times together, and knowing you helped put this sweet smile on his face! May the Lord bless you with a special strength during this most difficult time.
Hugs, Angel

I find it hard to write, but Judy dear know that I am so sad to hear of your loss of your loving Husband. with an accident it surely is extremely hard to come to terms with it..My heart goes out to you and your family. My love and hugs to you.

So sorry for your loss, your husband looked like a kind loving man with such a sweet smile. I know you will miss him dearly.

Prayer and thoughts to you and your family. Thinking of you from across the ocean

Sorry to hear of this sad news. It was truly an accident.

Just remember God has him in his keeping & you have him in your heart. Sending up prayers for you & the family.

Dear Judy, Having read this I cannot begin to imagine what you are going through. My sincere condolences. What a wonderful looking man your DH was. I am sending you thoughts and love to you and your family at this time. You know that we are all behind you every step of the way. Love and hugs across the miles. Sarah.

Judy dear, As I look at his kind face I can see the love he had for others shining through. What a marvelous Homecoming he must have had when he entered Heaven's gates. You I know have peace knowing who he is with and where he is. Yes, there is a hole in your heart, an emptiness and a longing to be with him. God will sustain you and you will see him again. I've and others as well have lost a husband so we know how you feel. May God bless you and know he too knows your hurt. Much love Lillian

Dear Judy. I can't even say how sorry I am about what you have been going through. I sat here and tears welled up. May God send you peace and strength to go through the future without you dear husband.
Hugs Angie

So sorry for your loss. We love you and will be here for you.i know God will give you the strength to get through this time. Rely on him for prayer. Love ,Kay

Sorry for your loss, I can understand how you are feeling, my Mum passed away one month ago today (21st). She was 92 and 5 months, still doing knitting and crocheting, and loved to read. I miss her terribly.

I am so sorry for your loss. What a friendly looking man.

Mar 20, 2013 -- My heart goes out to you and my prayers too.

judy, i have always enjoyed your posts. you have always been special to me & i mourn with you. i have no other words except that you are in my prayers & i am sure he was a very special person because he married a very special lady. susan

Sending much love & thoughts to you Judy, what a horrific accident and I am so sorry it happened........Vicki

Dear Judy, I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers and thoughts. Love and hugs, Yoriko

Sending you hugs and prayers. DeVon

Judy, What a wonderful and full life you seem to have had with this loving and generous man, your husband. You have so many memories in your heart. My thoughts prayers and blessings to you and your family.
hugs
Helen

My thoughts and prayers are with you. Hugs Shirley

ah Judy my heart just goes out to you! you will be in my prayers. Love Loralye

I'm so sorry for your loss. Heaven gained another soul waiting with others to one day welcome you and the rest of the family. Hugs and prayers.

Dear Judy, to lose a loved one is hard, but in such a way as this is even more so, I believe. My thoughts and prayers are for you and your family.

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What a tragedy, He looks a lovely man. Please think of the happy times and how lucky to have had each other for such a long time.
Prayers go out to you. Hugs Edith

Dear Judy,

My heartfelt condolences on the death of your darling husband. What a lovely looking man he was. What a testament too to the number of people who have shared his life by being at his funeral. I know the tears will flow for a long time and I pray that you and your dog will find solace with each other. Thank God you are near to your Grand-daughter and family, there is nothing like being surrounded by loved ones. I pray that in time your memories of your darling husband will keep you uplifted in heart, mind and soul. Memories are wonderful to hold onto. Love and blessings Chris

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What a wonderful notice you have written about your dear husband. My prayers are for your comfort and peace.

My prayers and sympathy goes out to you and the family. We are all here for you. Keep in touch... What a lovely looking man. Suzanne

Judy,
My heart breaks for you in your loss. You two were obviously wonderful together and loved each other deeply. I'm saying a prayer for you both.

Take care of yourself during this difficult time! Know that your Cute family is here if you need us.
In friendship
Marion in KY

Gramsbear; Sorry to read about the accident;tears come to my eyes, to see what a loss of such a wonderful looking man. But, I always say, theres a better place, he was needed more. So, take care;and think of so many great times together. Diane M.

Sending thoughts of comfort to you at this very sad time.
AlmaG.

So sorry for your loss. Your husband looks like such a wonderful man.
Judy W

My thoughts are with you and your family. It must have been such a shock. Keep all your good memories.

Judy, I'm sorry for your loss. I'm sending you all my strenght to you and your family. It is always heard when you lose someone dear. If you need us, you know we are all there for you. Hugs Linda

My deepest condolences on the sad loss of your dear Husband. He looks such a kind man - I am sure God is using him there as well. May God grant you the strenght to face to the future. Hugs.

Judy - we were all saddened by the news of your husband's accident. I am so sorry that this happen to your family. He sounds like a wonderful man and one that will be sorely missed for quite a long time. (He has such a kind face.) It must be a great comfort to you having had so many people and clergy showing their respect for him. I do hope you are receiving the support you need to cope with this tragic loss. My heart goes out to you and the rest of your family.

My heart goes out to you and your family. I'm so sorry for your loss.

Sorry for your loss. I know how it is, been there

So sorry for your loss. May the good Lord comfort you .

Judy, My condolences to you and yours. Remember the good times and try to smile when you do. It will help to mend your heart. Hugs, Susan

I fixed your duplicate for you, no problem.

So sorry, Judy, with all that you and your family has gone through. How very difficult. Everyday, think, "Just this day, I will try to smile and think about the good times". I hope it will help. Hugs to you and your family! Laura*

My most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time

Dearest Judy, I am so so sorry. I was gone this weekend and somehow missed these posts. This is a terrible tragedy. I do hope your sweet granddaughter doesn't feel responsible in any way. I feel so for you, I can't imagine your feeling of loss and bewilderment.
From what you wrote, he was truly a great and very well loved and respected man. His picture shows a man with great kindness in his eyes and heart. Very dapper and handsome, too. I pray that you are able grasp those happy, wonderful times, you spent with him and they carry you through your sad walk as you find a path without him for now. I'll be praying for you and your family. Much love and hugs.
Jerrilyn

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Dear Gramsbear,
I am so sorry to hear of your tragic loss. What a terrible shock it must be. I pray that you will be comforted by your family and those wonderful folk at the Church. What a blessing to know so many people cared for him. and that you had such a wonderful man to share your life's journey with. Thinking of you with love, Hugs to you,
Debbie

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He looks like a wonderful man....so sorry for you loss and the emptiness you feel....take it one day at a time. You will be in my prayers and I know the prayers of others here. Becky

Judy, sorry for your loss, you are in my prayers . Thank you for sharing the picture of your husband, he looks a lovely and friendly man. I hope you read the kind words of comfort for you, that were written here at Cute, and I hope they will give you strength too. I add the link of these posts. Dear Judy even if your husband is not visible with you now, I do believe he will be around you to to watch over you in love. my hugs and prayers for you and your dog. With love, Gerry

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Oh my he is with his maker and now at peace .I will ask God to send his peace for u now hugs carolyn

So sorry for your loss. I have been there and have been alone for a long time.

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by pldc 20 Mar 2013

I am sorry for your loss too

So, so, so, sorry...love and prayers to you and your family....

So sorry for your loss.

Judy, I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. He looked like such a happy and gentle man. Please take care of yourself. my prayers are with you. With a big hug, Judy T

Dear Judy,
So sad that you should be going through this, May god cradle you in his arms and surround you with all the love, warmth and healing that you will need in the coming months or more.
You are in my prayers
Hugs
Michelle

Sorry to hear of the loss of your dear husband. My thoughts and prayers go out to you. Hugs Lynn

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Please know that you are in the hearts of Cuties all over the world who share your pain.

Oh sweet lady. I am so very sorry for you all! Such a lovely man is rare! I am glad he felt no pain -- but your pain must be severe. Hug that dear GD of yours! He seems like a wonderful man -- loved by so many!
I really hope you worry less about typing errors and more about healing your heart. It can be lonely and you may feel lost at times (many of us have felt this) but we are all here for you! Please call on Cuties anytime you need a friend!
Hugs!

Oh Judy, my heart is full of tears for you. It sounds like a wife's nightmare come true. Thank you for sharing with us. Please give yourself some rest and let yourself grieve. We are blessed when you let us help you, so please include us in your friends to share about it. I am just so sad you are having to go through this. He reminds me of so many wonderful husbands my friends and I have. Love and Hugs, Jan

I am so sorry to hear the loss of your beloved hubby. He has the face of someone who was gentle and kind. My God be with you and your family and watch over you. There are no words to make you feel better, just know that he is with you now and always.
Hugs Jerri

So sorry to read this and thanks for the pic. of your hubby - a kind and happy looking man ! I will be thinking of you in the days to come. Try and keep yourself busy - and a big HUG from me.