by theduchess 15 Jul 2012

Sorry I had not been in for a while. My dear aunt passed away after being ill from a fall.She was buried Friday. She was 92.Today I also received an email from my local Babylock dealer where she says that after 26 years she will be closing shop.She has been a friend and does not live close by and will be missed.So I am also thinking maybe it's time I sold my machines also.I just feel drained and so alone..

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by tracypullen 16 Jul 2012

Sounds like you are having a bit of depression, and rightly so. Don’t do anything rash. When I lost my mother I went through a depression. I found that exercise helped me. I couldn’t function on the drugs and the gym was just what I needed. Take some time and perhaps a walk and you will be feeling like your self soon enough. Hugs and Love to you.

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by sewfrenzie 16 Jul 2012

Oh Stella, I am so sorry to hear that. Don't do anything rash and sell oyur machines. You are just going through a rough time and need time to recover from all this. I don't get to use my machines as often as I'd like to but they sure do provide some stress releif and joy for me.
Prayers and hugs for you!
Diane

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by cjmelm 16 Jul 2012

I'm so sorry for your loss. Were here for you XOXO

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by gerryvb 16 Jul 2012

sorry to read this. hope you can feel the support of cuties here. don't sell your machine yet, perhaps when you look at the new designs and projects here you feel like embroidering again. Take the time to get over you loss.here's a hug with prayers for you .

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by 1sewnsew 16 Jul 2012

so sorry for you loss and as everyone has said, hold off on making big changes.

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by ansalu 16 Jul 2012

Stella we don't wanna miss you here and I'm sure after a while you will be inspired again from the projects and all the wonderful designs in DBC.
For now just cover your machines and enjoy the summer. When it is autumn again and christmas comes with big steps you will start again being crafty I bet ;o)
Greetings, Bettina

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by airyfairy 16 Jul 2012

Dear Stella, Please wait for a bit of time to elapse before you think of selling your machines. Your aunt's death has obviously been a huge upset for you. Take your time to grieve and I am sure you will soon be sewing again. Hugs Sarah.

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by edithfarminer 16 Jul 2012

I also agree with everyone else to take your time, especially your treasured machine. It might help you in the end when you feel up to it to start making some things and taking your mind of your sad loss. You also have lots of friends here on cute.
Sending you a big hug edith

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by janetedna 16 Jul 2012

You've not had a very nice time, sorry. Give it time. Regards Jan

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by blueeyedblonde 15 Jul 2012

Sorry to hear of your loss.
It's always best to wait to make decisions - never in haste! Once you have grieved, you'll probably want your machines - you'll be able to do something in memory of your aunt. I'm sure she wouldn't want to you stop your enjoyment.
Take care.

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by kitty2011 15 Jul 2012

What a very sad time for you.
Please don't give up on something that gives you joy..

This is a tough time for you, but you're not alone, you can always find someone to talk to here on cute.
Sending you special hugs - kitty

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by drro 15 Jul 2012

Dear Stella, I am sorry to read about your aunt. And too, I know how hard it is when a shopkeeper...who is also a friend...closes down! But, like the Cuties here have said, wait a bit before you do anything. You might find after your solace that you will want to fill your days with stitching soon enough. Hugs and God bless, and prayers for you to feel better real soon!!

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by pennifold 15 Jul 2012

Dear Stella, I agree with everyone else. By all means grieve for your Aunt, but don't do anything too soon about your sewing machine. There are a lot of us on here who for some reason or another have a break from sewing. Take time and as Angie has said maybe look for a new project to do. What about a memory quilt in honour of your Aunt? Sorry to hear about the shop closing. Love and blessings Chris

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by crafter2243 Moderator 15 Jul 2012

Stella now is not the time to make important decisions. Like Jerrilyn said you can always do that down the road. Give yourself time to morn and you may find that you need a pick me up. For me it is a new project and if that is the same for you you may want to dust off your machine. Come here and meet with us.I am so sorry you have to go through this.
Hugs Angie

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by mariahail 15 Jul 2012

Dear friend, I am very sorry about your aunt, I have a older aunt that I love very much and can put myself in your shoes...DO NOT SELL YOUR SEWING MACHINES, PLEASE. you can drive to Katy and visit me if they brake down, I am one two blocks from the dealer...You are feeling depressed now and need to rest for a while, you will feel so much better, Hugs and blessings.

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by alexgrandma 15 Jul 2012

Hugs!!

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by jrob Moderator 15 Jul 2012

Stella, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your aunt. I remember you posting about her before. What a blessing to have 92 years. Remember that you are in shock and trying to deal with this grief. Take plenty of time before you do something that you regret and then later on say 6 months down the road, if you still want to sell your machines, then go ahead. We are here for you. ;)

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by rescuer Moderator 15 Jul 2012

You have hundreds of friends here on Cute. I need your input on designs and projects. I am certain that someone who lives near you could learn so much from you, if you are willing to teach them. Don't give up your hobby or your machines when you are sad. The sadness should pass and you will need your machines again. Give yourself some healing time and come here often for support.
I have always admired you. Your user name suits you well. You always comment with such grace. There is so much I could learn from you.

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by cfidl 15 Jul 2012

I love the sound of my machine. If all I had to do was embroidery I would be happy. We will be here for you whether you stitch or not. Take care of yourself. christine LLDS!

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by cooperal 15 Jul 2012

So sorry to hear of the loss of your Aunt. I'll be praying that God will be your comfort during this time of grief. I find that when I need quiet time, my sewing machine can be a good therapist!! Maybe some of your favourite designs on a new project will help uplift your spirits. I'm learning that this group is a very caring group and I trust we can be here for you. Blessings!

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by asterixsew Moderator 15 Jul 2012

Welcome back to Cute. Sorry to hear about your Aunt, she must have had a great life. Sorry you sound so low. Take care and dont do anything hasty that you will regret

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by shirlener88 15 Jul 2012

Stella, dear - I am so sorry to hear of your dear aunts passing. I will be praying for you.

Don't do anything rash - when you are feeling so done - use your machine and working with your designs to pick you up, rather than drain you.

We are always here for you dear.

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