by jrob Moderator 06 Mar 2008

RUTHIE, WHERE ARE YOU? I AM MISSING YOU. ;)

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by marjialexa Moderator 08 Mar 2008

Ruthie, I have Fibro & CFS, too, I know what you're going through. So glad you have a DH who can help you!! Wish I could be there, but I can send Hugs & Flowers. Luv ya, Marji

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ruthie by ruthie 08 Mar 2008

Hi fellow Fibro & CFS survivor! How's things with you today, and I feel so sorry for you, having to look after yourself when you get bad days. I'm very lucky to have my gorgeous DH, wouldn't trade him for anything, he makes my bad times bearable. He also makes me laugh, which is very good. I wish you could be here too sweetie, I'd love to see you, and I reckon you and I would *never* stop talking, haha!!! Love, hugs and flowers to you Marji.

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by mimisews2 08 Mar 2008

God Bless You! Flowers and Hugs

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ruthie by ruthie 08 Mar 2008

Thank you mimi, hugs and flowers to you too.

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by sorval 08 Mar 2008

hello ruthie i hope you are feel better and whe have mist you all a big flower for you gr sonja

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ruthie by ruthie 08 Mar 2008

Sonja, thanks so much for your kind thoughts, I've missed all of you people too, hugs and flowers.

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by ruthie 08 Mar 2008

Jrob, thank you so very much for all this, I'm overwhelmed, truly! I hadn't expected anyone to miss me yet, I must have done a lot more chattering than I thought I had, haha! Thank you and I missed you too sweetie, you're very special to me. Thank you to all of you here, this *Cute* site really is an exceptional place, it's a very caring place, and that makes it, and all you people, one in a million. Hugs and flowers to you all, my beautiful friends.

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jrob by jrob 08 Mar 2008

I'm so happy to see you back! ;)

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by cutiepie 08 Mar 2008

Welcome back, Ruthie! I would write you an epistle telling you how much you were missed, but my computer time has to be curtailed greatly due to my current situation. Just know we love you and missed you while you were "lost in the fog" like that. =]

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ruthie by ruthie 08 Mar 2008

Hi cutiepie, thanks for your good wishes, I just hope that all goes well for you. You, and your twin boys are very much loved by all of us here, I just hope that all the love, prayers, good wishes etc that we're sending you help to make you feel comforted and joyful. Hope my Mum's angel helps by watching over you. Love, hugs and flowers for you.

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by raels011 07 Mar 2008

Good to see you back with us And please pick your dear hubbie up off the floor before he gets his clothes dirty and makes more work for you (washing )

flower for you*

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ruthie by ruthie 08 Mar 2008

Thanks raels, no need to pick my DH up off the floor, when I'm like this he has to do all things domestic! Well I can't do them with chronic brain fog, can I? - HONESTLY I CAN'T, haha!!! Hugs and flowers for you my lovely.

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by nglover1 07 Mar 2008

Ruthie .I am so glad to see you back and at it.You were missed for your humor and all the help you have given so many of us. ( Isn't that the way thinking of ourselves HaHaHa, ) I truly am sorry to hear of your problems but glad your back and here is a flower to cheer you.

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ruthie by ruthie 08 Mar 2008

nglover, it's true, you can't keep a good woman down - and I'm here to prove you can't keep a *bad/pesky* one down either, haha! It's good to be back. Flowers and hugs.

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by ruthie 07 Mar 2008

So sorry, my beautiful and loving friends, I didn't mean to go AWOL (Absent Without Official Leave). I have CFS - Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (also known as ME - Myalgic Encephalomyelitis) and Fibromyalgia Syndrome, and it struck without warning, well, to me it was without warning, my more observant DH sees it coming every time. I haven't had an attack like this for more than six months. Mostly I can deal with it, but one of my worst symptoms is chronic brain fog - which is totally different to my *normal* brain fog, haha! When it strikes really severe, I can't string two sentences together. And I definitely couldn't communicate on any sort of intelligent level. Oh girls, my gorgeous DH, who has such a fantastic(?) sense of humor, is reading over my shoulder to make sure I get this right - only now he's ROFL about the *stringing two sentences together* part. He said I have to 'fess up and tell you all that I'm lucky if I can even string two *words* together!!! It's good that he's here to keep me honest, haha!!! He also knows how to make me laugh, which is very good because my sense of humor disappears when I'm like this. Today I'm feeling much better, like 200% better, so I'm safe to talk to you all. You're not going to believe this part though, no matter how bad the brain fog is, I can still do my craft work!!! It's really weird, these last few days I've done a little embroidering, painting and tatting, obviously I don't need my brain to do all those, haha!!! My heartfelt thanks and love to everyone for your love and concern, it means heaps to me, and I've missed you all sooooo much, although I did take a few peeks here from time to time - just to check that you were all keeping the show running. And guess what, you've done a fantastic job without me. I think this is my limit for now, it's taken me an hour to write this, and it’s sooo good to be back! Love, hugs, kisses and flowers of course to you all, and thanks again, I’ll write you personal thank you’s later, you people really are special. XXX

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shirlener88 by shirlener88 07 Mar 2008

Oh goodie, Ruthie is back - I am so sorry to hear of your ailments - it can't be fun to go through them - my Mother suffers from scleroderma - which at one time they had said was Fibromyalgia Syndrome - there isn't a thing that can be done for it - but she is like you - she can manage to get the things that she enjoys still done - but it takes a tole on her body and she is so wore out during her bouts. I, too was ROFLOL while reading this and my DH gets a kick out of my laughing when I am online with my "CUTE" family. We will be praying that you do not suffer again. We did miss your wit and humor and inspite of what you said, we needed you here with us, to help us, to get through all the ups and downs of our daily tasks. Thanks for your return. *4U

lyn4 by lyn4 07 Mar 2008

Glad to see you are somewhat mobile again!CFS is so debilitating isn't it. My son was diagnosed with it many years ago & I tried to find out as much as I could at the time. Thankfully, that wasn't the correct diagnosis but I did meet a few people that suffer from it. Take it slow and steady. At least you are able to take some relief with your crafts. Take care, Lyn.

lorettag28 by lorettag28 08 Mar 2008

Welcome back Ruthie (Miss Chatty), we did miss you and your cute humor. HaHa, Loretta

ruthie by ruthie 08 Mar 2008

Wow Loretta, I've been called some names in the past, but Miss Chatty is by far the easiest for me to live up too, haha.

ruthie by ruthie 08 Mar 2008

Thanks for your kind thoughts Lyn, it can be debilitating at times, but I'm a *pick myself up and get on with my life* type of person, and I do what I can, when I can. And I don't make others suffer along with me. You take care too and flowers and hugs for you.

ruthie by ruthie 08 Mar 2008

Shirlene, only too pleased to provide you, and your DH, some amusement, haha!

ruthie by ruthie 08 Mar 2008

Lyn I'll find you somewhere and give you your flower.

clawton by clawton 08 Mar 2008

We are so very glad too see you back with that witty mind. I really missed you comments. They always bring a smile to day!

ruthie by ruthie 08 Mar 2008

Thanks clawton, if I can make someone smile and brighten their day, then I've done a good thing. In other words I'm only too happy to spend time here and chat away and say funny/idiotic things to make you laugh, haha!!! Hugs and I'll find you somewhere to give you a flower.

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by brendaleas 07 Mar 2008

I miss see your answers to our questions to
thanks jrob for posting this!:) *4all

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ruthie by ruthie 08 Mar 2008

Brenda, I'm glad we're both part of this family, I enjoy reading what you write too. Hugs and flowers.

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by marjialexa Moderator 07 Mar 2008

Yes, Ruthie, I miss you too!! I hope you're not ill, just embroidering your little heart out. Be well, know you are needed here. Luv, Marji

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ruthie by ruthie 08 Mar 2008

Sweet Marji, I missed you too, and it's good to be needed here, and all you people are needed too. I'm so pleased to have met everyone on this site, it really is the best place on the net. Luv, hugs and flowers for you too. Keep warm!

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by persiancatlover 07 Mar 2008

i think we all missing ruthie's good comment,she is perhaps sick

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ruthie by ruthie 08 Mar 2008

Thank you so much Connie, I missed you too, flowers and hugs for thinking of me.

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by tmbache 06 Mar 2008

Yes,Ruthie, We all are missing you also.Hope you come back sooon too CHAT with us all.Flower and hugs to all.

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ruthie by ruthie 08 Mar 2008

tmbache, I came back as soon as I could, I love chatting with you people, flowers and hugs.

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by lorettag28 06 Mar 2008

Yes, Ruthie, I miss you too.

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ruthie by ruthie 08 Mar 2008

Loretta, I missed you too sweetie, my day just isn't complete without my dose of *Cute* friendship. Flowers and hugs.

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by dlmds 06 Mar 2008

jrob, I was just wondering that today also, were you reading my mind? [Whats left of it.] Ha! H.*'s.

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jrob by jrob 06 Mar 2008

Well, I must say that today I have had a strange clarity of thought....thank you, I guess for letting me read your mind! ;)

ruthie by ruthie 08 Mar 2008

dlmds and jrob, I find it's easier to write notes here to each other, rather than read minds, haha! Hugs and flowers for you both.

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by shirlener88 06 Mar 2008

Yes, ruthie - where are you? Thank you for this oppetunity to say so - *4U

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letvia by letvia 07 Mar 2008

Flower and XoXo

ruthie by ruthie 08 Mar 2008

Thanks shirlene and letvia, flowers and hugs for your concern. (letvia, I'll find you somewhere and give you that flower.)

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by nglover1 06 Mar 2008

Me too . You are greatly missed when you are not here.

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ruthie by ruthie 08 Mar 2008

Thanks nglover, I really missed you girls, flowers and hugs to you.

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