by letvia 10 May 2008

I am so sad. I made a request to join a Yahoo group "ND first semester" to learn to use Bernina Artista and they rejected me. I almost cry when read the email. Some times you can find bad people

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by jrob Moderator 10 May 2008

I'm sure you read this, but perhaps you missed it when you applied.....PLEASE DO NOT USE HOTMAIL, YAHOO, GMAIL, or other web-based addresses when applying for membership. They will only open mail from you that is from your internet provided. Hope this helps.;)

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by shirlener88 10 May 2008

Letvia, don't worry - you are accepted here and you will find another group to assist you - keep looking - as with God - NO is sometimes the answer! Hehehe! Try another. *4U

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by clawton 10 May 2008

There is probably a better group out there someplace!

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letvia by letvia 10 May 2008

I hope so. Thank you Clawton. Flower and XoXo

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by silver 10 May 2008

Sometimes you get rejected NOT for a specific reason but because the owner or moderator did not get the time to approve you.... In other words if they get busy or miss the notification that you applied Yahoo automatically rejects you after so many days... Don't feel bad... and don't assume they are 'bad' people. If it is a group you really want to join just go back and find out who is the owner/moderator and drop them an email and ask them why they rejected you. The main reason people usually get rejected for Yahoo groups is the group is not offering what people are looking for in a group or if you have been kicked out of other groups for some reason. That does not mean some people don't make biased choices as to who they let in. This group is strictly for lessons... no discussions allowed... They sure have some really strict rules... Who knows?...Maybe they have as many members as they want already. There are several other groups for Bernina software users tho...maybe try one of them?

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letvia by letvia 10 May 2008

I made the request last night and this morning I received the email telling me that I was rejected. They are offering lessons to learn to use the same software that I have, and I never have been rejected for another Yahoo Group or Forum, or anywhere else. I will look for another group to join. Thank you Silver for your advices in Sick too. Flower and XoXo

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by ezzemml 10 May 2008

I am sad they rejected you but i am happy that you are here with us.

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letvia by letvia 10 May 2008

Thank you so much ezzemml. Flower and XoXo

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by pafhen 10 May 2008

don't feel bad, they are the ones missing out

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letvia by letvia 10 May 2008

Thank you pafhen. Flower and XoXo

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by claudenicolas 10 May 2008

they were not worthy of having you in their group, did they give you a reason? Sure you willfind help on another group

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letvia by letvia 10 May 2008

No they just rejected me, for no reason. Flower and XoXo

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by relaxsew 10 May 2008

They must be crazy to not accept you. You will be better off without them! They are missing out on a great person! Maybe it is a sign for you not to get mixed up with the wrong people!

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letvia by letvia 10 May 2008

Thank you relaxsew. You are right, maybe that is a sign that they are the wrong group to join. Flower and XoXo

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by iris2006 10 May 2008

OOH letvia, I can nderstand that you are sad, but how can this happen??? Did the owner of the site give a reason why they rejected you??? If not don't cry, just look for another site because you don't need just that site if they don's want you as a member, good luck finfing another group to learn and a flower is on your way to cheer you up.

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letvia by letvia 10 May 2008

Thank you Iris. They didn't tell me anything. Yahoo told me that the group had rejected my petition and that the decision was final. I will look for another group. Flower and XoXo

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by marjialexa Moderator 10 May 2008

Oh, darling Letvia! How utterly stupid can some people be? How could you be rejected for trying to learn to use a digitizing program? That is just awful, and it is their loss, dear one, because they are missing out on your beautiful personality and willingness to learn and help others. Like Meg said, they are fools. You don't need them. Find another group that will appreciate your beauty & kindness, dear. I love you. Marji

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letvia by letvia 10 May 2008

Thank you so much Marji, you made me cry, but for good reason, because I know your kindness and friendship. I love you too. Flower and XoXo

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by meganne 10 May 2008

They are fools and you, Sweet Letvia, are better off without them. Did you search Yahoo groups for Bernina Artista groups, you are bound to find a better one. hugs n roses, Meganne

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letvia by letvia 10 May 2008

I didn't, but I will, I really want help to learn to use my software. Thank you dear Meganne. Flower and XoXo

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by simplyrosie 10 May 2008

Letvia, did they give you a reason??? Maybe they hit the wrong button??? :-( I'm sorry.......

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letvia by letvia 10 May 2008

No, I received an email from Yahoo telling me that the group had rejected my request and that the decision is final. Flower and XoXo

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by jrob Moderator 10 May 2008

Letvia, when that kind of people run the group, you were lucky to be spared from dealing with them. They don't deserve YOU, but there is another group out that will want the treasure that is Letvia!;)

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letvia by letvia 10 May 2008

Thank you so much Jrob. You bring tears to my eyes. You are so sweet. Flower and XoXo

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by raels011 10 May 2008

I am sad for you too but sadder for them because they are the ones missing out on having such a nice person in their group * 4 U

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letvia by letvia 10 May 2008

Thank you so much Raelene. I just wanted to learn to use my software. Flower and XoXo

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