Thank you everyone for your thoughts and prayers. They have said Ray has stage three cancer and they are going to start treatment on the 21st Jan. 6 hours of chemo and then radiation in the afternoon. They won't give a prognosis but have said a positive attitude helps. He is going to have chemo and radiation at the same time .5 days a week for 6 weeks and cannot come home while having treatment and is expected to spend some time in hospital as there will be lots of side effects because of the size and placement of cancer . Meganne has been a rock to talk to and given us some great tips for Ray to help with side effects

I will be thinking of you both on 21st, especially Ray. Please keep us posted to how he is getting on. Many hugs across the miles. Sarah.

Dear Raelene, you and Ray continue in my thoughts and prayers. Love and hugs, Yoriko

You and Ray will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. Keep us posted on how you are both doing as you can.

will be praying for u my friend hugs

Dear Raelene, I do pray that Ray will get through his treatment with not too much discomfort. I'll certainly keep you and he in my daily prayers for strength and a calm assurance that our Great Healer is with you all the way. Love and blessings Chris

(So glad you got to talk with Meg)

Dear Raelene, my prayers are with you and Ray. Keep a positive outlook on this and remember anything is possible through prayer and God always listen. Hugs

I well continue to pray for your hubby and of course for you also. Hugs, Judy

My prayers are with both you and Ray, my dear one.

you are both in my prayers Hugs Loralye

Thinking of you Raelene.

Thinking of you both every day. My prayer will be for Ray to win this battle and for you to be his rock - strong and dependable - as you walk this road together, knowing that the Greatest Power is with you all the way.
Much love - Alma.

That is lot of treatment, but miracles do happen, I have seen it with my daughter in laws mother. It is AMAZING what they can do nowdays. I thought she had no chance and she has recovered and looks fantastic.
Pray that the same will go for your husband. Sending strenth and love to you both. Edith

My friend, sweetie , you and your family are in my prayers. Be strong!

Raelene, I will continue to pray for Ray and for strength for you! Do keep a positive attitude - you have all our prayers!! Hugs, Laura*

You and Ray are in my prayers, and will be during the weeks ahead. May the dear Lord give you both all the strength you need for this journey together! Hugs and God Bless you both:>)

Continuing prayers for you both.
Hugs, Nadyne

Raelene, my prayers are with you and Ray. Keep a positive attitude,anything is possible thru prayer and God.Stella.

hang in there , better days are ahead, just a bump in life.My prayers are with you.

Sending him hope and prayers for a recovery or remission! Chemo is so boring and that is a lot of hours to be getting it, mine was only 1 1/2 hours and I was bored. Now I am getting radiation and it only takes a few minutes once you get in. I hope his side effects are few and easy on him. Sending hugs to you both!

My prayers will be ongoing for you and Ray, Raelene, that side efects are minimal and for successful results from the treatments. As someone else stated, take good care of yourself, too, during this stressful time!
May the Lord bless you both!
Hugs, Angel

You are in my thoughts and prayers

Please know you and Ray and in my prayers. As others have mentioned, keep your spirits up and God will be there to help you both through the road ahead.
Hugs Jerri

God Bless and keep his healing hand on Ray and you also.

Dear Raelene,
My thoughts and prayers are with both you and Ray during this difficult time. Know that your Cute family is here to give you all the support you need. You and your loved ones are very special to us.
In friendship
Marion in Kentuck

Raelene, here with the other Cuties, loving you through this. You both have my prayers and please try and take care of yourself, too. You will need to be well when he comes home to finish his recouperation.

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Dear Raelene my prayers are with you and Ray. This sounds like rough times are ahead of Ray and you and I am glad he is staying in the hospital. Keep a positive attitude. Many prayers are on your side.

You are both in my thoughts and prayers.
hugs
Michelle

That is going to be an intense schedule of treatments. Sending prayers of strength for you both.

I am so sorry that the two of you are going to have to go through all this. You and Ray are on my prayer list. Please remember to take care of yourself throughout the 6 weeks.

You have mine and Ray's love and support, I'm only ever a phone call away, but with you both, in spirit, every minute of every day.
Sending an Angel to guide our prayers to HIM.
Hugs and blessings, Meg

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That's going to be a tough schedule, Raels. I hope you are remembering to look after yourself at this time to be able to keep both of your spirits up and do all that trekking back and forth to where he will be. Wishing all the best for both of you. Marianne

Hugs and prayers are with you and Ray. Keep a positive attitude at all times. That helps a lot. Stay in touch and let us know of Ray's progress.
We are here for you 24/7. Take care of yourself too, dear. Rachel

both of you will stay in my thoughts and prayers, and a positive attitude will always help. Hugs, Gerry

God bless & keep you both!! Surround yourselves with loving, supportive and positive people!!

Raelene thinking of you and Ray. Yes positve thinking is a great healer. Thats what got me thru my cancer with the power of prayer and God. Be strong and keep in touch. Pauline x x