about 8:00 this morning. I am just going to be totally lost with him. He had been in the hospital (four different ones) since Dec 2, 2009. He had a lot of things wrong with him, too much to go into detail here. Thank you for listening. Mildred

Mildred, my heart goes out to you... I can't imagine what my life would be without my husband... I will send you hugs and prayers... Wendi

What terrible for you, I wish you much strength.

10tje

I am so very sorry. Sorry too that he couldn't make 50 years. We just celebrated ours this year. My husband got sick but is doing better. My condolences.

My sincere condolances. This is a very hard time for you. Remember the good times and all the fun you had, this will keep you going. A big hug, ENY

mijn innige deelneming , och wat erg en juist met de feestdagen voor de deur , ik hoop dat je troost kan vinden bij je kinderen en kleinkinderen .
Veel sterkte gewenst en je bent in mijn gedachte.
liefs Annita

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Remember and cherish those wonderful years you had together, and thank God that you were blessed with a good man with whom you could take this journey.

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I know no words can ever ease the loss your feeling right now. And I pray that god will give you the peace and understanding to get you through these lonely days. God Bless and Keep you. Sara

I amso sorry to hear about your husband. Prayers coming your way.

My feelings go out to you! I lost my husband at 52 years, so I understand totally what you are going through. Blessings to you!

Lean on the Lord for He will give you the strength that you need.
God bless you and your family.

Dear Mildred

Sorry to hear about it. Wish you all the best

Claudia

Dear Mildred, my thoughts are with you and your family. May God give you the strength to live all through this.
anny

Fear Mildred, I can truly say I know how you are feeling..I have been there..Let this Cute Family help you through these tough times. WE are ALWAYS here for YOU!!!

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by blhamblen 21 Dec 2009

I'm sorry I had FAT fingers when I typed this the other day...so hard to type thru tears!!! Should have said DEAR Mildred..I am so sorry!

Mildred my condolences to you and yours, I'll be praying for you

I am so sorry to hear of your loss.... my thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time take care Ash

Mildred, I am so sorry for your loss.

Hugs, and condolences to you and yours.

so sorry to here of your loss dear . chin up.

May the Lord keep you in His tender mercies at the time of your loss....

Mildred, I am so sorry for your loss.
Hugs.

Sincere condolences to you and your family.

I am sorry to hear of your great loss. You and your family will be in my prayers. Please take care of yourself.

We're praying for you Mildred.

Sending you strength, courage and love at this loss. Remember to take care of yourself, now.

DEAR MILDRED. WHAT DO YOU SAY AT A TIME LIKE THIS,MY SYMPOTHEY GOES OUT TO YOU.IF YOU WHERE HERE I AM SO VERY SORRY ABOUT YOUR HUSBAND.I WRAP YOU IN LOVE AND XOXO .GOD BE WITH YOU AND YOUR LOVED ONES AND SURROUNDING FAMILEY,,IF YOU NEED A EAR I CAN(LISSEN) TYP ,,I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL,I ALMOST LOST MY HUSBAND FRIDAY HAD A STROKE,BUT NOT TO BAD,,I WILL LIFT YOU UP IN PRARY,, EMAIL ME PERSONLY I AM HER,,I AM SO VERY SORRY,, LOVE LUCY

Dear Mildred, Please accept my sincere sympathy for your sad loss, just short of your 50th anniverary; please know that we care for you and you are in our prayers.
Please remember:
As you enter your journey through the valley of tears
Carry with you the love you have shared through the years
Grieving is natural - itis part of the healing
So don't be ashamed of the hurt you are feeling
Lean on your friends now, reach out to God too
Know you are valued - we all care for you
Let Christmas remind you amid the world's strife
That God's Love is wrapped round you throughout your whole life
A Pure Love that's eternal - it will light up your way
Out of grief's valley into the joy of each day
Dwell not on your man's suffering
For that has come to an end
Just remember his sweet smile
And let your heart start to mend.

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by gferris 19 Dec 2009

This is absolutely beautifully said, and I would like to add my most sincere condolences, too. I lost my oldest son 23 years ago - and though it doesn't seem possible, your pain and grief will become easier to bear with time. I know my son wouldn't have wanted me to be in pain - so I try to live a joyful life. Someday, you will be able to smile again when you think of him - but right now, my heart goes out to you.

by marymilf41 21 Dec 2009

i to agree that the above statement is all that i fill and would want to say to you other then to say may god be with you and keep you strong as you go through this tuff time and lean on your friends and family for support to get through it i wish you all the best god bless you and your family huggs mary

Peace be with you, I am sorry for your loss.

Mildred, I'm so sorry for your loss. I've been married 31 years and can not imagine the pain you must be going through. I do know that God knows and He cares. Place your burden on His shoulders. May the Lord wrap his arms around you during this time.

Mildred, so sorry about the loss of your Beloved. It will be lonely without him,hoping you have family and friends to help. I lost mine 5 years ago, after 32 years. You will be in my thoughts & prayers. Debbie in NH

Dear Mildred, my heart goes out to you. I will be praying for you and your family. May the Lord give you peace, strength and love to help you cope through this difficult time.

Remember we are here.

Oh Mildred, I am so sorry for your loss. My Don passed away over 6 years ago after 32 years and I understand your pain. Lean on your friends and family, that's what they are for. I will say a prayer for you. Jo

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of you husband. You will be in many of our prayers.

So sorry for your loss. I lost my mom last week. It is not easy to deal with over the holidays. Hugs to you.

Mildred, I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my prayers.

Mildred,
Sorry for your loss. We will keep you in our prayers. May the Lord wrap you in His loving arms and give you Peace and strength for the days ahead.
God Bless

Dear Mildred, your message touched my heart. I too have been married 49 1/2 yrs May 1960. May God bless you in the coming days. I am so sorry for your loss. Midge

Dear Mildred, my sincere sympathies on your loss. Everything else has already been said here. Know that we will keep you in our prayers at this time.

Dear Mildred, I am so very sorry for you loss. I will pray that you will receive the peace that God promises all of us. You must remember to take care of yourself and realize that you will go through the grief and it is okay.

I am so sorry for your loss. You have my deepest sympathy!!!!

YOU HAVE MY DEPEST SYMPATHY. We lost our oldest son (age 60) a month ago and I still cannot cope. He had a liver transplant almost two years ago and it was failing. The liver disease was from Hepatitis C believed to be from a blood transfusion he received in Okinawa (Viet Nam conflict) when he was in the marines. Everyone says time is a great healer along with God. I am sure they are right. I just hope time passes quickly. I know God is there to help and that our son is with Jesus Christ and our heavenly Father. Whatever your religion, just pray and God will be with you.

Dear Mildred, I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot say anything better than Linda (lflanders) said it. I lost my 1st husband when he was only 40 and can just imagine how you must feel after such a long lifetime together. Be strong dear and remember God is always there to turn to. You and your family are in my prayers. Annatjie

Mildred, I am thinking about you. Take care of yourself, hopefully you have family to support you

oh dear, so sorry for you.cherish all your happy memories you had together. wish you all strenght during this difficult time. hugs and prayers for you and family. hope we cuties can support you a little, thinking of you.

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I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Mildred, I am so very sorry about your loss, I will pray for you and your family. There is never a good time for losing someone, but my prayers are for your Peace at this time in your life. God be with you. Judy...

Dear Mildred, I am so sorry to hear about your dear husband, just remember God has has a good reason for everything that happens to us. Please know that we are all praying that He will walk with you in this difficult time, and hold your hand.
Hugs and God bless.
Marietta

Mildred, I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your husband. Be strong and think off all the memories that you must have during your husbands life. We will be here when you need us for a chat.
You and you're family will be in my thoughts.

I'm so sorry for your loss. May God walk by your side during this difficult time.

I am so sorry to hear of your loss...

I'm very sorry for your loss.

Mildred my prayers will be with you. God knows how to bottle our tears and turn our mourning into rejoicing. I pray that your strength will be archored in the Lord and may your memories be happy ones. Be BLESSED and HIGHLY FAVORED!

I am so sad for you and yours. God bless and take care of all of you during your time of sorrow. H&*

Ach, es tut mir leid. Ich kann mir nicht vorstellen, wie Sie sich fühlen jetzt, aber ich wünsche Ihnen viel Kraft in dieser schweren Zeit. Sie haben mein Mitgefühl.
Hugs Annette

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by iris2006 18 Dec 2009

Ach, I'm so sorry, I cannot imagine how you must feel now, b ut I wish you all the strenght you need during these days. You are in mu thoughts. Hugs, Annette

Mildred I am so sorry for your loss. I don't know how you feel, but I will pray for you and your family. May God hold you close during this very difficut time. In His love, Judy *4U

Prays from all around the world are being lifted up in your behalf today. No words can comfort, but God can. Remember you in my prayers.

Tippi, I pray the Lord will give you the grace and strength to get though the next few days until you can get yourself back together mentally. It is going to be a very sad time for you until you can accept that the Lord has His plans for your husband and his family. The Lord will not give you more than you can stand if you only turn to Him with your prayers and even your tears. I do hope you have a close family to help you through the next few weeks. You had a very long marriage so keep his love for you and yours for him close in your heart. In this world you may be lonely for some time to come but you will be united again when the Lord is ready. Be sad for your husband but be happy for the wonderful times you had together. Now is the time for you to remember all the goods times and be thankful that he is no longer sick and in pain. Surround yourself with family and friends. Anytime that you need to talk to someone, your family here will be there to help you through the bad times. May god bless and keep you in his loving arms though the worst of times. Just remember that your husband is in a beautiful place now and he is watching over you now although he is not by your side. Mildred, you will go through some bad times but it will get better and you will soon have a normal life again. The Lord never gives us more than we can handle and He has His own plans for all of us. My prayers are with you now and for the days to come. Blessings to you and your family! Linda

so sorry for your loss will for you so that God gives you strength to go through this difficult times
Hugs roxsy

Oh, Mildred, Bless your heart! How difficult it must be for you right now!! May you feel Gods presence near you to comfort you. I wish there were words I could say to help you through this time!!! I will send prayers your way!! Hugs, Laura

Dear Tippi, This is the exactly the right. Know that you have friends who share your grief and wish you the strength in the coming days. My deepest sympathy goes to you and your family.

Sorry for your loss

Mildred, sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers will be with you. May God bless you.

Mildred my heart and prayers go out to you and your family .May God nless and keep you . this is such a sad time to loose a dear loved one . But just think he is not sick now and in pain he is in his mantion in the sky with our Lord and waiting for you some ay to join him there .I can just see how beautiful it is there and how wonderful it would be to talk to our Lord. May God bless you.
Hugs Lenamae

Dear Mildred, There is never the wrong place to ask for friends to join in prayers. May your dear Husband rest in peace, and may the angels in heaven taken him to the eternal gardens of Eden. We pray that God gives you strength and courage through this difficult time. God bless you and your family. Mary

Mildred, I weep for your loss. How difficult it must be to lose your love. He fought a valiant fight to stay as long as he could. My prayers are with you and your family. I pray that you look to God to hold you up when you can't hold yourself up any longer and that you will feel his presence surrounding you and loving you through this most difficult time in your life. Please call on me or any of us when you need to talk to someone. Your family online is here for you. Blessings, Jerrilyn

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I'm so sorry for your loss and can only imagine how much pain you are in. All your cuties will help ease the pain as time goes by. Stay strong and remember all the good times and love you shared. When alone in a dark room, close your eyes and wrap your arms about yourself. Think a pretty memory and you will feel him hugging you, it works every time, he is still here you just can't see him right now.

So sorry about your loss. I know how you feel I lost mine in 2006 and all the kept me going is faith in the Lord. It will be difficult and you'll miss him terribly and I have prayed for you. Hugs and we are all here for you.

So sorry for you loss. Will be thinking of you. Hugs Lisa

Oh Mildred, I am so sorry for your lost. May God be with you and help you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs Lynn

Oh Mildred, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. You and the family will be in my prayers. God Bless Hugs yvonne

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have you in my thoughts and prayers. May God be with you and give you strength during this difficult time in your life. Love and hugs, Mary

Dear Mildred,
I am so sorry to hear such sad news; my heart aches for you. My love, thoughts, and prayers are with you...Barb

I am so sorry for your loss. I wish there was something someone could say that would take the hurt away but time is the only thing that helps. May God bless you in your time of need.

Dear Mildred.

what a terrible loss and it must be so hard on you.
Hope you feel that you have friends here to help if need be.
Will think of you in this sad time.
Hugs Edith

Tippy so sorry to hear of your loss. You are in everybody's thoughts.

Mildred, I am so sorry to hear of you loss - you have had a good long marriage and you will look around for him from time to time - but know - he is with you - in your memories - you heart and your mind - any time that you may want - he will be waiting for you at the gate - when God decide's it is your time, too. I wish I could wrap my arms around you and give you a hug and allow you to weep - but this is the best that I can do here - but know - anytime - that you care to share - just let me/us know. Unconditional Love, Shirlene

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Dear mildred, I am so sorry for this loss. I undrestand this empty space that you feel. I have lost my DH 6years ago, there was 49 1/2 years of marriage , I think yet that it was yesterday. You have yet much love to give to your family, I hope they can be near of you and they need of you to show you their love for you. All your remembers of all those years together remain in your heart, and he will be always near of you by the thought. All my thoughts and prayers are towards you. Hugs Claude

Mildred, My heart goes out to you. Having lost one husband I know what u are dealing with. No one really knows unless they have been through it. My prayers are with you. God holds you in his hands & only He can give you the comfort & peace you need. Trust Him, He is there for You. Lillian *

Oh Mildred I am so truly sorry for your devastating news, I pray for the good Lord to give you the strength to get through this terrible time.

Sending you Angels and blessings and my most sincere sympathy. Meganne

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Tippi, So sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers go out to you and your family and I pray you find strength in our Lord to help you through this difficult time.

Dear Tippi, I was so sorry to read about your husband. What a lifetime of memories you have. I pray that you will be surrounded by all your loved ones at this time. Don't forget we are always here for you to vent out your feelings.

May our God bless you in the coming days and may He surround you with His love.

Love and blessings Chris

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Dear One, my heart goes out to you at this very sad time. My thoughts and prayes are with you.

I am so sorry to hear of your loss...I have been going through so much loss this year but cannot imagine losing my hubby...May GOD hold onto you and lift you completely up...We are all here for you and will be your shoulder in needf....deanna

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you'll be able to cherish the many good memories in times to come and wish you strength for the coming hectic days.

Dear Mildred so sorry to hear. We losta brother on the 10th but this must be so difficult for you. May you feel the arms of our God around you. Just live one day at a time.Elize

Mildred, it's so sad to hear of losses such as yours, after so many years to togetherness to have it taken from you. God has His plans so don't fight but DO accept the life to come. I too lost my 'prince' after 42 years of marriage but thank the Lord that I have my grown children who provided the grand children to hold and hug!!! There is an Arabic saying, "God will make Great unto you for your loss".

very sorry,biggest loss.my prayer for you dear Mildred.

So sorry to hear of your loss. May angels walk with you today & always.

So sorry to hear of your loss Mildred. Just know you are in our thoughs and prayers.

There are never words to express what you are undoubtedly feeling or what others feel for you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I am glad that you have had a long and happy relationship with your husband, but I know you would have liked it to be longer and for him to have had better health. I pray that you will find comfort in your family and friends and know that you have friends here as well.

Mildred ,I am so sorry. I wish we could help you. I hope you have family support. I know he is in a far better place where no illness exist. i will keep you in my prayers. Love , Kay

I'm so sorry for your loss. I have been married for 43 years to a great guy and i can only imagine how difficult it is. May the Lord take some of the pain away, and leave the laughter, joy, sweet warm memories to wrap you in.

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I pray your good memories will carry you through. I am praying for your heart to heal from all the pain. May God bless you and keep you safe in his loving arms.
Jeanne

Mildred, sorry about the lost of your husband, I will be praying for you and your family.

MIldred, Saddened to hear of your Beloved Husbands passing. Words really cannot express my thoughts. May the many many happy memories you have keep you strong. Sending much love your way . Pauline

May the memories of your 49-1/2 years with him comfort and soothe your grief. Mildred, our hearts go out to you.

I am so sorry for your loss and know that you will be in my prayers

So sorry for your loss. My hubby is recovering from prostate cancer surgery. We've been married for 40 years and this brush with mortality makes me appreciate each day, each minute. My prayers are with you.<br />Terri

Oh, Mildred, I am so sorry to hear this. I know that your heart is heavy right now with the loss. You have a good support group here, so please let us know when we can help you. Our prayers are with you and your family at this time.

Mildred, I am so truely sorry for your loss. Please know that others care and will be remembering you in our prayers. Hugs, Marjorie

Dear dear Tippi, I just read your post and my heart goes out to you and your family. Loosing a family member is undoubtedly the hardest thing in the world to go thru, but, we all must go thru it, some time or another. God can fill the empty place in your heart, let Him do it. Know that Hubby is now singing and dancing with the angels and definately would not want you to grieve. Yes, we all have to grieve, and yes it is okay to do so. Just know that God is with you and will listen anytime. He will take care of you, if you just let him. I am thinking of you and your family and include you in my prayers. Take care!

My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of loss; it's is a difficult time for you and I pray that God will give you strength and comfort.
Love,
Jacqueline

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It's sad to hear that your hubby passed away but I know he is in good place where there is no pain and sickness. It will be hard for you to adjust and with the coming holidays it will be more painful and lonesome for you. I'll be praying for you .

Dear Mildred. I am so sorry that you lost your husband. No words I can say will take away your pain. I can only pray that God sends you peace. Hugs Angie

Dear Mildred, I'm so sorry for your loss... Please, be strong, may the moments of you both together are beautiful enough to dont let you feel lost. Sending you my thoughts and prayers. Love,Yoriko

Mildred, sending thoughts of sympathy and hugs to you at this very difficult time. Seems that we are never prepared for this stage of life. May the memories of your lifetime together bring you comfort in the days ahead. Lj