Mary I have never lost someone so dear to me, but I do know how frustrating it is when people think that your children and siblings is a substitute for a partner. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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19430Sorry I have not been posted for days, I am with some freinds, Thank you all God bless you all!!!!
26714Mary, time heals but it takes time! Talk helps too! Thinking of you! Hugs Sally
24342Hi Mary, so sorry that you are feeling so very lonely. My thoughts are with you at this time. Big hugs Sarah.
253108Mary, You might not believe it now, but it does get easier as time goes by. Just hang on a moment and I will come over and we can go shopping. That always helps. Hugs.
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211078I can only imagine what you are going through, and I understand you. It has to be sooooo hard
I pray the Lord helps you. I send you a big hug. May He send you good friends to help you through this. Someone you can talk to and share your heart with.
We are here for you, as much as we can be. Hugs
12821Mary if you can get your hands on a book called Widowed by Dr. Joyce Brothers. It would help you, she wrote it after sh her husband of many yrs. died. It helped me a lot when my husband died. she has written several books on grief & any of them would be of help to you. You should be able to find them in your local Library. I am thinking of you/Lillian
145789Mary, So sorry to hear your news.
Think of all the good times that you have had
with him.
I'm sure he is watching over you.
You are in my prayers.
Hugs Yvonne
132773Caramba Mary, que pena, no me habia dado cuenta, te comprendo y se cuanto estaras sufriendo y lo triste que habra sido todo esto para ti. Lo siento inmensamente y quisiera que mis brazos fueran muy largos para llegar hasta a ti y abrazarte fuertemente y decirte que cuentas conmigo. Entiendo que tener una familia no es suficiente para reemplazar a tu querido esposo, pero si una razon mas para seguir viviendo. Mi hija me ha quitado a mis nietos sin ningun motivo, mi hijo vive lejos, yo estoy divorciada hace muchos anos, tuve que hacerlo aun sin querer, no tengo a nadie en el mundo y me siento muy sola por eso comprendo tu pena. Que Dios te acompane, te ayude y te de fuerzas de seguir adelante. Dios te bendiga. Abrazos.
60484Dear Mary,
I'm so sorry you are feeling so blue. Nothing I can say will change that. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Daisy
12707Mary:
He will always be with you. You will feel his love touch you in so many ways. I know not physically, but he will be there with you all the way, until you meet again.
30631My thoughts are with you. Time may make it easier but I don't think the missing him will totally go away. We just start to zero in on the special moments more. I think it is ok to miss him!
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72397Your life has changed and it is OK to grief and remember the one you have loved for many years. Make sure you are taking good care of yourself and do something you have always wanted to do for yourself but couldn't. Blessings and a Big Hug!
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109763Dear Mary, Only time will give you the healing that you desire. I find that I can distract myself when I feel lonely, by finding someone else I can do something for. Just a suggestion, that works for me. May God send you healing and joy very soon.
158560Mary, I am so sorry. Your entire life has been changed in the passing of a moment. I know the house seems big and empty right now. And your schedule is totaly changed. It is awful to cook and clean for just yourself. But hang in there. Seek out grief counseling if you need to. We want you to get healthy again. Time will help and we are always here for you. Keep on talking to us. Too many of the Cute family are in the same boat and will be helpful.
168969Mary, I'm so sorry you having to go through all the saddness that follows losing a loved one. I can't know how you truly feel since I still have my DH, but being in the ministry we see all the heart ache of those who have lost their spouses or other loved ones. Take one day at a time and trust that God will see you through each day. It takes time to adjust to such a great lose. Stay busy and try to remember all the wonderful times you had with your DH. God bless you. Hugs, Judy
10530Mary,
True, you may not have him physically near you, but you
have him close each day with all the wonderful memories! These are what sustain us, when we lose a loved one. Staying busy with activities and other people will help
fill the void, but it does not stop the grieving. It is too soon; you are still working through your grief and loss. One never gets past missing someone so dear, but, each day you focus on the happy life he wants you to live, you will gain acceptance, peace, contentment, and strength to move forward. It takes time, but, you WILL get to that point!
Hang in there! My prayers are with you for each day to get a bit better, and I have faith they will! Smile! He's watching, and wants you to do just that!!
Hugs,
Angel
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