by sebsews 01 May 2021

Today would have been our 39th anniversary. I still love and miss my Blackie. Everday he is there for me. Some days I still struggle with grief and probably always will. For years we would spend the first week in May at the beach Condo, for 2 years now I have not been able to go. I will absoutely go next year. One thing I miss so much is when I had finished a project, showed it to him, he always said something nice about it and then a kiss. So now I have Cute to show off my projects and I appreciate all the flowers and comments. You are stuck with me! Sorry about the camera reflection image in the middle of the picture. 5/1/82 our day. Hugs and flowers to all, Suzanna


by asterixsew Moderator 06 May 2021

Sweet memories of a very happy day. Thank goodness that we have our memories and that we are able to share them. Cyber hug dear

by kustomkuddle 06 May 2021

Such a handsome man and beautiful couple. My heart cries with you for your loss. Hugs and prayers.

by airyfairy 03 May 2021

Beautiful picture. Thank you for sharing.

1 comment
sebsews by sebsews 03 May 2021

Thank you! I love that Cute is about sharing.

by basketkase 03 May 2021

Oh are so in my thoughts....I cannot imagine your grief and am so glad you have found a place with all these kind and supporting people to lend you comforting words as I am at a loss.....Blessing on you, dear!

1 comment
sebsews by sebsews 03 May 2021

Thank you! Your words are comforting!

by pennifold 02 May 2021

Hi Suzanna, such a beautiful picture of you both. I am so happy to read that you had such a wonderful marriage and I hope that you get to go to the Gulf of Mexico next year. Our memories are such an uplifting experience and you are blessed to have Blackie daily by your side. God bless you, love Chris

1 comment
sebsews by sebsews 03 May 2021

Thank you Chris, for following me through the sad times and the good times. Your comments are always supportive to me and others. Next year would have been 40 years. Our memories are still close to my heart where they will remain forever. I am looking forward to going to the beach and completing my plans with love.

by crafter2243 Moderator 02 May 2021

What a sweet pictures. I am glad you feel his presence sometimes. It will get easier over time but you will always miss him. Hugs

1 comment
sebsews by sebsews 03 May 2021

Thank you. I love the dreams, they always have a message.

by pennyhal2 02 May 2021

Your love for each other shows through in this photo. It's May, so I'm hoping that you enjoy your memories while at the beach!

1 comment
sebsews by sebsews 03 May 2021

Thank you for this and the many positive comments you have sent me.

by jrob Moderator 02 May 2021

Suzanna, look at this beautiful little couple so in love this day. Who would have thought how much that love could grow and keep going and going. This is a precious photo and I hope you pack it in your bag next year when you go celebrate the great love you were lucky enough share! I really like the gulf of Mexico. You may need a girls trip!

1 comment
sebsews by sebsews 03 May 2021

Thank you! You have followed me since before Blackie passed. Your comments were always from the heart. I appreciate all you have said to me. You are right the picture should go with me.

by graceandham 02 May 2021

What a precious little couple you two were. Always good memories.

1 comment
sebsews by sebsews 02 May 2021

Yes he was 5'7" and me hardly 5'. I didn't even hit 100lbs. Yes that is part of the memories too. Thank you for all your comments following me through the years.

by zoefzoef 02 May 2021

keep the memories close to your heart and he never will die.
remember everything and know that he is watching over you from above.
Hug send xxxx
ps : very nice dress!!

1 comment
sebsews by sebsews 02 May 2021

Yes he is watching over me giving me signs from above and always in my heart. I still have the dress, doesn't fit, but it is memories for me. Thank you for the beautiful comment.

by 02kar Moderator 02 May 2021

We are certainly not "stuck" with you. You are a very important part of our Cute family and we grieve for your loss. Your post and picture are are a beautiful tribute to your husband. Keep that lovely smile as you remember your treasured memories of a very special man. And post pictures of your projects so we can admire them.

1 comment
sebsews by sebsews 02 May 2021

You and Cute family are important to me. You are a beautiful and caring person and you give me inspiration. Your messages are always from your heart. I will post projects as I finish them. I have many machines and just need the get up and go do it attitude I had before 2020. Thank you for your support.

by gerryvb 02 May 2021

I'm sure from above he will look at your projects and whispers something sweet in your ear, followed by a kiss. He will always be with you in that special place in your heart. Thank you for sharing this lovely picture, and for the memories you share. A special hug for you today. Hope you can go to Condo next year, the place that meant so much for the both of you. 😘

sebsews by sebsews 02 May 2021

Thank you! I know he is watching me everyday and he is still in my dreams. You have followed me and my posted life for years and always have beautiful words for me, I am grateful to you.

gerryvb by gerryvb 06 May 2021


by vkggal 01 May 2021

So very sorry as I know you miss him terribly as I do mine who has been gone almost 3 years. Thank God we have the beautiful memories to hold close. You were/are a lovely couple.

1 comment
sebsews by sebsews 02 May 2021

Thank you. Cute has been part of my life since 2013. We are fortunate to have a site who listens and cares about us and our lives.

by dragonflyer 01 May 2021

What a beautiful photo of the two of you and what a beautiful life you experienced time can erase the loss, but every day you can celebrate your life and memories spent together...I am sure he is waiting for you to return to your beach where you shared so many happy days...We are so happy you have chosen to share your life and your life together with all of us...

1 comment
sebsews by sebsews 02 May 2021

Our life together was one of a kind. When I go next year I plan on placing some of his ashes in the Gulf of Mexico at our favorite beach. Cute has followed me thru so much since 2013. Always supportive, always caring. Thank you, Suzanna

by loriziegler 01 May 2021

I am so sorry that you lost your best friend your husband! What a beautiful couple you two made!

1 comment
sebsews by sebsews 02 May 2021

Thank you for your beautiful comment.