by blueeyedblonde 10 Dec 2023

I haven’t been on here for a while and was truly saddened to see the posting of Vicki’s passing!


I’m still trying to get things sorted out from my hubbys passing Oct 26th. I’m still over at my daughters and trying to get the apartment set for just me - hard to do.

So, to Vicki’s family, I remind “take one day at a time”!

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by rescuer Moderator 10 Dec 2023

Thank you for the update. I wondered how you were doing. Please don't feel pressured into removing all his things. Someone I know did that because people said it would be easier. It wasn't and she regretted it. He may not be where we can see, but I believe he is still with you. Sending hugs

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blueeyedblonde by blueeyedblonde 12 Dec 2023

Most things are going, but I am keeping certain things - so, it’s ok. So, I’m not getting rid of everything - thanks for the encouraging words!

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by asterixsew Moderator 10 Dec 2023

I am very sorry but I did not acknowledge the death of your husband. I am sure that its taking time to adjust to a different life but good that you have family to help. Yes life is one day at a time though I am sure some days you feel you have gone backwards and not forwards. Condolences to your family and to you

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blueeyedblonde by blueeyedblonde 12 Dec 2023

Thank you. It is quite an adjustment! I lost my first husband about 35 years ago and that was hard. This time is also hard but in a bit of a different way as I am older and a little handicapped. So have to learn how to do things differently. But it will work out!

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by jrob Moderator 10 Dec 2023

I am glad that you are working toward a solution. It must be more difficult that anything to figure out how to be in a new and different world.

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by 02kar Moderator 10 Dec 2023

It’s good to see you pop in. I’m glad you have the support of your daughter. You take all the time you need. We are here if and when you need us.

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blueeyedblonde by blueeyedblonde 12 Dec 2023

Thank you!

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