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LUCY, WE ARE NEVER AT OUR BEST WHEN WE ARE AFRAID FOR OURSELVES AND THOSE WE LOVE. WE ALL KNOW WE WILL HAVE TO FACE SOMETHING IN OUR LIVES THAT WILL SCARE US, BUT WE CAN ONLY TRUST GOD TO CARRY US THROUGH AND GIVE US THE STRENGTH TO DEAL WITH TEMPER FLARE UPS AND THINGS LIKE THAT. WE NEED TO REMEMBER ALL THE GOOD THINGS ABOUT OUR LOVED ONES AND HOLD ON TO THEM KNOWING THAT AT THIS TIME THEY ARE NOT THEMSELVES. I WILL CONTINUE TO LIFT YOU BOTH UP IN PRAYER AND TRUST GOD TO GIVE YOU COMFORT AS ONLY HE CAN. IT IS NEVER EASY AND GOD KNOWS THAT. IN CHRISIT, JUDY
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10530DEAR LUCY MY PRAYERS ARE FOR YOU BOTH TWO YOUR HUSBAND IS AFRAID THIS CANCER AND HE IS AFRAID TO THE IDEA TO LEAVE YOU ALONE
YOU ARE AFRAID OF HIS CANCER YOU ARE AFRAID TO THE IDEA OF BEING ALONE
LOVE HIM LOVE HIM WHEN HE IS HERE YOU MUST BE STRONG FOR YOU TWO SHOW ALL YOUR LOVE TO HIM
LOVE CLAUDE
25533DEAR LUCY,
YOU BOTH WILL BE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS IN THIS DIFFICULT TIME.
LOVE,
YORIKO
88650PRAYERS FOR YOU BOTH. SOMETIMES PEOPLE DO LASH OUT WITH ANGER WHEN THEY ARE AFRAID. SO GLAD YOU DID NOT RETALIATE.
BEST OF LUCK WITH THE BIOPSY.
70914Prayers to the both of you! Hopefully it will soon turn around. Not knowing is the hardest thing that anyone has to go through. Try to be understanding and give him some time to get everything all together. My prayers to you both. I do know what your are going through and it is NOT an easy situation! If you have read some of my post, you know I am in a very similar situation with my son. It has been 13 months with my son and I think he needs professional help but is a grown man and I can no longer force him to do anything. Some days I want to give up and walk away from him but I am afraid that if I do something just might happen to him. He and I laughed our way through alot of hard situations after his dad and I divorced but we were never unhappy for a minute. He is now 43, married, has 2 step daughters and 3 grands but since he had his Major Heart Attack 13 months ago, he rarely acts happy and he is a very angry person. It is hard for me to understand because his life was spared, he is doing very well with a few minor glitches(mostly meds), he went back to work and has so much to live for. Since he no longer lives at home with me, I can not seem to get a handle on how to deal with him or his problem. I am not the best one to try and give advice on this but just love him and be there for him and try not to let it get to you. I know that it will not be easy but maybe if you just don't treat him any different now than before it will change his attitude also. It worked for me alot of years but just not in this last situation. Hugs and prayers
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52685It's just the waiting, nerves and the unknown. Once this is over you will BOTH be in a much better frame of mind. Hang in there and know that this is a great place to vent if you ever have the need again.
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132773My prayers go with you. Be brave, this is hard times. I went through a similar deal with my husband. He had prostate cancer last Nov. There is life after cancer. Hang in there pray for comfort.
10494LUCY YOU ARE AFRAID.
LUCY YOUR HUSBAND IS AFRAID.
LUCY YOU ADMIT THAT YOUR HUSBAND IS YOUR WORLD AND YOU HAVE NEVER BEEN ALONE.
LUCY YOUR HUSBAND IS FACING NOT ONLY HIS OWN MORTALITY
BUT
NOT WANTING TO LET YOU DOWN OR LEAVE YOU ALONE
LUCY HE IS SO VERY AFRAID
HE LOVES YOU AND WANTS TO PROTECT YOU
LUCY HE CAN NOT FORM THOSE WORDS SO HE YELL'S AT YOU
LUCY TRUST ME
LOVE HIM
FORGIVE HIM
HELP HIM
YOU ARE BOTH FACING TRYING TIMES
I WILL PRAY FOR BOTH OF YOU
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