Please anyone, keep me in thoughts and/or prayers, I found my husband dead of a heart attach this morning. He was my best friend. Don't know how I'll go on. Thanks

This post is over 3 years old, and I would sincerely request that you please check the dates on posts before replying to them as I am sure it will only upset Marji having this brought back to remind her, all over again, of this terrible hurt and I am sure none of you would want that.

These kind of posts, particularly, are best left in the past.
Hugs and roses and a big thank you for understanding. Meg

Sending prayers your way

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by meganne 19 Feb 2011

This post is over 3 years old, and I would sincerely request that you please check the dates on posts before replying to them as I am sure it will only upset Marji having this brought back to remind her, all over again, of this terrible hurt and I am sure you wouldn't want that.

These kind of posts, particularly, are best left in the past.
Hugs and roses and a big thank you for understanding. Meg

I am so sorry for your loss. One is never prepared for death. But just remember that grieving is an individual process. And don't let anyone try to hurry you through.Here is a passage from a book that has helped me: Grieving is an act of Love. We don't grieve the loss for those we don't have no feeling.To grieve the loss of a loved one is the highest honor we can give that loved one. I sure hope it helps you as much as it has me. Hugs Marlene

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by meganne 19 Feb 2011

This post is over 3 years old, and I would sincerely request that you please check the dates on posts before replying to them as I am sure it will only upset Marji having this brought back to remind her, all over again, of this terrible hurt and I am sure you wouldn't want that.

These kind of posts, particularly, are best left in the past.
Hugs and roses and a big thank you for understanding. Meg

Oh my, I am so sorry. I will pray for you. May our Lord give you the strength you need during this time.

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by meganne 19 Feb 2011

This post is over 3 years old, and I would sincerely request that you please check the dates on posts before replying to them as I am sure it will only upset Marji having this brought back to remind her, all over again, of this terrible hurt and I am sure you wouldn't want that.

These kind of posts, particularly, are best left in the past.
Hugs and roses and a big thank you for understanding. Meg

My thoughts are with you. The same happened to me 4 years ago and you will not think so now but it does get easier and you will find the strength. Brings back memories. A big hug for you. I now realise that this was posted a while ago. I hope you have gathered your thoughts and it is getting easier, Best Wishes and Hugs. Lyn

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by meganne 18 Feb 2011

Hi Lyn,
This post is over 3 years old, and I would sincerely request that you please check the dates on posts before replying to them as I am sure it will only upset Marji having this brought back to remind her, all over again, of this terrible hurt and I am sure you wouldn't want that.

These kind of posts, particularly, are best left in the past.
Hugs and roses and a big thank you for understanding. Meg

by beatie58 19 Feb 2011

OMG I nearly replied to this and then saw your message. Unfortunately have only been on this site for 2years and thought it had happen TODAY....thank you Meganne

by airyfairy 19 Feb 2011

Is it not possible to take this post off the site? My heart goes out to Marji who must see this, bringing the memories flooding back. Please, please Cuties read the dates that the originals were posted.

I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my prayers.

TOUTES MES PRIERES VOUS ACCOMPAGNENT.

I am so sorry about your loss. We will keep you in our prayers.

I'm so sorry. I wish Icome come and comfort you. Iknow there is no way to console your saddness,but know you have so many who care about you onthis cute.

Maji it's never easy losing someone we love. It's never even understood but God promised NEVER to put more on us than we can bare. I know from experience. I wistnessed my mother's death. Being any only child from my mother. I had no one to send to do this and that. If it wasn't for the prayers of the RIGHTEOUS and the GOODNESS of the LORD I would not have this testimony today. I pray the Lord STRENGTHEN you on every leaning side and every pain be comforted in His chambers. I pray you cherish the moments you had together and remember that healing comes in time. Be BLESSED!!!

In His Service,
Monica

My heart goes out to you. You are in my prayers. What a very difficult time for you. You will be given the strength you need to endure and get you through this. God bless you.

I am so, sorry to hear that, I will keep you in my prayers and my prayer group will pray for you.

I know what you mean by "best friend" my boy is the same for me & yes somehow somewhere we get the strength to pull ourselves up from the lows & keep going. I nearlly lost mine & didn't know even where he was (went missing) I thought the worst & it was a very long haul back (2 3/4yrs now) & all I can say is remember the great things you & he had... you are in that very lucky minority of having your best friend & husnband all in one, like me. So take care & please...... look after yourself & keep busy, especially Family & friends around at this time... Then some solitude, to think where you go next in your life.
Love & best wishes,
Regina

I see this message was posted 6 months ago. I hope that you are making progress along what is a difficult road.

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by shirlener88 23 Jun 2009

actually - it was posted 1 1/2 years ago.

by jjjj 23 Jun 2009

So I'v just seen. Still must be difficult even this far along. Makes me value my DH even more.

O my goodness I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep you in my prayers. The Lord will stand by your side in this your darkest hour.. He is there for you when yhou are worn and weary. Put your trust in the Lord. May you find comfort knowing you loved and were loved. Peace of Christ be with you!

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

may the Lord keep you in His tender mercies in your time of need.

I also was stunned. It took me a few emails to realize that this had not just happened. I know how wonderful it must be for you to be able to remember all the good and wonderful things in your life with your late husband and how sad it must make you that he is not with you except in spirit at this time. Our Lord is an all knowing all loving God and He has his reasons for all tha He does. It is very hard to understand but believe and have faith in the Lord and you will be rewarded. You now have your very own special Angel to help you through all the hard times. I am still a little floored about this post as I was not here at the time so I thought it was a recent post. I'm not too sure re-posting all of this was such a good idea but then I do not know you personally. I really hope you know that this was out of love and respect that is was in your beloved's honor. Marj, may God bless you and keep making each day easier. Hugs to you. Linda

I will pray for you my husband of 37 years is also my best friend now Jesus will become your friend & comforter lean on him .Carolyn

My prayers are with you and your family. I pray that God with give you the comfort and guide you through these difficult times.
~k

I am so very saddened to hear of your loss! I just realized that this post says Nov 2007 - I was confused at first, thinking you found him literally today. I am glad you are part of this warm family, who is constantly there 24/7. Big hugs from me...

My prayers are with you and your family. May God give you comfort and peace.
Love,
Jacqueline

I pray you will fell the arms of God holding you and His love comforting you. He will be your strength to continue. Love and prayers . Gramy

Marj, God's peace and blessings be with you. You are in my prayers. Love Libbie

So sorry for you, my thoughts and prayers will be with you. Remember that our Lord is only a prayer away and will be there to comfort and guide you. Wish I was there to give you a hug xx

God Bless You and Keep You

I am sooooo sorry to hear of your loss. I can only imagine the pain you are suffering. Know that God is there to help you through this hard time. Our prayers are with you.

When Tomorrow Starts Without Me


If tomorrow starts without me,
And I'm not there to see,
If the sun should rise and find your eyes
All filled with tears for me;

I wish so much you wouldn't cry
The way you did today,
While thinking of the many things,
We didn't get to say.

I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you,
And each time that you think of me,
I know you'll miss me too;

But when tomorrow starts without me,
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name,
And took me by the hand,

And said my place was ready,
In heaven far above,
And that I'd have to leave behind
All those I dearly love.

But as I turned to walk away,
A tear fell from my eye,
For all my life, I'd always thought,
I didn't want to die.

I had so much to live for,
So much left yet to do,
It seemed almost impossible,
That I was leaving you.

I thought of all the yesterdays,
The good ones and the bad,
I thought of all that we shared,
And all the fun we had.

If I could relive yesterday,
Just even for a while,
I'd say good-bye and kiss you
And maybe see you smile.

But then I fully realized,
That this could never be,
For emptiness and memories,
Would take the place of me.

And when I thought of worldly things,
I might miss some tomorrow,
I thought of you, and when I did,
My heart was filled with sorrow.

But when I walked through heaven's gates,
I felt so much at home.
When God looked down and smiled at me,
From His great golden throne,

He said, "This is eternity,
And all I've promised you."
Today your life on earth is past,
But here life starts anew.

I promise no tomorrow,
But today will always last,
And since each day is the same way,
There's no longing for the past.

So when tomorrow starts without me,
Don't think we're far apart,
For every time you think of me,
I'm right here, in your heart

Dear Marji, I am very sorry for your loss, although its been a year, I know it feels like yesterday. Please ¨knnow you are not alone, you have a big family ¨here. God bless you dear. Love ad hugs.

I will keep you in my heart and prayers, I'm so sorry for your loss.

My heart goes out to you; it's so very hard when you lose a loved one but you will find a way to go on. With the support of your family & friends you will get thru this. Hugs

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Oh Marji I remember now. They say time heals all wounds but even though I've remarried & it's been 20 yrs since mine died I still think of it often.

Im so sorry hon.I know how you feel. I lost my husband to lung cancer.I woke up and found him also.the artery broke in his win pipe.any time you need to talk I am here. ok
love mouse

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers ,XXX n *** 4u

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How very horrible for you. I pray for you, and wish you strength at this trying time. You have many many friends thinking of you and your husband.

It doesn't hurt any less after a year does it? My husband is my best friend, too. I am always afraid that he will be taken from me, and someday I know that will happen. But God has put us together for our time on this earth and I plan to make the most of it. I'm sure you and your husband had some wonderful years together and it is the memories that carry us through. One year seems like such a short span, but at the same time it can seem like an eternity. Just remember that you will one day be with your husband again for ALL eternity.

I hope that you are doing well after such a hard year. I know that a few days ago was especially hard and just remember that we all love you here on Cute...

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by mouse 19 May 2009

no hon it doesnt hurt any less.I was married 26 years.I think and talk to him alot.He won't be there to help you like we been use to but you will go on.God seems to help us get thru it.just show him how much you love him and dont be afraid to say I love you.I did it all the tim.

I am so sorry. I will pray for peace as you go through the days ahead. God is always good even when we don't understand why these kinds of things happen. Cry out to Jesus and He will be with you. Blessings.

I want you to know that I will be praying for you and your family. I am so sorry for your loss.

I AM VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS

sorry for your loss.My prayers are with you

I am very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Marji, I wasn`t here this time last year either. I have read many of the posts related to it. I am so sorry for your loss. I am happy this cute family have been here to support you for the past 12 months....
You have been in my thoughts also..Please look after yourself...hugs

marji
thinking of you
embroidery is loving energy.
vggirl

Dear Marji. I wasn't here last year when this tragedy happened to you. I can imagine how terrible it can be. I admire you so much. Flower and XoXo

Marji,
I noticed that your husband passing was just over a year ogo. know that I will be thinking of you. I have always found that the holidays are the heardness. So I keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Love ya, Brenda Lea

Marji, my love, just to let you know that you are in my thoughts at this time. A lot has happened since you wrote this 12-months ago, and I know how much you did, and still do, love your darling Bud, and I know that you still miss him terribly. So sweetie, I love you heaps, and my love, kisses, thoughts and prayers are with you always.

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Words cannot express how deeply sorry I am for the loss of your beloved husband. My husband is my best friend too and I can't bear the thought of losing him someday. Marji, please know that God will always be there for you if you reach out for him. He will pull you through the darkness. Please be proactive and seek good greif councelling as well. Something shared is less a burden to bear and when you can, celebrate your husband's life and the happy memories he gave you. When you have done all of this, lean your head on our shoulders too, cause we'll all be here for you. Love and hugs........

och wat vreselijk dat je dit is overkomen en dat voor de feestdagen , ik wens je veel sterkte toe en hou je in mijn gedachten
sterkte Annita

I am so sorry for your lost! I keep you in my prayers.
Manu

I too will add you in my prayers. May the heavens hold you close..may you feel all of our strenghth and arms when you need it most....

I don't have any words of wisdom or clipart to attach. I think everyone here has suffered the loss of a loved one at some time in life. Maybe not a husband but just as important to each of us. Time does heal all wounds and life does get easier. All of our friends on this site have made each day a bit easier for someone in need. An online hug is no less heartfelt. With that said.... Marji and Barb please know that nothing but good thoughts, prayers and warm hugs are in abundance here at cute.

Well, it was a surprise to see this again today, knowing Barb is going through this now. Thank you, whoever brought this back up. A year later, I could probably have written the same thing. It's funny, but when I wrote this there were so few of you here, it was simply a cry in the darkness, for someone, anyone to connect to. And now, a year later, there are so many of you, this is such a community of caring individuals who can support each other, a place where Barb could come and ask for help and get it without reservation. I want you all to know how much I appreciate you, and how much you have meant to me this past year. Being here at Cute has kept me sane (or as sane as I ever get, hee hee hee). Thank you all again, for your caring over the past year. Please keep me and Barb in your best thoughts as we go through these holidays, which should be a 'family' time, which used to be for me a wonderous time of year, alone now. Love you all, Marji

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by jrob 18 Nov 2008

Marji, I know you will never get over the loss of your darling. I hope you have continued peace and love and kitty kisses.;)

If you have trust to the God, he gives us strength during all our heavy hours. The angels of the sky should watch over you. My sincere condolences.

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PLease know you are in our thoughts and prayers take care

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Ah Marji, I wasn't a member this time last year, so hard to believe as we are all such good friends now, in so short a time. Yes it has gone by very quickly for so many of us, and very slowly for others.
I hope seeing this post did NOT give you such a terrible shock, but has brought back all the beautiful messages of love and support from your Cute Family to remind you instead, how much we all love you.
Hugs n roses, dear friend and be kind to yourself. Ginger Kitty xoxoxo

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Marjialexa... on this anniversary day may you find love and strength from all of us in your cutie family... sending you hugs, Lisa

my deepest sympathy. I'LL ADD YOU TO MY PRAYERS FOR GOD TO BE WITH YOU AND GUIDE YOU IN ALL WAYS.
Remember all the wonderful times you had.

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by misscharlie 18 Nov 2008

sanc I do not know why you would go that far back in the pages to bring this up, I am sure Marji apprecistes your thoughts and prayers. I am also sure that Marji needs us ALL more now in the present than in the past, ty for your concern*

Marji, I was just thinking (after reading the date of the original post) that the Lord knew you'd need extra TLC in the up coming months! So maybe this is His way of letting US know to pray for you! I see from your note below, we must have been on the same wave length! Will be in prayer along with the rest of the "prayer warrior cuties!"

Oh marji I'm so sorry, I lost a husband with a heart attack 19 yrs ago. Like U he was my best friend. The only thing I can say is the Lord will give U the grace to get through if U will let him. He'll wrap u n his arms & take U through days u will hardly remember weeks from now & You'll wonder how did I ever get through this. Lean on him marji, please I know first hand He alone can give u the comfort u need. I'm crying with U my dear. Bouquets of flowers 4 U. *

Hold strong to GOD....He will be with you through these times. My prayers and thoughts go out to you and your loved ones. May you take comfort in thought knowing we care for you....

I cannot imagine how painful this time must be for you...remember night is darkest before the dawn......but one day you will hear the birds sing again. and the memory will not be painful but filled with love and happiness..........until then do the best you can to love yourself..........you are in a strangers thoughts....
cricket17

So sorry for you loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Cloey

Oh, dear ones!! I was looking back a few pages because I couldn't be on yesterday or Tuesday, and I was so surprised to see this again!! My husband died last November, before this Cute Family became so active and had so many members. But I appreciate your prayers and concern, because I have been having a hard time of it lately. It was probably no coincidence that someone found this and responded to it. He was my friend, my lover, and my caregiver. I'm disabled, and trying to keep an 8 acre farm going without him, and without income. So y'all can keep praying, I certainly don't mind. A "win the Powerball Lottery" prayer wouldn't go amiss, hee hee hee, but I suppose I'd have to buy a ticket first. I just don't want to lose this house, it's my 'home place', land has been in my family 55 years. I believe the best will come, and I await it with open arms & heart. My love to you all, for caring about someone you don't even know. Marji

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by shirleysisson 07 Aug 2008

My prayers are with you. We know you as a 'Cute' sister and we care about you. *4U

by shirlener88 20 May 2009

Marji, we love you greatly. *4U

Sorry about your lost, you an your family will on our prayers.

I'm sorry to hear of you loss, you have wonderful memories to look back on. Time dims the pain. You have a big family here to talk to. Keep busy at night & talk to your husband as one day he will give u a sign to let u know that he is still near you. My foster girl (young lady) whom I lost 3 years ago gives me a cuddle in her own special way.

I don't know if you are realizing that this took place last November 18th. (see next to Marji's name) I am sure she still needs our love and support and has my prayers for one.

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by grannyo 06 Aug 2008

Thanks for bringing that up. Does she get online often?

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My heart and prayers are with you and your family. Know that we are here for you.

I am so sorry. I heart goes out to you. I will be praying for you, and your family.

I'm sorry to hear this. It should make you feel so special to see all the people that care so much for you.
Thinking of you.

I am so sorry to read this. It is devastating. I lost my husband 5 years ago and know how this feels. One day at a time, keep friends and family close. And someday, we'll all see the ones we have loved and lost.

My sympathy goes out to you....you must be devastated. My prayers are with you.

Oh my goodness ... I am so, so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how you are feeling. My thoughts and prayers are with you from my heart to yours. Stay in touch with family and friends for support and love. You will go on ... you will be strong ... for HE will be holding your hand all along. lots of hugs for you.

So sorry for your loss. I can see from other posts you have good people around you this will help. My condolences. Lisa

o dear, I'm so sorry for you, words are not enough so I wish you strength and I hope you will hold on to all the good memories, remember his love for you will never die.
hope you have lots of friends and family who can help you in these difficult days. we as cute-family, i think we all pray for you.and try to support you.

Oh sweet dear ..you are in my heart and prayers

I pray for you. I hope you have family and friends there to help you. Let them and the Lord be strong for you. So many things I would like to say if you listen with your heart you can hear me xoxox *

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. God Bless you damaris

May God be with you in your time of need. Just trust in him and he will take care of you.I will be praying for you.

At this time you are still in shock and confuse, so much pain don't let you see what's going on...but if you just hold on to God's hand it will get better. He will sorround you with His love and give you strenght to wait for the day when He will come back and then will be reunited with our love ones. In Oct. 2006 I lost my grandfather, he was 97 I think,two month later my favorite nephew got shot by accident, he was 21 and then a month later my dear mother whent to be home with the Lord. Blessings to you.

I do know what you are going thru and my prayers and thoughts are with you. God is by your side at all times. Your loving memeories will always be with you.Someday you will be reunited with him. We all here are with you as well. xoxox

Marji, I am so sorry to hear of your loss, keep looking up to God and He will be there for you. You are in my prayers and thoughts. Gramsbear.

So sorry for your great loss. You are in many thoughts and prayers.

you will certainly be in my prayers. it must be very difficult. just wanted to say i'm thinking of you and i hope each day will get a little easier for you.

God be with you Marjialexa. I lost my Dad to a massive sudden heart attack July 1997. I know he is still with me and so is your husband still with you. And I do believe you will be together again someday. Your friends are here to support you and keep you in our prayers. God Bless.

Marji,Sorry for your lost.I sure can relate to you on that one.Same happened to me on Feb. 16,2006. No struggle no pain. Just gone, but never forgotten.Things do get easier and pain turns to wonderful memories.We all will pray for you and put you on our prayer list at church.Take care of your dogs and cats THEY are GREAT company.

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by marjialexa 30 Nov 2007

Thank you so much, if you've been there then you know. It's hard, and lonely. But friends here help, and I appreciate the prayers. Don't have any more words in me now, but thanks. Marji

Marji, still praying for you and hoping you are surrounded by friends and family and the holy spirit.
Jerri

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by marjialexa 24 Nov 2007

Thanks, Jerri, it helps a lot. There is no family to speak of, but friends from near and far keep an eye on me, and I think Bud is, too, because I'm keeping it together far better than I ever thought I could. The dogs and cats need me, so I have a routine. Thanks to you and all for your concern & prayers, it helps SO much. Marji

by marjialexa 24 Nov 2007

Oops, last part cut off. Thank you all so much for your prayers and concern. It helps more than you can ever know.
Marji

You are all so very kind, thank you. I'm going to embroider the swans now and display them in Bud's casket, so he can take them with him. He was my biggest embroidery supporter, maybe he'll tell me how much he likes them when I get there too. Your kindness and concern are so incredibly helpful, thanks. Marji Alexa Weber

Keep you in their thoughts. Swans for you and your husband. God bless.

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by jrob 19 Nov 2007

Swans for Marji is so very thoughtful.

Oh, Marji! My heart is with you!! My husband found his mother like that only six weeks before our wedding. My Grandmother lost my grandfather to a heart attack when my mom was only 14. It is a horrible way for it to happen, but I feel you have now joined my family through your trials. You will be in my prayers forever more. I have faith that you will be reunited with your dear husband someday and the pain you feel now will be able to fade into memory.

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by marjialexa 24 Nov 2007

Thanks, cutiepie, proud to be a member of your family. Bud died in his sleep, so not a moments pain or fear. Hard for us still here, but God was kind to him, I hold on to that tightly. That Janome 300E will be busy in his honor, thanks to CuteEmbroidery & Shawn as well.

by marjialexa 24 Nov 2007

Shawn as well. Creating beauty will make good memories, and keep me sane. Prayer is always good & welcome. Thanks

God bless you and keep you. And know that all the sewing forums you are on (and I know there are many) will keep you in their prayers.

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by marjialexa 24 Nov 2007

Thanks, maeeast, I appreciate your kind response. Yes, many are keeping me in prayer, and it is always most welcome. Sewists are the kindest people on earth. Grateful to know you.

Oh, Marjialexa, I can't tell you how very sorry I am. I am on my knees now asking for devine intervention on your part. I pray that your faith will carry you and that God will hold you in the palm of his hand as you try to go forward in your life without your partner. If there is no one there physically, please call on me here and I will pray with you daily.

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by jchh 20 Dec 2007

Marjialexa,I am so sorry for your loss.I know how you feel right now.I lost my husband,of 39 1/2 years,right in front of me,last Sept .We were childhood sweethearts,it just feels like 1/2 of you is gone.You are in my prayers,just remember,if he was a christian,he is in a much better place.Just keep thinking about all the good times you had together.And one day ,when God is ready,you will see him again,on the far side of Jordon.you are in my prayers. Judy

by jchh 20 Dec 2007

If he was a christian,he is in alot better place.One day when God is ready ,you will see him again on the far banks of Jordon.Just keep remembering all the good times yall had.I,m praying for you .Love Judy