There is too much whinnying and complaining here anymore..I am out of here.

I haven't noticed the whining or complaining, are you having a bad day? There are a great group of people here who like to help each other and help to lift each other up. I'm so sorry that you had a bad experience.

I don't usually get involved in this type of thing but I never have seen whinnying and complaining on here. I really like this group. I am retired and on a very limited income so I enjoy the designs and chat. I check quite a few times a day thanks everyone for your free designs

Please address the REAL reason you posted this. Obviously if you were just tired of the complaining, you could simply not look at the site again. Attention? I am miserable and would like others to know it? Come join our hands in friendship. May I help in any way?

The first site I go to is this one every day, just love it and have had nothing but help and friendship. Love Cica South Africa

I think we should love each other and if we do have whinning to do. We should be here to listen to it. I am here. I love all you cuties if you want to whinn I will listen.

My visits here are erratic and I've missed something. Sorry you've been upset and feel the need to leave, I hope you will change your mind as we'll miss your posts in community and projects. Best wishes in whatever you do Jo x

I thought it was cute, you're complaining about to much whinnying and your avatar is a horse!

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by sewmom 20 Jan 2009

I didn't even catch that. I'm slow.

by lbrow 20 Jan 2009

I noticed but thought I had said enough n my comment to her. *

This is another reason I love my country, and this site, we are still free to make our own decisions. Good luck where ever you hang your hat.

Okay Elaine, if you wish to leave, leave, this is a public site, where people air what they want too. this is another way of letting go of something that may be troubling them... Since I have joined this site, I have had so much help, in lots of many ways, I love seeing your projects, and hearing what you have to offer, good luck,, whatever you decide to do

Elaine
I am sorry you feel bad I have not been on this site very long but it has helprd me a lot . It is a place where you can ask a question and get a answer a place where you can ask for prayer and get it.I personal think it is a wonderful site it is the only one I go to to read about what others are doing and to see the projects they post .I belive it is the most helpful and great site ever. Please think about it and don't leave I love to see the things you do . I am alone a lot and do not have any one to talk to . moved here from my home because this is where my husband works.love and hugs from me Lena mae

i have been on this site for nearly 1 year and have not come across any bad vibes i don,t know if it is a time thing or not but i try to read what goes on at night when i am away from here and still don,t see anyone being spitefulness i personally love this site and thik if you leave you will be leaving a lot of good ppl behind

I am sorry to hear that you feel this way, maybe you will just think bout it in a few hours and feel different. Hate to loose a cutie over something like this. Whatever you decide good luck!

Personally, I find it a really positive place. If I am sad, lonely or can't sleep, I often log on and just read the comments and concerns- online friends, to my mind. And, in friendship, there is honesty, so sometimes things aren't totally happy. Surely, though, that is the strength in accepting and celebrating each other.

Dear Elaine, I don't know what happened to you to feel that way, and I'm so sorry to hear you are leaving. I've had my bad days here too but, I'm staying here for my friends, for the love and support I've been receiving, and for the words you can amazingly feel each others heart. I've learnt here, that bad ones can't make up your mind when you find out that the in other side there is a bright and lovely family. Please, stay, I know lot of us will miss you badly. Hugs&blessings, Yoriko

Elaine - Im sorry you feel this way - i have just returned from vacation 4 weeks and am trying to catch up on things here at cute and already i have come across 2 people that are not happy. I find this site is laden with beautiful people who care, unfortunately there are always going to be bad apples so to speak, but if we were all perfect society would be very boring don't u think? It saddens me to read that people are becoming disgruntled with this site - this site was made for all of us to share our passions, dreams, sadness and happiness. I hope u reconsider as i will miss u and your great input into this site - Love Dianne

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by manami 18 Jan 2009

Dianne, it's good to hear from you again, I was worried about you. Hugs, Yoriko

by shirlener88 18 Jan 2009

Dianne, it is good to see you posting - Jerrilyn was asking about you last week - so you should see an email from her - glad to know you were only on vacation. Good to have you home, again.

by blackie 19 Jan 2009

Dear manami and shirlener - i am back and feeling a bit better and am grateful for your concern - i love this site and will try and contribute a bit more, and not lurk around so much - love to u both - Dianne

I don't know what you are referring to about the whining but I have found nothing but friendship, love and help here and I think it is your loss if you leave but that's your decision.
Becky

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by angelmakes3 19 Jan 2009

Well said

by castelyn 19 Jan 2009

well said. I fell the same becky
Yvonne

I have had nothing but love and good vibes from this site. I LOVE IT HERE.
I have learnt so much from all you lovely cuties I have a "good advise basket" and a "bad advise basket" I just choose and delet the bad from the good. No harm is ever done by suggestions.
Marlene

Elaine I'm sorry u feel this way, perhaps u have just had a bad day. I have been here a while, none of us r perfect, we all have good days & bad days, I love my cute fmly, they have been with me through good & bad, laughed with me, cried with me, prayed for & with me, sure every once n a while some one comes along who is evidently looking for something she/he cannot find but it's their loss, we r here because we love what we do, want others to love our craft as we do & r willing to help any way we can. While we r doing that we also care about your whole being & if u have troubles we r willing to listen, sometimes just knowing someone is there to hear how u feel is enough. This is a fmly here with many members from all around the world who care & we r sorry u r unhappy with us.

My goodness Elaine, I know not what you are speaking of - but if whatever it is - bothers you that much - I do wish you well and most of all - I will miss your project posting and you so very much. Good luck to you! Shirlene

Sorry you feel this way & want to leave- I loooooooove it here & have made friends from all over the world
hugs & sparkles from minicow

I have found You will find whatever you are looking for. I'm not being a smart aleck by saying that....that is just the truth. I am happy for the love and support here. I feel bad that you are unhappy.

So sorry you feel that way. Sometimes we type things and you can't "hear" the tone of voice! It may NOT be whinnying/complaining...just an opinion. As I tell my adult kids, "I am entitled to my opinion. You don't have to follow it, agree with it, or think it's right. But it's my opinion. Not a FACT!!" We laugh & ALL of us express our opinions!

I don't know why you feel that way, but I love it on here for the way everyone seems to support each other in their sorrows and joys. I pray you find peace wherever you go...

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by sandralochran 18 Jan 2009

I agree Well said

Sorry about my post but it wasn't mean personal. It's about the post I put in about the votingrequest I think. If that is so than it was just a question if it was usefull to take Letvia's time for doing this without any result and I think that is not complaining or whinnying.

I have quit other forums because of whinnying, complaining and mean spirits. I don't happen to find that here. Elaine I'm sorry you find that here. I have been lucky to find nothing but kindness and friendship and wish you the same.
Mickey

Sorry but I think you are wrong, nobody is whinnying. Everybody has the right to say whatever they think, even me. I know that you are telling this because the voting request post from Iris2006. This is a forum where I (particularly) come to talk about embroidery but also to talk about other things. I think this was a place where I can find friendship and help. I can stop the voting request because I have both membership (Cute and Amazing) but this is not the point. The point is that I like to help others but I also need your help. And to go back to your point, I think everybody can says what they feel without the fear to bother any of us. Sorry if I bother you but that is what I feel. Flower and XoXo

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by blhamblen 18 Jan 2009

Thanx for speaking your mind...we ALL can say whatever we want...Sticks and Stones may break my bones But words can never hurt ME!