by kezza2sew 08 Jan 2009

Well on the 28th Dec my daughter Trudy, rang to tell me she and her partner and two children Lotus and Indiana were involved in a car accident. Trudy and the girls are all alive. Unfortunately Jason was trapped and passed away 6 hours later.

It was on his 35th Birthday. Lotus has head injuries which needs more surgery this monday. Indiana never got one scratch. Trudy has brusies and much soreness. Jason was called back to work so they all went, and a head on occurred when a female driver came over the double white lines. Jason was trapped and mutliply internal injuries. We were all devastated. John and I have bought the girls home to stay with us again until she is read to do whatever it is Trudy wants. We are giving her our house and we move into her little one down the back...We are here for her and the grand daughters...
I will not be on here like I used to be, have thought of you all often and must check out how Meganne is going...
I will come in when I can ok... and when I get a spare hour I'll catch up with you all as time permits...
All our lives have just chantged...Love Kerry

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by jasanne 10 Jan 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time, for Lotus's complete healing, and the strength for you all to carry on. Hugs.

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by crafter2243 Moderator 10 Jan 2009

I am so sorry that this happened when it should have been a happy occassion. My condolences to you all. I will keep you in my prayers.

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by lenamae 09 Jan 2009

OH my goodness Kerry I am so sorry for your loss my prayers will be with you, May God give you and your family peace and keep you safe and help you through all this.
Love you and your family Lena mae

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by sherylac 09 Jan 2009

Oh my goodness Kerry, so sorry for your family"s loss, my thoughts are with you and your family

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by stork 09 Jan 2009

So sorry for your family's loss. May our prayers offer you and your family some peace.Tonya

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by mandor64 09 Jan 2009

from all over the world we are praying for God to give you all strength! Mary

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by minicow 09 Jan 2009

Prayers to you & your family in this very sad time
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by debleerl 09 Jan 2009

So sorry for your family's loss. Take care and check in when you can. We'll be thinking of you.

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by clawton 09 Jan 2009

Sorry to hear about your tragedy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

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by dlonnahawkins 09 Jan 2009

What a devastating thing to happen. You take care of what is important, and come back when you can. we will still be here, and hope all goes well for your family.

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by auntbaba 09 Jan 2009

Kerry, I'm so sorry to hear about such a tragedy! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May all of you heal with God's love.

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by shirleysisson 09 Jan 2009

Kerry, my thoughts and prayers are with you and the family at this time. Please take care. Love and hugs Shirley

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by debrar 09 Jan 2009

Just wanted you to know you are in my thoughts and prayers.

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by shirlener88 09 Jan 2009

Kerry, you and your family will be in my thoughts, heart and prayers - you have given your daughter more support than anyone could ever expect - what a true testimony to your love for her. Keep in touch!

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by jrob Moderator 09 Jan 2009

Oh, Kerry, what a terrible tragedy. How you must be suffering to see your precious babies in distress. It is so hard to watch and not be able to take the pain away from those we love. You just take care of yourself and be her soft place to land when she needs you. You can only be the well from which she can draw strength now, but things will be different later. You are all in my prayers. love, Jerrilyn

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kezza2sew by kezza2sew 10 Jan 2009

Jerrilyn, that is so very beatuiful. Thanks sweetheart.

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by sueffb1 09 Jan 2009

I am so very sorry for your family's loss. Praying that everyone recovers physically and emotionally soon. Such a sad thing to have happen - stay strong for your daughter and granddaughters. Sue

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by americangirl 09 Jan 2009

I'm sorry to read this. Know that a lot of people are think of you at this time.

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by mops Moderator 09 Jan 2009

Kerry I'm so very sorry to hear your terrible news. You and your family are in my prayers, Lotus in particular.

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by iris2006 09 Jan 2009

What a terrible sad news to read. Please exept my sympathy for you all and take your time. Don't know what to say. (((((((((())))))))))) Hugs

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by camylow 09 Jan 2009

give the LORD time to heal you....Many prayers for you and your loved ones. Come here when you need extra love and support....

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by bdrouin 09 Jan 2009

My sympathy goes out to you and your family. There are no words to express to make it easier. Take the time you need to grieve. Each person grieves in their own way and needs the support of others to help them through it no matter how long it takes. But also be aware that sometimes the grieving can lead to depression and help is needed to guide the way. Hold each other, share the tears and take strength from each other, family and friends.

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by sqdancer 09 Jan 2009

Oh Kerry, mere words cannot express how sad we are to hear of this tragedy..so very very sorry...Do take care...hugs G xxxx

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by lbrow 09 Jan 2009

Kerry, God bless What can I say except God has a reason for all things & we hardly ever seem to understand but way down the road we will. I know that only leaning on him will get u through.U r already one of the ones on my prayer list & shall continue to b. Much love & admiration to u for what u r doing.

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by sissibrode 09 Jan 2009

Kerry, I am sorry misfortune strikes you and your family. You are in my thoughts

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by blessinge 09 Jan 2009

Kerry, You, your family along with Jason's family have my deepest sympathies. All of you will be in my prayers.
Take care

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by ejtads 09 Jan 2009

Kerry, My prayers go out to your family during this time of sadness. There is nothing like family that you can count on during a time of crisis.

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by claudenicolas 09 Jan 2009

Kerry, I am so srry to read that.It is awful,all that happens. You have all my sympathy, take care of your daughter and of your grandchildren, they need you very much, you are always in our thoughts, and come here with us when you need

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by dianned 09 Jan 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you, your daughter and your granddaughters and also her partner's family. With much Love, Dianne x x x

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by marjialexa Moderator 09 Jan 2009

Kerry, I am so deeply sorry!! Please extend my sympathy to your daughter Trudy, that must be so hard for her!! Losing Jason, having the children injured, and herself having bruises. She will suffer what you expect, but also "survivor's guilt", I'm sure, watch out for that one. Please take care of yourself, and Trudy & the kids. Do what you need to do, and know that we're here for you whenever you have a moment to check in. You all will be in my dearest thoughts. Love, Marji

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by nglover1 09 Jan 2009

Kerry, Pleasw let me extend my deepest Sympathy to you and your family during this difficult time. My prayers and thoughts are with you .

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by grandmamek 09 Jan 2009

I want to extend my deepest sympathy to you and your family. I will be praying for all of you tht the lord will give you all the strength to help you through this difficult time in your life.

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by raels011 09 Jan 2009

I am very sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts

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by brendaleas 09 Jan 2009

Kerry,
Prayer:Our Father,Please bless this family that has to deal with the lost of their loved one. Be with Trudy as she puts her life back together again. Be with Lotus and Indiana heal their young bodies whole once again. Bless Jason many friends and family members that has to say good-by. Give peace that is yours to give, and only yours. Help Kerry by given her good health and please make sure she gets rest when she needs it.
These things I ask in the name of our Father, the Son and the Holy Ghost.
Amen.

Kerry, I well continue with you and your family in my prayers.

God Bless all of you.
Brenda Lea of Webb City, Mo.

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by rmj8939 09 Jan 2009

How devistating for you all. Just keep praying for help from the Almighty and he will be there for you and family.

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by tinfriend 09 Jan 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathy! You are all in my thoughts and prayers! Sending you all HUGS too!
Take special care!

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by eveve 09 Jan 2009

.......... (sad)

In my country, we have reckless drivers that like to cut closely into others lanes. then there are those that think that are in some sort of movies where they can change 3 lanes within seconds. If that are not caught, then they either get themselves into trouble or they harm others when they continue their bad driving habits. over here, a lot of young lives lost are motobikes drivers.

I hope yr daughter (i believe she is older than me) & yr grandkids will recover fast. both physically n mentally. Life has to go on. At least yr daughter has her family now to help her through this tough times. Take care of yrself too.

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by michelej 09 Jan 2009

Oh Kerry, I am so sad to read this. What an awful thing to happen. You and your husband, daughter and grand daughters are in my thoughts...
Please take care of yourself also.....
Here is a big hug for you all.....((((())))))

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by gerryvb 09 Jan 2009

oh Kerry, what can we say....words are not enough for this terrible lost.wish I coulg give you a very big hug now to give you my support,pray for you all.hope you can help eachother.my deepest sympathy and a lot of hugs and a symbolic shoulder to cry on, *****

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by minnieb 09 Jan 2009

Kerry sorry to hear such sad news , times like these are so hard for parents as you have to deal with your loss, than you have to watch your daughter's pain of her loss , I truly feel for you
at time like these your daughter and her girls need lots of help so look after yourself.

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by nonna57 09 Jan 2009

Kerry, So sorry to hear this sad heartbreaking news. for you & family,Please except my deepest sympathy. A group hugs comes your way from all at cute.

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by nurselilly 09 Jan 2009

I am so sorry for your loss my heart goes out to you and your family at this time. We all understand that family comes first, we will be waiting for your return when you can take time and we will see you when you pop in take care ((((((((((((()))))))))))))) hugs for you

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by manami 09 Jan 2009

Dear Kerry, I'm so sorry to hear that. I'm terrible sad... I know there are no words that can comfort you now, but know that you and your family are in my prayers...

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by mpo14011 09 Jan 2009

I am so sorry,Kerry.It will take time, don't rush it. Come in when you are ready.

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by meganne 09 Jan 2009

OMG! Oh dear, I'm so sorry Kerry. This is just devastating for you all especially just when Trudy and Jason were starting their life together on their own. I'm just lost for words, and sending Angels and prayers hardly seems enough right now but......
I am sending my special Angel to watch over Lotus and I pray her recovery will be complete and that she won't have to go through any more surgeries.
If there is any way i can help or do anything for you.... Is Lotus still in hospital? Which one and where can I send a card and angel to?
My problems pale in comparison to what you are all facing, please know you will be in my thoughts constantly. Love and Gods's Blessings, Meg

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by babyred 09 Jan 2009

Kerry, so sorry for you and your family. All of you will be in my prayers.

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by 100pandas 09 Jan 2009

So sorry for you, your daughter and granddaughters.

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by castelyn 09 Jan 2009

Kerry so sorry to hear the sad news. You will all be in my prayers, God bless.
Love Yvonne Castelyn

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by sandralochran 09 Jan 2009

Kerry ,so sorry to hear of your sad news. My heart aches for you .You take care of yourself as your family is needing your support .God bless

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by bamaasc 08 Jan 2009

Kerry, I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Hugs! **

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by blhamblen 08 Jan 2009

Kerry I sit here crying as I read this. I am so sorry that you daughter has to feel such a loss at her young age. And I'm sure that you are hurting also. Please know that all the prayers and support from those here at Cute WILL help you thru this tragic time. I know from recent experience, first hand the love that comes from your family here. Know that you are loved. Barb

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by elaine45 08 Jan 2009

How awful for this to have happened to your family. It will effect to you all for a long time. I pray that you find the strength it will take to get through it all. Come back when you can and take care.

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by gerryb 08 Jan 2009

Kerry, I am so sorry. But we will always be here waiting for you to check in when you can! Remember we are thinking of you and your family.

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by marymoore 08 Jan 2009

oh my goodness kerry i am so sorry to hear of this please if you need to talk i am always here for you ok and love them girls as i know you do oh wow and give your daughter a hug from me also

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by emily16838 08 Jan 2009

You will be in my prayers and love that you are so close to your daughter and that you can help.

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by mariahail 08 Jan 2009

I am so sorry, this are very sad news, your family is so lucky for getting so much love and support from you and your husband.I will be praying for you.****

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by gramsbear 08 Jan 2009

Kerry, I am so sad for your news. I Pray God will be with all of you in this time of sorrow and hurting. You and yours will be in my Prayers, Hugs to all of you. Judy

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by cracker 08 Jan 2009

Oh how awful!!! I know your heart is breaking. Our prayrs and thoughts are with you. We are here if you ever need to talk.
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