by dlmds 29 May 2010

just to read of some people coming into our family to treat our family with cruel words. It never used to be this way, it was a loving, helpful family. I am sick of people that come in here just to use it to spread their venom, so they can be happy. Yoirko and others, if you let these kind run you off of "Cute" then that kind will be all that are left here. We need the family that loves one another and "Cute" enough to stay. THE OTHER KIND--WILL YOU PLEASE FIND A SITE WHERE BEING CRUEL IS WHAT BRINGS YOU AND YOUR KIND HAPPINESS, AS WE DO NOT WANT YOU HERE!!!!

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by 02kar Moderator 30 May 2010

I think that we have made it plain and clear that we do not want our site used by mean people. I for one am no longer going to keep addressing the issue. I want to get back to our sharing and loving messages.

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by anne55 30 May 2010

I'm a newbie here and am very grateful to all of those who contribute who are much more talented than I am. All of your efforts are greatly appreciated by many. If you aren't one who appreciates other's hard work, then you do need to find another webpage to complain on.

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dlmds by dlmds 30 May 2010

Anne, "right on", my thoughts toooo. H&*

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by gerryvb 30 May 2010

Yes, amen!!

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dlmds by dlmds 30 May 2010

Thank you Gerry, and for all that you so kindly do for all of us. H&*

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by seamripper40 30 May 2010

For those who are griping and running people down, if you don't have something nice to say, use your mouse and click on the red X in the right hand corner. I for one appreciate the ladies who look up the sights for new designs and freebies that I don't have time to do. My thanks to you people.

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dlmds by dlmds 30 May 2010

I do appreciate all of them, as you do. H&*

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by maryanns66 30 May 2010

I've been wondering the same, but it's not new people being cruel. It's people who have been here a lot longer than I have that have caused many of the problems. So maybe your message should not be so directed to those that are new??

Don't get me wrong. I have met a lot of wonderful friends, and appreciate all the nice, generous offerings from the site and 'most' it's members.

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dlmds by dlmds 30 May 2010

I do not believe I said it was new people. I meant anyone that writes comments, or answers. Please all new people, do not take this personally. It is anyone that can not enjoy the wonderful family that is here. H&*

maryanns66 by maryanns66 30 May 2010

Excuse me. Your wording seems to indicate newer people. Sorry for my misinterpretation.
I just know from reading lately that 'some' of those who have been here for a long time have been very critical of things being posted in the wrong section. Who cares if a freebie is posted in Public. It's not a big deal. Especially when everything under the sun is posted in Public...all the time. :-)

dlmds by dlmds 30 May 2010

I do not think it is meant to be critical. I think it is meant to teach, and help the new people. Why anything is said is probably because Veronika has worked very hard to set this up to be user friendly. We all appreciate and love her dearly. H&*

maryanns66 by maryanns66 30 May 2010

Everyone appreciates Veronika and her site as far as I know. That's why people share what they can and it shouldn't become a problem if something is not in the 'proper' section. :-)

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by lbrow 30 May 2010

Wow Sally, Never have heard you raise your voice before, but your sentiments are the same as many of us./Lillian *

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lindaavolio by lindaavolio 30 May 2010

Agreed!

dlmds by dlmds 30 May 2010

Lillian, It hurts my heart to see anyone attack another person. I know from experience how badly cruel words can hurt. I would rather be beaten, as that heals, however, cruel words linger way to long. God bless and I hope you are doing well. H&*

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by macentinc1 30 May 2010

AMEN! Mary Anne

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dlmds by dlmds 30 May 2010

Not meant for new people it is meant for anyone with out helpful, kind words. H&*

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