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by toogie 03 May 2014 ( edited May 06'14 01:26 )
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Today was my first grandsons wedding shower.These are photos, mostly of his bride to be, with a few of him as well.He is not dressed very well,but came to haul home the treasures.He got there before they cut the shower cake,I think they waited for him.I love their topper! Not in order.#1 Caleb and Taylor (see the topper!) #2 she is so pretty #3 usual wedding gift,too heavy...A SAFE ! #4 dishes she liked #5 set of pots we got her. #6 daughter Ashley,gave them this heavy BBQ grill,took 3 guys to load/unload so they opened at her SUV-Can you tell how tickled they were? #8- unpacking-it has 6 burners! #9 lastly, me and my future grand-daughter-in-law with my 'new' jacket! #10 looking over gifts-edited-Caleb got their grill assembled-nice,uh?

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by elemausi 03 May 2014
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Congratulations grandma, you must be very proud.
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by toogie 03 May 2014
I am elated, a beautiful,sweet couple.Please pray for God's blessings on them.
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by asterixsew 03 May 2014
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Great jacket and a super story with it. Looks like a great time was had. I have not heard of a wedding shower before
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by toogie 03 May 2014
Really,you never heard of a wedding shower? Where are you from?We learn so much from other customs. Here in the USA, we invite family and friends,usually just women, to a party where refreshments are served and gifts are opened by the Bride-to-be.The groom usually shows up,but may not,at the end to load all the gifts.I good time is had by all,and both sides get to meet each others future relatives, if they haven't met all by now.The bride can register at places/stores where if she likes something in peticular. She can list it on a register in their name.As the item is purchased,the store marks it off her register,so no one else buys the same gift.It is not neccessary to do this but it is helpful,if you are unsure what to give and they want a certain item or set.If some don't give or come to the shower,they give at the wedding. What do they do where you are from? Do they not 'shower the couple' with gifts ?
by asterixsew 03 May 2014
I live in the UK. Your description sounds like a rather sedate hen night which happens in the UK. Gifts are not produced on these evenings. Many brides to be will have a gift list available but for the last few weddings there have been no gift lists. Gifts are given just before the wedding day or on the day. The family of one of my son in laws does not live near us at all so when we meet they have to stay
by asterixsew 03 May 2014
Thanks for your info
by toogie 04 May 2014
Thanks for yours too,I like to hear how things are done, elsewhere.Sometimes the bride is given a lingerie shower also,but it is usually attended by young women friends, of the bride and groom.
by mops 04 May 2014
We don't do showers either, neither for a wedding or a birth. Hen nights are something new as well, they came over from your neck of the woods some 20 years ago. Presents are always given after the event. A 10-days basket for a new baby is an old custom, made in advance of course and gender neutral, not to be opened before the birth and then one present a day. Nowadays they might or might not tell you if it's a girl or a boy, but the name is usually kept a well-guarded secret.
by Leaha 04 May 2014
The girl I made the owl blanket for would never wait to open the gifts one a day...She can't stand to have anything around that is a surprise! Me I love the anticipation and guessing. :)
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by shirley124 03 May 2014
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Lovely photos. Looks as though you all had a great day. love your new jacket. Shirley
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by toogie 04 May 2014
Thanks,Shirley,we did have a wonderful time.I love my jacket too,and no one was the wiser-lol
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by noah 04 May 2014
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lovely pics i had fun at the shower hehe hugs
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by toogie 04 May 2014
I am so happy you came!!!-lol-Toogie
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by cfidl 04 May 2014
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You are lovely! She is lovely. I need a grill! That one looks FAB! Best wishes to the happy couple. Why does your grandson have Caleb on the back of his arm.
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by cfidl 04 May 2014
Nevermind. Lol!
by toogie 04 May 2014
Yes,nevermind...I know, I hate that, so we won't discuss it...She is lovely,inside and out,but so is he,if guys can be 'lovely'-lol..We need a grill too and this was a nice one.She told me she bought it 1 1/2 years ago,on black friday for $150. I don't know what the regular price would have been.I know it is very heavy,too.
by sewilso 04 May 2014
Me too, tattoos have taken a lot of our youth by storm, my youngest son has them galore, my older one would never get one, me either and I work with several who have them too. I can think of better ways to spend my money. I sometimes call my embroidery clothing tattoos. lol! Just say it in thread!
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by sewilso 04 May 2014
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Beautiful shower pictures, you girls are dressed to the nines! Love your pictures, Caleb is dressed fine, they make a really cute couple with a really cute Grandma. Your jackets fits you nicely, glad you found it just in time. The cookware and dishes are very nice, lots of nice gifts for her shower. Sending blessings for a long happy marriage.
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by toogie 04 May 2014
Thanks for the compliments.They are a cute couple,both very handsome,if I may say so too...As for as the jacket,it did fit to a tee,so to speak,and was a lucky find.I think the dishes were from Bed,Bath and Beyond (do you have one of these near you?),and she got a $50.gift certificate for there,so she can add to her set.They also got money and more gift certificates,but I don't know exactly what.Thanks for the blessings!-Toogie
by sewilso 04 May 2014
Bed bath and beyond is a couple of hours away, we don't usually go there, we just don't shop as much, hubby hates it, but he sometimes likes bargain hunting sometimes. I like to look a lot and he likes to go in get what he wants and he's out of there. lol!
by toogie 04 May 2014
Most men I know do,run in and out.I like to look,so I am glad when hubby stays home-lol
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by decojo 04 May 2014
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Very good-looking couple. The bridal shower looked very well planned. Love the colors and the cake topper. Lovely photos. You look stunning in your new jacket.
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by toogie 04 May 2014
Thank you for your comments.I really liked the cake topper and the cake was so good.It had fresh stawberries in the filling and there are blue roses all over.I don't know if you can see them well in the photo.
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by Leaha 04 May 2014
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YOU look marvelous! That jacket is just fantastic. Thank you for letting me share in the bridal shower. They are a really cute couple. I think the best thing she is getting is a wonderful fun grandmother like you, Toogie. I've never seen a cake topper like the rings before, that is such a neat idea. Hugs Leaha
Forgot to wish them a long and happy life, Bless their union, oh Lord.
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by toogie 04 May 2014
Thank you for all your sweet comments,too, and a blessing.I had never seen this cake topper either,but I like it.
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by christracey 04 May 2014
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Looks like they got lots of goodies. They sure make a lovely couple & yes she is very pretty & will make a stunning bride. Your jacket matches your blouse/top perfectly.
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by toogie 04 May 2014
Thank you, they recieved many,lovely gifts.I haven't seen her wedding gown,but I know she will be beautiful.I guess we will all see in June,because you know I will have to show you-lol
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by hightechgrammy 04 May 2014
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Oh Toogie, they look sooo happy in anticipation of their new life together! And you look so pretty. How fun to have a shower for them!
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by toogie 04 May 2014
Yes, it was a fun gathering.They are so happy and altho I know the 'new' will wear off,I do hope they stay happy like the saying goes,"they lived happily ever after." Caleb has been very responsible ever since a teen,he worked at a local place,paying his own truck insurance.Then when he graduated he went straight to work at a plant making enough,that he moved out,on his own.So he knows about paying bills,saving,bugeting,etc. Taylor isn't finished with her college yet but I know she will,she is very bright. They should make it,they have been going together for quiet a while and seem to know each other pretty well by now.
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by marianb 04 May 2014
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Looks like it was a success, many nice this for their future house and don't you look wonderful in your new jacket, love the cake haven't seen one of these toppers before. Hope yoiu enjoyed yourself...
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by toogie 04 May 2014
I did enjoy myself.I only had tears one time,when a gift was opened.It had a beautiful saying on it,but I can't tell you, word for word, what it said.I know it was a blessing verse and I got teary-eyed.In the same gift was a set of coasters,they looked ceramic,with their last name on it.The lady that gave these has a gift shop here and she makes things for her shop,too.She may have made these gifts, and they were nice.
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by dragonflyer 04 May 2014
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Congratulations...looks like quite a haul!
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by toogie 04 May 2014
Thanks..they got a lot of very nice things,but not 1 bath towel or facecloth !- You would think somebody would have emb them a set-lol
by Leaha 04 May 2014
Why would any one think to do this? :P
by toogie 04 May 2014
I haven't a clue.
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by justsew 04 May 2014
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Wow every thing looks great, love your jacket. I had never heard of a wedding shower either. in the Uk gifts are taken to the wedding.
our Son gets married in June to on the 21st, what date is yours.
Hugs Pam.
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by toogie 04 May 2014
Same date!-The guest that were unable to attend,usually do bring gifts to the wedding.The weddings are such a busy time,I think that is why we have the showers,to get that part over and the couple can take it to the place they will live.Otherwise,they leave right after the wedding,for the honeymoon,and the parents would have to store it all.It just makes it a little easier,this way.Best wishes for your son and future DIL-Toogie
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by shozo1271 04 May 2014
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Toogie, your jacket looks like a million bucks! :) what a great find that was, huh? Your grands are super-cute. Happy for you and the family!
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by toogie 04 May 2014
lol-well,it doesn't look like I got it free,does it?Thanks, the g-kids are sweet and thank you for commenting.
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by zoefzoef 04 May 2014
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Things are always different in the world. In Belgium we don't have a wedding shower. (or not at least when I got married almost 20 Years ago)The birde & groom have a wishlist at a prefered store, and guest can buy items of it. these items are delivered to their house, or the guests bring them to the party or the couple picks them up them selves. We don't have a real party before.
these are for sure busy times.
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by toogie 04 May 2014
You say "or the guests brings them to the party". What party are you speaking of? Is it the wedding reception,after the wedding ceremony?...changing the subject for a minute.When I flew to Germany,40 plus years ago,we landed in Belgium.It sure was pretty,what I could see from the air.I remember a hillside,with rows planted.All the rows were so neatly planted and that image has always stuck in my mind.There was a doctor on board,that was kind to me,he lived there.
by zoefzoef 05 May 2014
I'm talking about the wedding itselves.
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by jrob 04 May 2014
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Lovely couple and it looks like they were "showered" with gifts to begin their new lives together.
I like your new jacket. It's looks wonderful on you.
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by toogie 04 May 2014
They did recieve quite a few gifts,all really nice.I 'll venture to say,that Caleb is happy now, they had this shower. He didn't really want one, because he's 'been making out' with enough. We told him no,let her pick out some things that she would like,after all it will soon be her home too.....Thanks about the jacket.I freeze most of the time winter or a/c so I almost,always need sleeves or a jacket.
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by rachap 04 May 2014
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Cute couple! Best wishes to them that they may always be as happy as they are today.
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by toogie 04 May 2014
Thank you very much,my wishes too.Thanks for looking.
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by pldc 04 May 2014
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Looks like a wonderful day for all! Best wishes for them my friend! You look styling in your "new" jacket too! ~hugs~
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by toogie 05 May 2014
Lol-thanks,we had a marvelous time!
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by lindalee757 05 May 2014
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What a great looking couple Toogie-Taylor is beautiful. Sounds like they made out quite well with their gifts. I love when practical gifts are given-not something that has to put away for safe keeping and only taken out to admire once a year(or 10)- Congrats to Taylor and Caleb! ~linda~
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by toogie 05 May 2014
Thanks,Linda,I do too.I have dinnerware/china that I never use
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by toogie 05 May 2014
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sorry double post
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by toogie 05 May 2014
reloaded grill
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by airyfairy 05 May 2014
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They make such a handsome couple. WOW - what lovely presents.
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by toogie 05 May 2014
I think so too Sarah,but of couse I should-lol They were blessed with nice gifts,friends,love and laughter!
by toogie 05 May 2014
I thought the safe was an useful,but unusual gift. It is fire proof and waterproof.
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by crosses 05 May 2014
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Beautiful couple and you look great in your thrift store find.
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by toogie 05 May 2014
they are a very sweet couple,too.......I'm not sure I can look 'great' anymore-lol-but thanks for saying it.It sure doesn't look 'free' does it?
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by lidiad 05 May 2014
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Congratulations to the beautiful couple! You look great too.
Thank you for sharing these photos.
Hugs, Lidia
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by toogie 05 May 2014
Thanks Lidia,they are beautiful to me.-I couldn't contain myself,had to show photos,so be forewarned in June for wedding photos!-lol-Toogie
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by katydid 06 May 2014
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Hanson guy , pretty girl!!! perfect couple! Hope they live happy ever after!
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by toogie 06 May 2014
Thanks Katy,me too!