by rcraftlady 25 Nov 2008

what I was doing was incorrect, unwelcome or played a role in moving this forum in a NEW and undesirable direction. I quietly watched for quite some time before becoming swept-up in what seemed, at the time, to be a very warm, open-minded exchange and a sharing of that which each individual had to offer to the group. However, after this post, I will also be leaving. I firmly believe that if the suggested censorship of this site is embraced, any uniqueness that it has to offer will be lost and its value greatly diminished. I receive countless daily digests, read numerous online chats and participate in a number of Yahoo groups, which demonstrate the narrow-focus suggested for this forum. I would also like to point out that there are an endless number of resources, both online and in print, that offer a wide range of approaches and well-written, concise answers to virtually any ME question or issue that we might have. However, I'm NOT suggesting that questions be disallowed, I think that we all benefit from the asking and answering. However, what I am suggesting, is that censorship of the group for other than such things as illegal or socially unacceptable content would be a major error in judgment. The offerings of new sites to visit and, yes, the enticement of the freebies that they may offer has great potential for increasing the size and knowledge base of the forum community, not to mention the participant forum approval level/happiness with the site. The more who participate, the more who will become paying members of the site, if that is the concern. A happy forum member, refers their friends, colleagues and acquaintances, which I have done on a regular basis. I found, that the men and women of this forum are very, very diverse and I feel that it is unwise to govern the direction of this site and this forum in a manner that is narrow in perspective. Personally, the posts that are of little, well actually NO, interest nor value to me... are those that boast of the accomplishments of the writer or point out such things as the number of flowers that the writer has accumulated. However, I would far prefer to take these posts with an open mind and spirit, rather than one of censorship, as the writer simply had a need to post this material and that should, in my mind, be good enough reason. I remind myself, to be more accepting of those, who appear less well-endowed intellectually, who feel the need to boast, or who are boorish or petty. I have enjoyed the forum and the many lovely participants. I would suggest that a bit of information be posted in a prominent location about Veronica and about the expected focus, practices and procedures of forum participants. I've looked and found nothing that would suggest what I have read today is acceptable. I am saddened by that which has transpired and will sign off for the final time.

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by nurselilly 26 Nov 2008

I am sadded you feel that you have to leave the family of cuties. The way i took the post suggesting we all use the topics to post instead of just general was that it would make it easier for us to find what we are looking for eg hints freebies, reminders to collect free alphas when updated to other sites, or just a place to talk when thing that happen in our life turn us upside down. I know some people feel much better comming here posting their concerns or fears and if any of us can help in any way to maybe brighten their day then thats got to be a good thing as far as im concerned. By tagging the post would make it easier to find but i dont think its a situation where if you dont post in the right place someones going to get upset and tell you off for doing so. I think the post was ment to be a friendly reminder to help us all out to find what we are looking for from this site without searching through the whole site to do so.I think it was ment to be a general reminder or hint and not ment in a nasty way. Take care happy stitching stay safe:)

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mops by mops 26 Nov 2008

That's the way I took it: making it easier to find what you're looking for. I use the possibility to mark a question quite often, f.i. when I want to look something up before answering; by that time it might be on page 6 or 7, as happened last week. Suggesting to give it the right tag is hardly censoring, is it?

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by manami 26 Nov 2008

I'm terrible sad you are leaving...

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rcraftlady by rcraftlady 26 Nov 2008

Before I go, I must tell you that you are an inspiration to me. Your presence here was one of the primary reasons that I became an active participant. I have forwarded your designs to my adult children, who are students of Japanese culture and language and your link to view Mt. Fuji. I think that they too have experienced the warmth that you exude, surprisingly even through the computer! I admire and thank you for your continuous willingness to help, your consistent kindness and your never-ending generosity and will truly miss reading your posts and of your adventures!!!!

manami by manami 26 Nov 2008

I'm so honored for your kind words, and I loved to read your posts. I would hate to miss you...Please, leave your email address before you go, I have my email on my profile.

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by crafter2243 Moderator 26 Nov 2008

You cannot be an offender or be responsible for the Site to take a NEW turn if rules and terms are not stated. I am with you. What had attracted me to this site was the human aspect. I for one enjoyed ALL the posts. I am just confused and saddened by it all.

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rcraftlady by rcraftlady 26 Nov 2008

You have truly been one of the bright spots of my adventure here at Cute Embroidery. Thank you for your kind words.

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