My Aunt Arlene, my mothers sister passed away this morning from her fight with lung cancer. I hope she , may find peace and the welcome arms from the family who has gone before her as she enters into heaven. Even though I've knwn a for a while she was dying of cancer from second hand smoke, I cried when I heard she had passed on. Why does it still hurt when you know they are no longer suffering?

It's okay, Diane. it's okay to grieve for her. She was special to you and your heart grieves. I wish I could hold you and hug you and let you just cry. A little piece of your heart is broken. If she hadn't been so special to you, you wouldn't feel the pain. It's okay to grieve. Your mind knows she is no longer suffering, but your heart is breaking because you loved her. In time, you will be able to remember her and all the wonderful things about her and the joys you shared. But for now, let yourself grieve for her. It's okay. I wish I could give you a hug. Jan

I think that this is only natural. It hurts so much when a member of a family dies. It will take a while to get over your loss. Just remember all the happy times. You and your family are in my thoughts. Sarah.

I will be praying for you to feel comforted in knowing that your beloved Aunt is in heaven with her Lord and Savior. When we know that those who have believed as she did, there is the comfort and peace that comes from our faith. Also, we have hope, for we know we will be reunited some day, and that we will be united with our Lord Jesus. Take Heart. God will see you through this sad time and give you relief from the hurt you are feeling. Hugs and God Bless.

I am sorry for your loss. Knowing someone who is dying from cancer is rough. There are many reasons to cry when you loose someone, even when you no they are no longer suffering. ALL of them are perfectly normal - so don't feel guilty whatever the reason is.

Dianne, I am so sorry for you loss - it is so difficult to know why it still hurts when you know a loved one passed - when you know they are no longer suffering - I believe it is because of the love you shared - it is a loss - you grieve them. The good thing is - you were prepared and that does help. I will be praying for acceptance of God's will for you and the family.

Someone so special as your aunt can never be forgotten. I pray and hope that you find comfort and peace in the fond memories of your beloved Aunt Arlene.

I don't know why but it seems to last a while. Hang in there, christine

Awww- big Hug for you xx

Sending out hugs and prayers to you.

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by hightechgrammy 15 Jun 2012

May I have one of these hugs too?

Ah, Diane, it's because you loved her and will miss her. It does get easier with time, but you will always miss her if you were close at all. I will pray for your sweet heart to heal and find joy in the memories your dear aunt left with you. ;)