I haven't been on here in awhile I had a tragedy about 4 months ago on a saturday morning April 28th I walked into kitchen/dining area asked my husband a question when he didn't answer I looked towards his chair I thought he might be asleep in his lift chair about 3 years ago he had hurt his knee & couldn't hardly walk to good but health wise he was going to gym & working on growing him some peppers in the garden so he had alittle activity but he wasn't asleep he had passed away the coroner said it was a heart attack but I believe he had fluid around his heart & drown he was swelled so bad & didn't take his water pill the way he should also some doctors give older people way too many prescriptions this has been the most horrible time in my life I have lost other loved ones I was real close too but nothing as bad as this he was my bestfriend it is very hard dealing with this I still need lots of prayer every day is a battle it seems, I have missed all your projects I'll have to try to catch up on your awesome projects!

I too lost my dh suddenly a year after he had recovered from heart failur, and it is the most devastating loss to lose your soul mate and friend. As they are so close to you in your everyday life it is an enormous loss. I send you my prayers for you to get through this and remember all the good times. Hugs, Sheila

May angels attend to your needs at this time. I pray that you might have peace and comfort. CJ

I cannot imagine your pain.
My prayers are with you.
Hugs,
Jacqueline

Prayers going up for you.
God bless

What a terrible shock and loss for you. Know that my prayers are with you. Hugs Joyce

My dear there are others here that have also walked in your shoes. We know how it is when your ache is so bad it is difficult to get your breath. I am sorry we did not know of this sooner. Only God can know the feelings you have deep within yourself and he can give you comfort. My heart goes out to you. God bless/Lillian

So sorry to hear about your loss. Soon you will be back on track will keep you in my prayers. Hugs Marie

so sorry about your loss.....but just think he is in a better place now and no more suffering.....i would love to go this way ....just go to sleep....peacefull....xD

So sorry to hear of your loss. Will keep you in my prayers. Hugs Yvonne

My heart goes out to you, I too have a hubby with not so good health that is on a bunch of pills but doesn't take care of himself and I watch him a lot when he is sleeping to make sure he is breathing. I worry so about losing him. Enough about mine, I wish you peace and knowing he is watching over you now and I hope you can get your life going in a positive way. Bunches of hugs coming your way. Debra

I am so sorry for your loss. Having your husband as your best friend makes this doubly hard. Thoughts and prayers are surrounding you. May the peace of God be with you.

MY DEEPISHT CONDOLANCES TO YOU.I CANT EMAGIN YOUR LOSS.I WOULD BE DEVESTATED IF SOMETHING HAPPENED TO WALTER.MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND BRING JOY AND HAPPNESS BACK INTO YOUR LIFE...LUCY

I'm sending you a cyber hug& my heartfelt sympathy for you. Praying you'll know God's loving arms are there to comfort you day by day. Trust you'll take one day at a time slow &easy as you find a pace that's best for you. :~D

I am so very sorry for your loss, but we have to accept what life deals us and go on. It isn't easy, but the Lord knows best what we should do. He has a plan, and we need to try our best to adhere to it. You are in His miraculous hands, and He loves YOU!
Hugs, Angel

I am so sorry for you loss. I will be praying for you.

I am so very sorry to hear about your husband. My heart goes out to you. will keep you in my prayes. Take care of youself we all love you
Love Brenda

I am sincerely sorry for your loss...may GOD bless you and your family thru this time...remember him with your fondest memories of your wonderful years together and remember that he is up there keeping an eye on you...take care and lots of hugs of comfort.

Please talk to us. My heart goes out to you and I am praying for you. May God carry you through this terrible loss and pain. I hope you will find that you are loved here amongst us, the cutiests cuties ever. Lovies.*****

What has happened to you is something I dread might happen one day. The good thing is you have come back to cute to talk about what happened and to try to rebuild your life.
that must surely be a first step to healing.
We will all pray for you. and hope that life will look up once again one day soon.

my condolences on your loss. Remember all of the good times you had together. It's all right to talk about him with your family & friends. It will help to ease your pain. Soft hugs and prayers for you.

I am so sad for you. I wish I could make the pain you go through go away. I can't but I will pray that you may find every day a little more peace.
Hugs Angie

My heart goes out to you. 9 years ago, it happened to me. No warning, he just fell down and died. I, too, touched nothing for months. Sewing, embroidery, now grandkids, keep me going. (Slong with the job I now need to go to). And I found here a wonderful community of caring people that also face adversity and carry on. Go be with you in your journey into a new life.
Jo

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by jofrog2000 26 Aug 2012

Bad fingers. God be with you, always. Peace,love, and a hug.

Am so sorry to read of your loss. I can not imagine how you must feel,Sending you hugs. Aleene

So sorry for your loss. Please know you are in my prayers.
Take all the time you need, your Cute family will be here when you are ready.

Loving hugs, Bonnie

Sorry to read this sad news. It is hard to go one with your life when someone dear has passed away. Do know that we all care for you and if there's any way we can help you please let us know. Sending prayers and lots of strenght to you. Glad to see you back with us.

How very sad for you.... Life seems so very fragile.
As meg has said., it's something we all dread, loosing the love of our life.
I'm sending my deepest sympathy & loads of hugs to you.
kitty

So sorry for you terrible loss, my prayer is for our Comforter to take you in His arms, to comfort you and give you strength to carry on, and to turn your tears of sorrow into tears of joy, hugs S*

very sorry for you loss my prayers are an your way

Such a shock, keep your chin up. Jan

I am so sorry for your loss. It will take time to heal I know as it did for me. God be with you. Stay close to family and friends as it helps.

My prayers and best wishes in coming to terms with your sad loss.
Hope you find comfort, and allow the healing process to take its coarse.
May God strengthen you day by day.
Hugs Bev

I am so sorry for your loss and will keep you in my prayers,

I am so very sorry that you have lost your husband. I really cannot imagine what you are going through. I hope you have family close at hand to help you through these dark times. Thinking of you. Hugs Sarah.

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I am so sorry for your loss! Prayers and hugs coming your way.

You have a strong spirit and hold on to it tight and Pray with your complete spirit, HE will hear and answer. Just that, it will be in his time, not yours. My Prayers will be for you. Marlene

This is the one thing all we women dread the most and even though we know it will happen one day, and we try to prepare ourselves, there is really nothing that can prepare us for this kind of loss.
Yes, I have been there and the enormity of our loss is truly overwhelming.
I am so glad you came back here to your Cute family, we will share your grief and try to lift your spirits, as only Cuties can, through love and understanding and most of all compassion, because we all will face this at some time in our lives and there are many here who already have.
I will pray for you in your time of loss and sorrow but mostly I will pray for Him to give you the strength to get through your grief and come out the other side, ready to continue your life and be there for the rest of your family who need you.
My sincere, most heartfelt sympathy, Meg

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Oh my, I am so sad reading about your dear husband's passing away. You will be in my prayers and I will ask the Lord to bring you comfort and fill your emptiness with His warmth and love! May the everlasting and ever present Lord bless you and keep you as you begin, work through and complete each day and and greet the evenings. May He hold you close all the days to come!!

Oh, I am so very sorry for your loss, and my heart just breaks for you.I will pray for you, God will give you strength, and eventually peace. I'm glad he didn't suffer. Hugs, Jan

Oh my! I can imagine the shock and all of the feelings you went through. He probably didn't even know anything was wrong and went peacefully, but that doesn't help you in the slightest. My dad had a similar experience. He got up to go to the bathroom, fell, and was gone. About 2 weeks ago, I walked in to the kitchen to find my husband on the floor face down. He wasn't breathing and was shaking. I got him rolled over for CPR and got him breathing again. Turns out, he had taken a drink of juice and choked on it. I had just bought an MP3 player that afternoon and was trying it out, so I didn't hear him. I could very well have lost him that day. Now I just cannot bear to use that thing!
I wish you the very best. Hang in there!
Deanna

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by hightechgrammy 25 Aug 2012

Oh My, Deanna, what a huge scare!

So sorry to read this post. I hope that the passing of time is easing some of your grief and be assured of our prayers from all the prayer warriors on this site. God is just but a prayer away. May God continue to envelop you in His loving arms. Love and blessings Chris

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I feel so bad for you, I have been married to my high school sweetheart for 46 years now, and I know how I would be lost without him... My prayers and thoughts are with you...

I have been married to my high school sweetheart and best friend for 53 years and I cannot imagine what life would be like without him. My heart is very heavy for you. You are in my prayers.

oh , sweetie I am so sorry. I do pray for you and we are here for you. Kay

I am so sorry. I just can not imagine the pain you are feeling. But know there are prayers all around the world being lifted up for you!

Sending up prayers for you. Just know that God has him in his keeping but you have him in your heart.

Sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers are with you.
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I am so very, very sorry. I know that you are struggling. I will be praying for you and your family as you mark the days until you begin to feel as normal as you can under the circumstances. We are here and if you need to talk or tell us things you remember or just need prayer, please ask. I am sending you a cyber hug for now. ;)

Such a terrible loss, I am so sorry for your loss & the sorrow you feel. Come spend more time here with your friends and perhaps we can help brighten your days just a bit....many hugs your way....

So sorry to hear this. What a truly horrifying thing to happen. I wish you well in getting past that dreadful experience and getting back to enjoyment of life.

My deepest sympathy to you. I will keep you in my thoughts & prayers and hope that soon the pain you feel at your loss will lessen. I have lost my parents, a child a grandchild and sibling but I can't imagine what losing my spouse will feel like. He too is my best friend. Hugs & Prayers, Liz

My deepest sympathy to you. I hope you have good suppport from family and friends and are not going through this alone. I'm sure you know all the Cuties will have you on thier prayer list now that they know you are hurting. You have taken a big step just by letting us know.

I am sorry to hear this! My heartfelt prayers go out to you and your family. The best thing you can do for yourself is to stay busy and keep your friends close to you. Keep the Lord in your heart and soon things will get much better. It is impossible to understand why things like that happen and change your life forever but be sure that the Lord has a plan for all of us. Hugs and Blessings, Linda

I'm so sorry for your loss,

My thoughts are prayers are with you, I am very sorry for your loss. Stella

I am so sorry. Please take this as a warm hug with prayer and loving caring for you,Joan

I have no great words of wisdom that will make you feel better.

Having been married to my sweetheart for over 55 years I can only imagine what you are going through.

I will say that the Lord is right there and knows all about it. Talk to Him, and I pray you will get some peace.

MJDG

My sincere condolences to you and your family. I know this has been a trying time for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May God provide comfort for you. Hugs, Mary

I am so sorry to hear this, I can't imagine how you must feel.
Hugs.
Alice.

Oh, I'm so sorry! My husband died like this as well, I know what a horrible feeling that is. Losing your best friend and life partner is like no other loss. Try to keep busy, and stay close to family and friends for company. You'll be in my prayers. Hugs, Marji

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I am truly sorry to hear of you sorrow and losing someone you love is horrible, I lost my daughter very suddenly and I don't know how I cope but I do and eventually you will too. My prayers tonight are for you and my thoughts will be with you ,

My prayers are with you. God bless you and your heart. love joann

Hugs and prayers for you. I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs..Carol

I am so sorry for your heartache. I will pray for you. God Bless

How awful for you. This is my worst fear. My husband has heart problems and COPD. We started dating in high school. He is my best friend too. I hope life is getting easier for you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs, Susan

sorry for this tragedy. prayers and hugs for you.It must be hard to go on, but it's good to see you back here again.

take one day at a time and Remember God is a close as the whisper of his name hugs and prayers carolyn

I too offer my most humble sympathies to you!I will be happy to add you to my prayer list! Hugs Loralye

My heart goes out to yo. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Hugs, Nadyne

So sorry for your loss. I went through somewhat the same thing.

Take one day at a time and things will get easier.
It took me over a year to start to fell like myself when this happened to me.
Make sure to spend time with other friends and family members.
Perhaps getting back to embroidery or sewing will help too.
Hugs to you!
EastWitch2

Sorry to hear of your hubbies passing. Just take it one day at a time and check in with your Cute family. I know what you're going through - been there done that (lost my mother, an uncle and hubby all in just under two months).
Take care.

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by pldc 25 Aug 2012

heartbreaking!

I am sorry.. You are in my prayers..
Hugs!
Judy

I am so sorry to read of your loss. I can not imagine how you must feel and will keep you in prayer and thoughts. :)