by babash 27 Jun 2021

Almost 3 weeks since my Darling Hubby of 54 years passed away.

Still finding it hard even though we knew this would happen. We had an extra 20 months together which we made the most of. He got to see his first Great Grand Child which made him happy. He phoned me just after midnight from the hospital to ask if I was coming to visit that day and then by 7 am had slipped into a coma. At 9pm he was gone from me forever. He never complained was always so concerned about everyone else. He would have been 75 on the 4th of July.

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by arisann 06 Jul 2021

I am so sorry for your loss, my heart goes out to you. May The Lord keep comforting you. I know you miss your husband, he sounds like he was a wonderful man. God be with you I pray. lvU

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by basketkase 06 Jul 2021

God bless you and I pray for you as you grieve.....

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by bemara 03 Jul 2021

I am very sorry for your loss.

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by dailylaundry 03 Jul 2021

Sorry Barb, I just now read this. Such sad news. Please know you are in my prayers - no words can take away such pain. I send you many hugs and love and my prayers, Laura

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by hightechgrammy 02 Jul 2021

Barb, I am so sorry your husband is no longer by your side. Grief is so hard and you are still in the early stages. Things are going to be hard, there are lots of adjustments to be made continually. I have gone through the hardest of grief in my life in losing my son. and I can tell you this, Love never dies. Love lasts forever. You will make it through one day at a time, even though that sounds trite, that its what you do. Every day you get up and you just do the best you can. After a while, probably a long while, you will have memories that make you smile and not cry. Love never dies, and you can depend on that.

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by cfidl 30 Jun 2021

My condolences and a prayer for you. I do not know what happens after. however I have hope that the love we share never goes away.

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by mops Moderator 30 Jun 2021

I am so sorry to hear this! It must be so difficult for you. Know that we all care and pray for you.

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by kustomkuddle 29 Jun 2021

Barb, I am so sorry for the loss of your DH. Words can not express the emotions that you are going through right now. Just know that the Cutie family are holding you and your family up, ready and willing to support you ( even when you don't know we are.) full of caring and comfort. Hugs.

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by sebsews 29 Jun 2021

I am so sorry to hear of your dear hubbys passing. Your 54 years of memories will always remain in your heart. We Cuties will always give you caring heartfelt condolences and inspiration. Cuties were there for me and I am so appreciative to all of Cuties. I am glad he was able to see the first great grand child. My brother born July 4th always said the fireworks was a celebration for him. Keep us updated and God Bless you, Suzanna

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by jrob Moderator 28 Jun 2021

Barb, I'm so very sorry. I know that words can't heal but know that the love behind them is sincerely meant. Please come here anytime you want, and share your happy remembrances or let us hold you up in your tearful moments. May you feel God's arms around you.

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babash by babash 28 Jun 2021

Thank you.

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by pcteddyb 28 Jun 2021

I am very sorry for your loss.

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babash by babash 28 Jun 2021

Thank you

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by tuross 28 Jun 2021

My heart goes out to you. Thank the Lord I cannot imagine what you are going through but I hope you are finding comfort in our Lord's arms.
Lynne in Australia

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babash by babash 28 Jun 2021

Thank you

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by ungermyer 28 Jun 2021

So sorry for your loss...I lost my Husband to Covid in September and still cannot realize that life has changed so drastically. Faith and Family will get us through. Prayers for you and yours.
V. Unger

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babash by babash 28 Jun 2021

I am so sorry for your loss. I feel for you having something happen so fast like Covid. We at least as a family knew we were on borrowed time and had the opportunity to do what we wanted with the time we had.

toogie by toogie 30 Jun 2021

V Unger , I am sorry you lost your husband too. Covid has claimed many, I’m sorry to say and Cancer too. You both have my sympathy.

arisann by arisann 06 Jul 2021

Sympathy and love to you in your sorrow. I hate covid and what it has done to you and so many others. May God be with you an enfold you in His arms . Lv to you n prayers.

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by gerryvb 28 Jun 2021

sorry for your loss, he will always have that special place in your heart. And how wonderful he was able to see his first grand child. keep these lovely memories in mind. i'm sure he will watch over you from above. Hugs and prayers are coming your way ...

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babash by babash 28 Jun 2021

Thank you. I am sure he will be keeping us under his wings.

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by pennyhal2 28 Jun 2021

I'm sure you are heart broken and no amount of time will make that go away. I'm glad that he was able to meet his first Great Grand Child and that he had that joy.

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babash by babash 28 Jun 2021

Thank you

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by gramsbear 28 Jun 2021

I am so sorry for your loss, I, too, have been through that. Mine was 8 yrs ago, and I still look to see if he is coming into the house...My Prayers and thoughts are with you, it will take some time, but every so often, you will feel better... Hugs and Prayers are coming your way!...from Judy...

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babash by babash 28 Jun 2021

Thank you. Yes I know what you mean. I looked at the clock the other day and thought better do something about getting our lunch ready as he will come looking for me at 10 to 12 as he always did. And to see what I was sewing or making and giving me encouragement if I needed it.

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by airyfairy 28 Jun 2021

So very sorry to hear of your dear husband’s passing. My thoughts are with you and your family

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babash by babash 28 Jun 2021

Thank you

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by 02kar Moderator 28 Jun 2021

My heart breaks for you to hear this sad news. I know your world will never be the same. But what wonderful memories you have to hold near and dear to your heart. Thank you so much for sharing these treasures. Don't be afraid to reach out to us when you need a loving word. how i wish we could give you real hugs, but know we are sending many prayers and cyber hugs your way.

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babash by babash 28 Jun 2021

Thank you

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by sdrise 28 Jun 2021

My sympathy to you and the family... SO hard to lose the one you love. it takes time to grieve and find a new normal. At least he got to see the great grandchild. take care and we are all here if you need us. Prayers for you and the family.

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babash by babash 28 Jun 2021

Thank you

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by dragonflyer 28 Jun 2021

So sad to hear this, Barb...my love and condolences to you and your family...so glad he got to see his great grand child...

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babash by babash 28 Jun 2021

Thank you Kim

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by pennifold 28 Jun 2021

Oh! Barb, I'm so sorry, I've got tears in my eyes reading your post. I'm so glad you got to spend those extra wonderful months together and that he saw his first Great Grand Child. I hope you know that we are hugging you in your grief and can only pray that you can remember all the wonderful times you had in those 54 years together. My sincerest sympathy to you and the family, love Chris

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babash by babash 28 Jun 2021

Thanks Chris. At least my son from WA was able to see him on his last day. If it was to happen now it would be impossible with all the borders being shut to each other.

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by shirley124 27 Jun 2021

So sorry to hear of the loss of your dear hubby. It is so hard to lose a loved one. I lost a dear brother 2 weeks ago. We laid him to rest last Tuesday. Please take care and look after yourself. Hugs

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babash by babash 28 Jun 2021

Thank you. Sorry for your loss.

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by loriziegler 27 Jun 2021

I am so sorry! May he RIP!

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babash by babash 28 Jun 2021

Thank you

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by crafter2243 Moderator 27 Jun 2021

Knowing ahead of time and being prepared of it does not make it any less painful. It is the finality of it all. I am glad you had the extra time together and hopefully he was not in too much pain. Maybe he waited to see his Great Grand Child. In my mind I am wrapping my arms around you and ask God that he send you the strength needed. Hugs

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babash by babash 28 Jun 2021

He kept the pain from me until the end wouldn't take the pain killers Dr prescribed he was so positive that he would beat this thing that he didn't want to get addicted to them.

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by toogie 27 Jun 2021

Barb my heart goes out to you. I hate to imagine being in your place. I hope you feel the love I’m trying to express and find comfort in knowing we care about you. So sorry for your loss.

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babash by babash 28 Jun 2021

Thank you

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by graceandham 27 Jun 2021

I will be praying for you in the months ahead as you enter this new life without his daily presence. I'm proud of you that you made the most of your time together, as that is the best we all can do with our time. And so happy that the parents of that new baby will remember that he was there, then. Each day, fewer tears and more sweet memories, that is my prayer for you and all the family.

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babash by babash 28 Jun 2021

Thank you

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by asterixsew Moderator 27 Jun 2021

So sorry to hear your sad news. Remember the great times that you had together. How good that you were able to meet your first Great Grandchild together what a achievement. Take care

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babash by babash 28 Jun 2021

Thank you

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