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Mollymarie , Just don't forget that you have a lot of friends (Sisters ) here to support you . My prayers are with you and your family.
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25533I just sent an email to our pastor and requested to have you put on our prayer list. We have a small congregation, but that is at least another 200 prayers going up!
3794I agree with everyone here. The best counsel to have is also the best shoulder to cry on. Our Savior, Jesus. Maybe this 'other woman' needs to look to the same source. It would hopefully make her a better person. Be sure that you are in my prayers, but we should also pray for her, that she would recognize Jesus in her life. If everyone did that, it would sure solve a lot of problems, wouldn't it?
3794Oh, Molly, what a mess! We are here for you, in spirit and prayer & moral support, but please get someone who is there with you, a minister, a counsellor, and a *Lawyer*! You need to be able to prove in court that your words were kind of like 'self-defense'. Above all, whatever happens, don't lose your temper. We will do all the praying we can, but you have the hardest job of all, that of taking the right action to make this come out ok. Please, please, honey, get local help for yourself & DH, you guys can't go it alone. We love you, Marji
by mollymarie
07 May 2008
Thankyou Marji I am doing every thing I can have alot of fantastic character references from Ppl who have know me from my firefighting days as a voulunteer 17 years all up. Lawyers dont come cheap so will have to see about that one. Thankyou
33451hope everything turns out well for you, and if you both want to stay together, you'll both have to fight for it and make it work.and know that you've got lots off friends here who all want to help you in the way that's possible.*4u
by mollymarie
07 May 2008
Thankyou we are trying sooooo hard, and some days it isnt easy trust me but when i married it was for ever for better for worse
740279Mollymarie this woman is treading on DANGEROUS grounds. God said what HE has put together let no man put asunder (Mark 10:9). Just KNOW that the PRAYERS of the RIGHTEOUS AVAILETH MUCH. The BATTLE is NOT YOURS but the LORD ;) Be BLESSED and know that GOD FIGHTS with VENGENCE ;0 HIS PEACE I leave with YOU :0
63109My prayers are with you and hope that everything turns out well for you. You need to find a minister to talk to, not so much for advice but just to talk to someone.
by mollymarie
07 May 2008
I have seen my local GP (doctor) and phycologist and have been on antidepressants since all this started,. I have a wonderful network of family especially my dad who lives over 1000km away but I can ring him any time.Thanks
735Molly dear, I wanted to write separately from my previous post below so the entry would come to the top of the "Questions" blog. Right now, as hard as it may be, you need to seek legal council. Regardless of whether your words were said in anger, the other woman unfortunatley (it appears) has it on record that you mean her harm. Were there any witnesses? And as for your spouse Sweetie, you cannot control his actions or that of another woman's. You can only look inward and see what needs to be changed from your side. Please take this in love, but your marital issues didn't start with the other woman. I would strongly encourage you to seek the LORD first, then Christian counseling to get to the root of the issues at hand. Honey, I've been there... and you will only find victory in your marriage if you make the decision to change FIRST. You're not responsible for him... he is not your project or assignment. That is reserved for GOD. I love you in the LORD Molly... and I pray you take what I said in that love... Satan is out to destroy marriages... but GOD is out to restore them. My prayer for you and your husband is inward healing so that GOD may be glorified. xoxo
by mollymarie
07 May 2008
Simplyrisie, you have made me cry, for what you said is soooo true, I needed to change alot of things, and I am working on this. Yes there was a witness however in his statement he LIED as he was nowhere around at the time, they are very good friends and I think she has been in his ear. Thankyou SOOOO MUCH you are an inspiring lady
33574Hi Mollymarie! Sounds like there are quite a lot of us with big problems at the moment.We in our family are just taking everyday as it comes.United we stand devided we fall Big hugs & *** 4u
by mollymarie
07 May 2008
That is what i have been doing also, somedays I feel better than others, My thoughts are with you in your troubled time also. Thankyou
4290Oh dear Mollymarie. I will keep you in my prayers. As Jrob said, you need somebody who testify in your favor. I hope everything will be ok. Flower and XoXo
by mollymarie
07 May 2008
Letvia thankyou every person that has replied has put faith back in my self . Thankyou
44254Oh Mollymarie - what a troubled time You have in Your life now! I send You all the best thoughts and (((((((hugs))))))) I can send via internet. As Ruthie said - it seems that WOMAN is sore loser !!! You won already that woman and You do it again in court- if it`s goes there! You are in my thoughts - all the BEST for You and your husband !
2758When i am under stress i always think of this .......DO NOT BE AFRAID OF TOMORRW AS GOD IS ALREADY THERE .... our prayers are with you.
18167Molly, have just found this one. She must be a very lonely and spitefuly, desperate woman to go after someone else's hubby. Prayers for you and whatever the outcome, whatever the stress it is understandibly putting on you both, in the end, he is yours and happiness is the best revenge. You will get through this.
by mollymarie
07 May 2008
Thankyou and this isnt the first time she has stepped into someone elses marriage, i fought and now will have to fight again.
2665Mollymarie. you are in ALL our thoughts and prayers.Forget about the old man grabber and love your hubby. With any good sense at all the judge will throw it out and you will of worried for nothing.Prayers, Love, hugs, and big big bunch of flowers to you.
by mollymarie
07 May 2008
I love my hubby and that is how I have got my self into this mess LOL Thankyou
8150Molly, please go to a minister that you trust or find someone in your community that personally knows a Godly man or woman you can go to for help and advice. We can help from here but you need someone physically in your corner. They even may need to testify for you if this goes to court. I will lift you up in prayers and pray that you are surrounded by a hedge of thorns that is impenetrable by evil. God bless your marriage and remember, sometimes the lessons we learn hurt. God doesn't abandon us, He is waiting right where we left Him.
by mollymarie
07 May 2008
I have seen my local GP (doctor) and phycologist and have been on antidepressants since all this started,. I have a wonderful network of family especially my dad who lives over 1000km away but I can ring him any time.Thanks
158553Oh molly, how awful for you, first to feel that you were losing your DH to another woman, so much so that you had to fight for him, but now to have to face court for it. Sounds to me like she is a sore loser. You certainly have my heartfelt thoughts and prayers sweetie that you will come out of this the *winner* in all ways. Hugs and flowers for you molly.
13558I will keep you and your hubby in my prayers. What is this world coming to when you can't fight for your own marriage, and just with words. You should not even have to pay fine or do community work....depends what the words were, not threats I hope. Lean on God and His strength for now and know your cute sisters are praying for you. Bouquet of flowers for you today. ><>
15057Molly u & your hubby r in my prayers.Sometimes life deals us a hard blow. Stand by your man, have faith in God & try not to say or do anything that could be held against U. Do U have children? Do U have clergy or a close friend to stand with U?. We r all 4U *4U
145789My prayers are with you and your hubby and I am so glad that he knows that you love him and is standing by you. Hugs for both of you.
by mollymarie
06 May 2008
Thankyou,yes he is standing by me but it is putting alot of stress on us both
by missann
07 May 2008
Yes, this would be just horribly stressful! Hugs and remember, prayers are very strong and we will keep saying prayers for you and him. We may not be able to hug you in person, but we all hug you in our prayers.
2083Molly, I will keep you both in prayer. Did your husband or the other woman charge you with abuse allegations? Are you scheduled for a hearing in court? Hugs honey!
by mollymarie
06 May 2008
No the other Women has, she uses the laz where ever she can. I havent got court date as yet but will let you all no
33574Molly, You will have all the "cuties" support (as you know) and you and your husband will be lifted in pray over and over again. May you be given the strength to get through what is ahead of you during this trying time. Wrap your arms around your DH and know that you are loved. Much Luv and hugs and *4U from me. Sue
by mollymarie
06 May 2008
I tell him every day sometimes more that i love him, and of course show him in every possiable way.
5924Forget the other person & give your D/H all the love you have. He will stay. All the best. Bunch of flowers to cheer you up. *********
by mollymarie
06 May 2008
Thankyou, so far he has stayed and tells me he is not interested in the other WOMEN
42046My thoughts and prayers will be with you and your hubby as you go through this trying time. Your 'Cute' family will stand by you!!
22886We will keep you in our prayers. Hope everything turns out alright and that your husband stands by you in this.
by mollymarie
06 May 2008
Me to i am scared and not sure what to expect, hopefully just a fine or community work
62459except for a few choose words, now I have just found out that I have been charged for ABUSE. So be careful with the choose of words as they can get you in to trouble. I will be 43 in a couple weeks and have never done anything illeagal and when I fought hard to save a marriage this is what happened.
My husband was faithful to me but this WOMEN tried her hardest to get her hands on to him. I have been with this Man for 25years and wasnt going to let someone else take him. Now I am paying for trying to save my marrigae. This has come as a big hock to me but at least I have my HUBBY. So please aveyone I need your guidance and care that I seem to have wittness here on a number of occasions. Love to you all.
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