I don't have the option to create the monogram first so I have to stitch each letter separately. Do I put the grooms initial first or the brides? And I think I want the first name initials smaller but I'm not sure. Any suggestions?

Ok, I've figured out what order I want to do this in but I am still having some trouble with placement. I wonder if anyone is willing to create a design for me of the monogram? The letters are AFT for a 4x4 hoop in just a nice font - no design. Thanks.

The ones I did for a wedding I just put the last initial and used Embossed Swan Font off Cute. Turned out, I think, very nice. I modified it for the his and hers towels.

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thanks for asking this question and a good answer...
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Embroidery library has a wonderful section of How-tos. Check out the link below, also look over to your right and see "ask the community" rectangle and just UNDER that is a search engine: Google Custom Search. It will search this site for previously asked/answered questions. Hope this helps! ;)