by ezzemml 21 Dec 2008

The man is free and was found not guilty because the barrister for the man called for a persarde that is where the judge has to point out any inconsistances and he did it so well that there was no convictions that had none in the judges eyes and the jury were given the option to say if they cannot come to a conclusion they can say that they do not wish to continue and he was then found not guilty. It was the court system that let her down. they only had her video tapes and him saying no comment. that was it and he was a carer and he is now free to do it again and he drives the community car that transports aged and disabled people to doctor appointments. One of my cute friends said that there is a reason for everything . And i have decided not to let this man take away any of our lives with negative thinking and such . The judge only saw the tapes twice and thought what was being said by her was I don't know as a question was repeated. as an inconsistancy. When in fact she was saying that but meaning I don't know what you are asking. This man still has one more judgement and that is with his maker. And there will be no-one to stand up for him then.

Please pray that if there is any more victims out there that they will come forward.And to keep my self positive I have found the reason for this. I am now committing my self to lobby for the rights of the dissabled to have the court system change. So no interlectually disabled person has to go through this again. And I would like you all to pray that I will find the means to do this.

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by ruthie 24 Dec 2008

ezzemml, so sorry to hear that things didn't go the way you wanted them to, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers sweetie, love and hugs to you.

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by marjialexa Moderator 23 Dec 2008

Oh, Ezze, I'm so sorry!! Such injustice is awful. Our court systems were set up to find justice, but they have become circuses, where lawyers & judges are clowns, hogtied by insane rules. I hope you will find a way to channel your disapointment into ways to help those angelic beings God has put into your care, and all who must depend on others for their care. You are probably taking it worse than your daughter. I will pray with all my heart that you have a good Christmas, and that the New Year will bring you many unexpected bright blessings. I'm so glad you have the Cute Family here for you!! Many hugs, much love, Marji

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by quiltgrama 23 Dec 2008

All has been said below but my thoughts will be with you. I have an adopted brother with downs and would defend him with all my power. Thank god your daughter has you. Lisa

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by persiancatlover 23 Dec 2008

i'm so sorry to read what you where going true,some people think that they can get away whit everything that they do,judgement can be so strange,people who streal do they lock up but people who rape and murder can sometimes go free,what can we people do about it,you have my prayers

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by castelyn 23 Dec 2008

Oh my god. What is this world coming to!!! I am so sorry to read about what has happened. I can`t believe he has got away with this. His day will come eventually....my thoughts and prayes are with you and Your children (God Bless)

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by camylow 23 Dec 2008

just please remember that satan has his hold on this man and our dear heavenly father tells us to pray for our enemies, even our enemies the Lord created as a baby. If we hate, it festers in us and we do not experience the Lord's Love. I am very happy to hear you going out and fulfilling a purpose I believe the Lord had planned for you. Many blessings and encouragement in your path for justice,,,,

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by lbrow 22 Dec 2008

My dear ezzemmi, I've just read every comment u have received about all this & I have been blessed reading all of them.No one can know exactly how u feel n your heart but the Lord himself, Your healing has already begun , I can tell that by what u have said about reaching out to others. A terrible injustice has been done, heed the advice you've been given, know u r loved by all & especially by God. He will help u. God specializes n things thought impossible & he'll see u through.

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by dgrammy 22 Dec 2008

Oh so sad to hear this, but as the others said someday he will get whats coming to him. I have said a prayer for you and your daughter and I have no great words of wisdom just a great big hug and know we are always here for you. XXX N ***

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by celticlady1031 22 Dec 2008

Brenda Im so sorry to hear your news. I wish I could say the court system is infallible, but we all know it isn't. Having spent 10 yrs in Special Olympics, I know how important it is to have knowledgeable, caring, honest caregivers. My prayers are with you and your daughter. I hope you can get past this enough to enjoy the Holiday season with your family and friends.

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by peggy 22 Dec 2008

I wish I could add some comment of wisdom but I have none. The world is not fair, but the weakest of us are protected with a strength that is not of this world. Please love her more and hate him less. The power will then be yours, not his.
I will not add my own thoughts of anger but believe me they are there even after 45 years. I have to redirect it every time I hear or read of such an act of one person on another.

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by brendaleas 22 Dec 2008

I am so heart broken about this. My prayer are with you and your daughter and the whole family.
May the God of judgement give this aniaml a sickness that makes his balls fall off!!!!
I am so mad about this. He will get his!! People know what kind of man he is now. and he will be tagged as a aniaml. These kind of people who hurt our children are not even human!

He may think he has gotten away with it, but someday this will hit him in the face.

keep you faith and smile cause the judge of all judges knows all! and he can give him the worst punchment there is, burning in hell for all time!!
God Bless you and your loved ones, this most holy of seasons. The birth of our Lord and savior.

Brenda, of Webb City.

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by iris2006 22 Dec 2008

Sorry to hear about the result of the court, but the beast will get his JUSTICE ONCE. Be strong for your children and have a Happy Christmas with your family.

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by rmj8939 22 Dec 2008

I just read the note you wrote. God Bless you and your daughter. His day will come, as you say. May he rot in hell. Have a blessed Christmas.
Lily

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by mpo14011 22 Dec 2008

I am sorry, Brenda.His day will come.Don't let this spoil Christmas for your family.

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ezzemml by ezzemml 22 Dec 2008

Hi Ricky we will survive and grow stronger will catch up wit you after Christmas.

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by mollymarie 22 Dec 2008

What is this world coming to, my thoughts are with you and daughter and your family, that animal will get his own oneday. Justice will be served. May you have a merry Christmas. Hugs Carol

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ezzemml by ezzemml 22 Dec 2008

Thanks Carol Just knowing I have your support abd care means a lot to me as it is just me and 3 Downsyndrome young adults at home amd i need all my cute friends.

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by gerryvb 22 Dec 2008

sorry to hear, we will all try to support you, hugs gerry

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ezzemml by ezzemml 22 Dec 2008

Thanks Gerry I need those hugs.

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by michelej 22 Dec 2008

Oh my god. What is this world coming to!!! I am so sorry to read about what has happened. I can`t believe he has got away with this. His day will come eventually....my thoughts are with you and your daughter. Take care!!

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ezzemml by ezzemml 22 Dec 2008

Satan knows where to rear his ugly head for sure.

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by sherylac 22 Dec 2008

I am so sorry to hear your bad news but, this man will get his own one day, and my thoughts are with you..

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ezzemml by ezzemml 22 Dec 2008

He still has to face Heavenly Father.Thanks for your thoughts.

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by manami 22 Dec 2008

I'm so sorry to hear about all the things you are going through. I take the JRob words 'when we can't, God can'. You and your daughter will be in my prayers too.

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ezzemml by ezzemml 22 Dec 2008

Thank you and thanks for being here for us.Also thank you for the lovely designs.

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by elaine45 22 Dec 2008

Sorry things went the way they did I can only imagine how you feel. But don't let him take away anymore form your lives. He will pay at one point for what he has done. I do pray that you can come to grips with this.

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ezzemml by ezzemml 22 Dec 2008

elaine I am not sorry as it put me in a position to where i can try and correct a flaw in our leagal system.and that will help many

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by tatorbugcreations 21 Dec 2008

There is nothing I can say to make you feel better. Just try not to become bitter. Then he wins. Your daughter is going to need your strength. God never gives us more then we can bear. (((hugs)))

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ezzemml by ezzemml 22 Dec 2008

I am not angry more hurt than angry. I have three of Gods special children with me and they are vetry humble beings they teach me.and just being here for me does make me feel good.

tatorbugcreations by tatorbugcreations 22 Dec 2008

I am glad you are not angry. I am sure that I sure would be. My mother was raped when I was a teenager. She still wont talk about it much. She went to therapy for a while and that seemed to help. God Bless.

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by jrob Moderator 21 Dec 2008

Dearest Ezzemml, When I can't, God can and I will let him....Humble yourself to Him and ask for his guidance and you will be given the way in which God wants to use you. I am so sorry that this has happened to you and I know that our Father weeps. Please warn the caretakers at the nursing homes or whereever he picks up the aged and disabled what has happened,so maybe you can stop him from doing this horrible thing to anyone else.

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ezzemml by ezzemml 22 Dec 2008

Thank you for your advic I live on prayer but i do need to move on from this ny daughter is taking it fine and that is my main concern. yjr [eople are in there own homes that is what makes it hard.non the less i will do my best to get it out there.

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by raels011 21 Dec 2008

Just remember what goes around comes around He will get his when he least expects it

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ezzemml by ezzemml 22 Dec 2008

Hopefully some one else will come forward
and be able to convict him.

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by nonna57 21 Dec 2008

So sorry to hear the results. But take heart that one day soon JUSTICE will come for this NASTY (not human) but animal Hugs to you & family at this time.

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ezzemml by ezzemml 22 Dec 2008

Thank you

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