by lv2sew 07 Nov 2009

On October 23, 09 my stepdaughter passed away. she was 36 years old. She left 7 children behind. We are having a benefit this Sunday to raise money to help the father with expenses as there was no insurance. I am looking for a FREE STANDING LACE remembrance design that would be suited for this type of occasion. It would be great if it could have an eyelet on top for stringing a ribbon to wear around our neck.. It does not have to be free...any and all help would be greatly appreciated...

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by katydid 09 Nov 2009

So sorry for your loss and hope the fun raiser was successful. I keep you in my prayers.

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by grammys56 09 Nov 2009

sorry for your loss. r u on sewforum?
http://www.sewforum.com/viewtopic...;t=134975&hilit=free+standing+lace
http://www.sewforum.com/viewtopic...;t=58954&hilit=free+standing+lace
hope these help & they r free. grammy

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by debleerl 09 Nov 2009

So sorry for your loss. There's a lovely cross and a heart at this site. May God give those children the strength to endure their loss.

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debleerl by debleerl 11 Nov 2009

sorry I don't know what happened to the link. It's at Sadiasews.com under special downloads.

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by migs 09 Nov 2009

How sad, sorry for your loss; also may her husband be a pillar of strength for all his children. God be with You all

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by bokkieborduur 09 Nov 2009

Sorry to hear about your loss. Will pray for you and family Love Marie

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by iris2006 09 Nov 2009

Sorry to hear a bout your loss, you and your family will need all the strenght there is. You will be in my thoughts.

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by manami 09 Nov 2009

Kathy, I'm so sorry for your loss! You and your family have my thoughts and prayers.
I hope you found the design, sorry I just found this post.
Love and blessings,
Yoriko

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by shirlener88 08 Nov 2009

Kathy, I don't know if you have found a design by now or not - I am so sorry for you loss, this is a heavy burden dear one that none of us want to bear. Gain strength for the children and love them more each day. You might use the design that Meg created for Loretta - in the Design by Cuties - instead of Loretta - you could put your stepdaughter's name, perhaps. It is larger and you could actually - leave the lettering off - that Meg has - put your stepdaughters name and dates - that way - it would be more like what you want. I know it is big enough for that sort of lettering - that is why I suggested it. *4U Shirlene

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by gerryvb 08 Nov 2009

sorry this happened,wish you all strenght to go on. I thought like some others of a design of an angel.some links are already given so I hope there's a design that will be the wright one. Good luck and much strength at the benefit.

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by lbrow 07 Nov 2009

You've been given lots of ideas.. I am so very sorry. Just a few yrs. back my brother lost his daughter, my neice, in early 40s leaving behind twin boys & a 20 yr old boy. Heart failure, a defect in her heart that she did not even know she had although going through 2 pregnancies. God has a reason for everything & He will give us the grace we need to go through troubles & trials so lean on him. *4u

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by sewmom 07 Nov 2009

Did your stepdaughter have any favorite hobbies or something that would be associated with her? We could search for a special fsl design that would fit her character.

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by judybell 07 Nov 2009

So sorry to hear of your loss also. Isn't it wonderful to know that our Lord will hold the little ones in His arms and guide them all their days? He will keep us all in the peace that only He can give us when we allow Him to do so. Will be praying for you and all the children. God Bless.
Judy *4U

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by mad14kt 07 Nov 2009

May the Lord strengthen and provide your families every need. My prayers for the children to lack nothing and that the will know that they are L*VED. It's NEVER easy in losing a L*VED one however; the Lord SPECIALIZES in things that seems impossible. May you and your family be RICHLY BLESSED and COMFORTED!

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by sewmom 07 Nov 2009

I'm very sorry for your loss.
Below are a few links to free angels.
My Embroidery Haven yahoo group has several angels under their charm files.

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by gramsbear 07 Nov 2009

Sorry to hear of your loss, I Pray that God will be with all of you

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by crafter2243 Moderator 07 Nov 2009

It looks as if you already received a lot of ideas. I am so sorry about the loss of your stepdaughter. Your family will be in my prayers. I wish for a successful benefit. Hugs Angie

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by psbs16 07 Nov 2009

I am so sorry. I lost my daughter 6 years ago. I understand your pain. An angel would be the perfect thing. Try the Stitchery Mall. There is a nice one under tinest angel of light design. May God give you strength. Hugs.

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by dlmds 07 Nov 2009

God bless all of you during your time of sorrow. H&*.

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by sarahrose 07 Nov 2009

my prayers are with you. I hope you find what you need.

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by marjialexa Moderator 07 Nov 2009

Oh, my word! What a terrible loss of one so young, and a young mother at that! I am so sorry for you and the family, and will keep you in prayer. I like the idea of the hearts, they'll do up faster if you have to make a lot of them. But just for the future, perhaps for the children, Sonia Showalter has Angels of Light on her website, a whole series of them, that are gorgeous. I have the pet angels, and they work up beautifully, although they do take a bit of time, being so very intricate. Best of luck on your benefit!! Big hugs, Marji

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by jrob Moderator 07 Nov 2009

I am so sorry for your loss and pray for all whom she left behind. This is devastating to loose one so young. May God hold you all in his arms.

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by jacquipaul 07 Nov 2009

My prayers are with you and the family. I cannot imagine how you feel, but pray that God will comfort you and ease you through your grief.
I agree with the other ladies that a FSL angel would be a lovely choice. Do you have many to make before Sunday?
Love,
Jacqueline

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lv2sew by lv2sew 07 Nov 2009

I am just making them for the family to wear at the benefit..and I think I will use an angel for her children to wear if I can find one I could put lettering on..

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by lenamae 07 Nov 2009

I think any kind of angel would be lovely depends on how large you want it to be there is tons of angeles out there cute has one that is lovely.for free. go to search and tipe in FSL angels and it will bring up sites that have them .I am sorry for your loss and will pray for her family.

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by mops Moderator 07 Nov 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. As far as the design goes, you have only a short time to stitch them in, why don't you use the FSL heart here on Cute with her initial in it? You might even have it in your stash as it was a freebie more than once.

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lv2sew by lv2sew 07 Nov 2009

YES!!!! I do indeed have it..I have a subscription and I didn't even think of it...see this is why I love this site!!!thank you

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by waterlily 07 Nov 2009

I'm so very sorry for yur loss! What a tragedy for that family! I pray that your benefit raises what is needed to pay the expenses, and then some. They will surely need it! My prayers are with you and your family!! As far as the design goes...What about an FSL heart, possibly with your step daughter's initials embridered in it. As if to say....she is always in your heart.

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lv2sew by lv2sew 07 Nov 2009

Thank you so kindly..We are lucky that we live in a small community where everyone comes together in times of need..We our blessed with the outpouring of help we have received not only in monetary donations but with prayers and loving support from the community.
The heart sounds like a wonderful idea.. I am open to anything...and yes this sounds very fitting to the occasion..

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by marymilf41 07 Nov 2009

oh i am so sorry to hear this i only wish i had what you were looking for i hope that shirlener may help she is the fsl queen as i do not much lace at all good luck and all my prayers will be with you and your family to help get you through this may god bless you all love mary

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lv2sew by lv2sew 07 Nov 2009

thank you sooooo much...our hearts are heavy now but we find comfort in the lord during these times and we must focus on the sweet lil ones she has blessed us with..she just had a baby this past father's day..our lil Isiah..

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