by toolips 15 Apr 2012

why do some people feel the need to chastise cuties whether it is in the community forum or in a private message? do they perhaps think they are better then everyone else & that are the self appointed cute police!i personally think it's quite rude!& i'm sure they think they are being "helpful" but let me tell you this YOU ARE NOT! & YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE!

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by castelyn 16 Apr 2012

Yes, I also had a PM when I started on the site, way back.
I just wrote back to her and never heard from that person again, in a PM or for that matter anything else that I have written on the site.
So just have your say to her and get it over and done.


Hugs Yvonne

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toolips by toolips 17 Apr 2012

heres hoping its just that easy!

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by susiesembroidery 16 Apr 2012

I have no idea of what is going on now> Just hope I am not the one offending anybody else.

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by mjdg 16 Apr 2012

In the great scheme of things.... what does it matter?

Forget 'bout it! These people don't deserve the attention!

:)

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toolips by toolips 17 Apr 2012

that's one of the smartest things I have read all day! THANK YOU!

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by tilde01 16 Apr 2012

Every place we go, are the appointed police, whether on here or another forum. I personally just ignore them, unless they are the moderators of the site. *4u

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by noah 15 Apr 2012

I have learned its all about the heart .Whats in their comes out in some form .hugs

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by darmoola 15 Apr 2012

Unfortunately...this happens from time to time.

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by thecraftycritter 15 Apr 2012

Sorry someone got out of line and offended you, please accept my apologies for someone elses rude behavior. Maybe they were just having a bad day, we all do sometime. I'm a firm believer in "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." If we all practice it, the world would be a better place.

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lenamae by lenamae 16 Apr 2012

truer words were never spoken thank you.
I don't pay attenion to it if I did I may stay up set over something here or there.
hugs Lenamae

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by hightechgrammy 15 Apr 2012

NOT AGAIN! I'm going to go wish Happy Birthday to some Cuties :-)

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by zoefzoef 15 Apr 2012

hmm,, I think I'm missing something too.. Unless without knowing I have offened somebody. Then I appolize. But we have a saying "when you say A, you have to say B too"; which means -in this case- talk straight to the person who has offended you. Clear it out. Maybe it is a misunderstanding, this can happen when you need to express yourself in a different language. And if this does not help... Love, peace and happiness...

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suelyn7 by suelyn7 15 Apr 2012

Yes I Agee you are so right

susiesembroidery by susiesembroidery 16 Apr 2012

Absolutely true.

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by caroldann 15 Apr 2012

ahhh. the cute police. Yes, we do have a few. Ignore them, I think most of us do. There are too many other wonderful, helpful, kind and generous cuties to let a few get you down. Hugs..Carol

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noah by noah 15 Apr 2012

good word hugs

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by michemb 15 Apr 2012

Cannot please all of the people, all of the time. Do not take it personally and do not let it stop you from participating on this forum. LIFE IS JUST TO SHORT
hugs
Michelle

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by airyfairy 15 Apr 2012

Am I missing something??

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parkermom by parkermom 15 Apr 2012

Me too. I am totally clueless. On the plus side, therefore innocent, and you must be too.

marcellelewis by marcellelewis 15 Apr 2012

What happened? I missed it.

Marcelle

nannynorfolk by nannynorfolk 15 Apr 2012

me too

shirley124 by shirley124 16 Apr 2012

Me too

tilde01 by tilde01 16 Apr 2012

I think she got a pm trying to police what she replied to or posted.

marcellelewis by marcellelewis 16 Apr 2012

Who is acting as the 'cutie' police? I hate it when I miss things.

toolips by toolips 17 Apr 2012

yes that's right!

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by suelyn7 15 Apr 2012

Wow. Somebody sure rattled your cage. Just let it go and move on its the only way. Best wishes suelyn

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by bevgrift 15 Apr 2012

Hi, Welcome to Cute.
There are the odd occasions,
Even the best of friends or family sqwabble.(sometimes it can get ugly)
I still visit and love the Cute Site.
Hope you can find comfort that all are not bad.
Hugs Bev

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by lesleyann 15 Apr 2012

sweetie just ignore her,I do!

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toolips by toolips 17 Apr 2012

thanks I will

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by dino 15 Apr 2012

I just ignore it. I'm not going to let myself get upset by something someone else thinks or feels.

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by pldc 15 Apr 2012

wow if your going to let off steam I guess this can be a good sounding board! Well @least your not alone in the chastising department! Take it with a grain of salt if you mess up move on if not just ignore it

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sewdoctor by sewdoctor 15 Apr 2012

good advise

toolips by toolips 17 Apr 2012

i guess this is the right plan!

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