by cicadamn 08 Apr 2011

I lost my dear Brother yester to cancer, I just cannot come to terms with it, we will miss him so much. Cica South Africa

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by grandmamek 09 Apr 2011

I am sorry for your loss. I have prayed for peace and acceptance for you and your family. May you find peace and acceptance with all the happy memories of him and that he is no longer suffering from this terrible disease. Hugs, Mary

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by cicadamn 09 Apr 2011

You are all so wonderful, what would we do without our Cutie Family, U have already helped me a great deal, Thursday we will gather for his Memorial. Love and thank to u all Cica from Sou Africa

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by maryloo 09 Apr 2011

so very sorry for your lost thinking off you

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by anitapatch 09 Apr 2011

I am so sorry

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by pennifold 09 Apr 2011

So sorry Cica to hear of your brother's death. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers at this sad time. And time is a healer, so I pray that our Lord will give you a peace which passes all understanding. Memories will live on in you. Love and blessings Chris

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by leenova54 09 Apr 2011

So sorry, no words I could write will ease your grief so just know we are thinking of you in your time of need.

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by gramsbear 08 Apr 2011

I am so sorry to gear about your loss. Please remember God knows what He is doing, and He is in control. Just keep looking up to Him. You are in my Prayers. Hugs & Prayers, Judy

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by noah 08 Apr 2011

i am sorry for your loss.Draw near to God and he will draw near to you be comforted ,big hugs carolyn

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by mi30kaja 08 Apr 2011

May he rest in Peace. His pain is now over. My thoughts are with you and your Family and Friends. Lyn

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by ramona 08 Apr 2011

I'm so sorry for your loss. Prayers for you and your family.

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by jrob Moderator 08 Apr 2011

I'm so very sorry for your loss. I lost my baby brother 3 years ago. It is a hard thing to get past, but now I just have such sweet memories of him. I pray that you will soon only smile when you remember your dear brother.

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by jules40 08 Apr 2011

oh dear i do feel for you.

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by anangel 08 Apr 2011

Cica,
I am deeply sorry for your loss, and I can empathize, as I have lost two of my brothers to cancer. Another of my brothers has bone cancer presently. The Big "C" is extremely genetic in our
family, and so many have been affected.
My prayers are with you grieve and accept the Lord's will. May He give you a special strength in the days ahead. Allow the wonderful memories you shared with your brother to lift your heart and make you smile. That is what he would want!
Angel

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by manami 08 Apr 2011

Dear Cica, I'm so sorry for you loss. I only can imagine how difficult is this time for you. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Love and blessings, Yoriko

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by piebaldbully 08 Apr 2011

Cica, you bring tears to my eyes.. try and remember the good times and know that he can rest in peace.. Wendi

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by beatie58 08 Apr 2011

Thinking of you at this very difficult and sad time. Hugs Sally

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by debrar 08 Apr 2011

I am so sorry for your loss and I have prayed for you. I know you will miss him, but try to remember him when he was well and happy right now.

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by sewlikedawn 08 Apr 2011

So sorry for your loss! Remember the fun and silly times that you had together when you were growing up. If you think back you could probably come up with a few. Take care and God Bless
Hugs Dawn

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by drro 08 Apr 2011

So sorry to hear this. May you know that
".....those who wait on the Lord Shall renew their strength;
They shall mount up with wings like eagles,
They shall run and not be weary,
They shall walk and not faint."
NKJV. Isaiah 40:31.
The Lord be with you & keep you and your family.

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by crafter2243 Moderator 08 Apr 2011

I can only imagine how much you miss your brother. I am so sorry that you lost him to this miserable decease. I hope he did not have to suffer too much. Hugs to you.

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by kraai 08 Apr 2011

Cica sorry for your loss. My prayers is with you

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by capoodle 08 Apr 2011

Thinking of you during this difficult time. Thoughts and prayers are with you.

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by jacquipaul 08 Apr 2011

You are in my thoughts and prayers. I can only imagine how much you'll miss him.
Hugs,
Jacqueline

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by sewbadly 08 Apr 2011

Take care of yourself. Sorry, for your loss.

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by mary51 08 Apr 2011

My simphathy for you and all your family,God bless you all.

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by obaachan 08 Apr 2011

Sorry for your loss.. :(

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by jheshaam 08 Apr 2011

I am sorry for your loss. no word can express the loss we feel. i too lost a brother last year. time is the healer. now when i remember him i chose to smile & remember the good times we shared. i think he would like that. i pray that time will bring you peace, so that one day you will smile for your brother too.

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by sandikat2 08 Apr 2011

Please accept my heartfelt sympathy. The loss is overwhelming in the beginning. My only brother now has cancer and I will miss him dearly as you will miss yours.

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cicadamn by cicadamn 08 Apr 2011

I feel for you, it is heartbreaking to watch a loved one gooing downhill so quickly. Love to you Cica

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by catsnhorses 08 Apr 2011

I am so sorry for the loss of your dear brother! My thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of your family during these difficult times. God bless you all.
Marion in Kentucky

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by muflotex 08 Apr 2011

Cica, I am sorry for your loss. There is a story I once heard that I'd like to tell you. If a loved one leaves the familiy to go to the other side. He or she will not leave rightaway. Their souls stick around for roundabout 6 month so say goodbye and see after their loved ones, after the 6 months, (please read this with your and your brothers humor in mind) they kick your butt to go on with your life and bug you when they can, you will know in your heart he will always be there. Hope I found the right words in english. May peace and love be with y'all. Sue

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by joann1 08 Apr 2011

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll be think of you and prays for you and your loved ones. JoAnn

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by holly12 08 Apr 2011

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I understand I loss my brother when he was 39yrs old & it is very hard to deal with I will keep you in my prayers. Arlene

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by elizabethak 08 Apr 2011

I am s0 sorry to hear of your loss. I too lost a brother to cancer and know how you feel Gob be with you

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by clawton 08 Apr 2011

Sorry to hear of your loss. You will always have him in your heart and mind.

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by mechille 08 Apr 2011

So sorry to hear about your brother. Our prayers will be with you during this time.

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by airyfairy 08 Apr 2011

I am so terribly sorry for the loss of your brother. We are all here for you. Sarah, Knysna, South Africa

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by docsjoy1126 08 Apr 2011

I wish there were words that would ease your pain and heartache, but in any language, there is none. All I can tell you is with time passes, your tears will lessen, your ache will ease, and they will be replaced with memories of happier times. Until then, just know that you have a circle of embroidery friends whose names you don't know, and faces you've never seen, that are praying for you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

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by castelyn 08 Apr 2011

Cica, so sorry to hear of your loss. You will always miss him, try to think of all the good times that you had with him. He is in a better place and no more pain. Hugs Yvonne

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by fanniefrannie 08 Apr 2011

It is very hard to loose anyone you love. From experience I know time will help you heal. Try to remember something enduring about him and knowing that he is no longer suffering. May God guide, bless and keep you in your time of need. My prayes....

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by babsie 08 Apr 2011

Cica put all your faith in God for He can and will help you through this. I lost my husband and brother within 3 weeks from each other in 2003 and I know God did heal my wounds. You will always remember and love them but the hurt does get less. I will pray for you. Babsie, Centurion, South Africa.

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by kalinelson 08 Apr 2011

My heart goes out to you....I will be praying for you and your family....God will bring you through your season of sorrow, but I know this will take time.....Gods blessing, love, mercy and grace to you and your family....Janet

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by bonnielapolla 08 Apr 2011

Cica
I am very sorry for your loss.

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by rmj8939 08 Apr 2011

I am so sorry about you loss of brother Cica.

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by edithfarminer 08 Apr 2011

Cica, It is such a terrible loss, but someone said to one person in a group who lost her mother in law and you might understand dutch a bit as it is called - overlijden in Holland and she said, het lijden is over, that is where the word comes form and yes it was true and I will always remember that Your brother is now over all the pain, that might give you some comfort. will pray for you Hugs edith

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by shirlener88 08 Apr 2011

Cica, I am so sorry for you loss - it takes time.

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by gerryvb 08 Apr 2011

dear Cica, sorry you lost your brother.It's hard and hardly to understand to say goodbye to someone you love. You are in my prayers to accept it. Now you feel a lot of sadness but try to look back to all the lovely memories and cherish the time you had together.he will always hold that special place in your heart. Out of sight but never out of heart.and know he will have no pain anymore. Wish you and family a lot of strength hope you can support each other. Hugs and prayers for you.

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by blueeyedblonde 08 Apr 2011

Sorry for you loss. I know what you're going through, but like one of the others said, time does heal. We never forget them - they are always with us in our memories, but at least he is no longer in pain.

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by judybell 08 Apr 2011

Cica, I'm sorry for your loss and will lift you and your family up in prayer. Hugs, Judy

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by ermaplatt 08 Apr 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. I will be thinking of you and your family.

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by markus 08 Apr 2011

Cica,I'm so sorry for your loss. I losted my mother a few years back to cancer. Just rember he is no longer suffering. You are in myn Prayers.
Alice South Africa

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by hightechgrammy 08 Apr 2011

double prayers

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by hightechgrammy 08 Apr 2011

Oh Cica, I wish I could hold you and let you cry. Just cry now and don't try to understand. It's okay to just cry. Love to you from around the world. I will pray for your strength and comfort and for your family. Jan

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by jjjj 08 Apr 2011

I am truely sorry for the loss of your brother. Loosing a sibling is, I think, one of the hardest losses to bear. I know I lost my elder sister in her 50th year. We do not expect to loose those in our own generation do we? You will never forget your brother but the pain does lessen given time. I do not say this lightly and it is no platitude, because, eventually the pain does lessen, I just can't say the gap his leaving will ever be filled though. Try (and yes it's very hard because your pain is so great at the moment) to remember something that you both shared that made you both smile.

Maybe at some time in the future these words may bring some comfort to you. I wish you strength to deal with the difficult time you will be travelling through.

Very sincerely yours

jjjj

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by dailylaundry 08 Apr 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. It must be hard to come to terms with. Your pain is a measure of how much you loved him. Know that we will have you in our prayers (and your family)!!*

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by rwalden 08 Apr 2011

Cica, I'm so sorry for your loss. You'll always have him in your heart and in your memories. My brother is dealing with lung cancer now in both lungs and between his lungs. He had a foot of his colon removed about 8 months ago because of cancer. I'll remember you in my prayers. Reva

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by basketkase 08 Apr 2011

Cica.......No words can convey how I feel for your loss.....may God put his loving arms around you and your family right now and comfort you all....Vicki

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by cclark 08 Apr 2011

I feel for you. I lost my oldest brother a few years back. Remember all the great times you had with him & the love you shared. Hugs, Charla

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cicadamn by cicadamn 08 Apr 2011

I thank U all for these loving words, tears are running down when I read such wonderful things U cuties write. Thank you Cica

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by briauna9 08 Apr 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. Just remember and hold unto your memories. And may God bless you and yours.

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by bellabetty 08 Apr 2011

So sorry for your loss, Cica, may our Lord draw so near to you at this time and may you feel His presence - you are in my thoughts and prayers.

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by bevgrift 08 Apr 2011

I am very sorry.
My heartfelt prayers for you.
Hugs Bev

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by sassylady 08 Apr 2011

I do feel so sorry for your loss. I will have you in my Prayers. The good Lord will always be there to lean upon and help you through this, if you will ask him. You take good care of yourself. Marlene

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by rw9340 08 Apr 2011

I am so sorry for your lost, my thoughts and prayers are with you in your recovery of your brothers lost.

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by ksgram1 08 Apr 2011

Cica, I'm so sorry for your loss. Perhaps it will help for you to remember that he is no longer suffering, and that each day brings you one day closer to being with him again. Meanwhile, remember all the good times, and special things that he did. Your family and you are in my prayers. May you feel God's loving comfort.~ Marjorie***

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by camylow 08 Apr 2011

I am so sorry....May you feel the LORDS loving arms wrap around you to comfort you and yours....lean on your cute friends when you feel the need.....deanna

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cicadamn by cicadamn 08 Apr 2011

Thank you all for your wonderful comfort, I keep walking from room to room dont know what to do with myself?

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