by meganne 21 Jul 2017

An update on my friend Rada.

I apologise for the delay but this has been difficult for me to bring myself to write as it isn't all good news.

The cancer turned out to be Stage 3, not Stage 2 and there was a 1.5mm speck found in the Sentinel Lymph node.

One small thing in her favour is that it was "HER 2" Negative and they believe they got it all but I am concerned about this and want further investigation as it was surrounded by DCIS and there was a glaring error in measurements, mentioned in the Pathology report.

So from here she is going to see the Oncologist and Radiologist who will discuss the best options for further treatment.

I am now, not feeling as positive as the Oncology Surgeon's first prognosis gave us false hope to feel and I ask for your ongoing prayers that the Oncology Team don't fail her.
Hugs and roses to all and prayers for all in need, Meganne

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Comments (17)

by mechille 27 Jul 2017

oh Meg, so sorry to hear the report wasn't that good. My prayers are with your friend as well as you while she goes thru this difficult time. Prayers, Mechille (TN)

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by meganne 27 Jul 2017

Thanks Mechile, trying to stay positive. hugs n roses, Meg

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by ksgram1 25 Jul 2017

Continued prayers for Rada, and for you. What a loyal friend you are. The world could use more friends like you. Love and Hugs

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by meganne 27 Jul 2017

Thanks ksgram. I'm just doing what any friend would do.
My Cute friends, one in particular, did as much for me and it really did help me win my battle.
hugs n roses, Meg

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by Leaha 25 Jul 2017

I too shall add prayers and positive thoughts on her behalf, it's wonderful that she has such a kind and caring friend in you. May God lift you both into his gentle hands as he guides you both in this journey. hugs leaha

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by meganne 27 Jul 2017

Thank you Leaha. No battle with illness is easy but cancer comes with its very scary reputation and that alone can bring you to your knees unless you have support from friends and family to keep lifting you.
I hope your hubby is improving now too.
huge hugs n love, Meg

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by pennifold 25 Jul 2017

I'm so sorry Meg I didn't see your post until tonight!!! I do pray that Rada can keep positive. You of all people know what she is going through and I'm so happy that you are there for her in her time of fear and need. Please send her my love when you next talk to her. May our Lord spread His loving arms around her and give her comfort and peace. ❤️ Chris

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by meganne 25 Jul 2017

Thanks so much Chris.
I went with her to both appointments with the oncology surgeon as I knew she wanted me to go with her, Ray, (bless him), drove us both times.
I'll also go with her to see the Oncologist and Radiologist as I know she is doing this tough and I think it helps having someone who understands what the doctors are saying.
I will pass on all these well wishes to her so she knows she is not alone and has the prayers of many wonderful sisters from all over the world.
Hugs n love. me

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by gramt 25 Jul 2017

So sorry to hear about your friend. I hope and pray she can win this fight. I will keep her in my prayers. Hugs

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by meganne 25 Jul 2017

Thanks so much gramt.

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by sdrise 22 Jul 2017

Prayers coming for her and her family. Hope she gets another opinion. Prayers for you too!

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by meganne 23 Jul 2017

Thanks Suzanne. We put our lives in their hands and pray for Divine Guidance for them to make us well.
hugs n roses, meg

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by nan2017b 21 Jul 2017

Praying the best for Rada, family, and you as well, Meganne. Hugs!

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by meganne 23 Jul 2017

Thank you Nan, much appreciated.

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by kustomkuddle 21 Jul 2017

Continuing to keep her and those close to her in prayers as well as all the medical staff caring for her.

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by meganne 23 Jul 2017

Thank so much.

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by liliana1 21 Jul 2017

So Sad to Hear this I will be Praying for Rada and family.

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by meganne 23 Jul 2017

Thanks so much Liliana.

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by dragonflyer 21 Jul 2017

So sorry to hear this, Meganne...sometimes knowledge can be a double edged sword...so glad Rada has your support...prayers and angels to watch over her...Hugs & Smiles...

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by meganne 23 Jul 2017

Thanks Kim, I sometimes wish I didn't know as much as I do. It's not so bad knowing for myself but when it is understanding something your friend doesn't, one is torn whether or not to make the possible outcomes clear to her.
I guess I will wait until she asks for herself and just keep telling her the final choice of treatment options is really her decision.
hugs n many thanks, Meg

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by ansienaude 21 Jul 2017

may the Lord be with her and her loved ones

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by meganne 21 Jul 2017

Thank you ansienaude

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by basketkase 21 Jul 2017

Sending prayers and huge positivity angels to all involved.....so thankful that you are there to continue your support role, Meg!

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by meganne 21 Jul 2017

Thanks Vicki, I think we both could really use some positive power right now.

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by asterixsew Moderator 21 Jul 2017

Meganne your knowledge is far greater than mine. sending more positive thoughts to you and Rada

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by meganne 21 Jul 2017

Thanks Caroline. For myself knowledge is a good thing, but when it is a dear friend I think I'd rather not know so much.

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by queenofhearts 21 Jul 2017

Continuing prayers for Rada.

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by meganne 21 Jul 2017

Thank so much.

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by dailylaundry 21 Jul 2017

Of course, Meg - my prayers will continue. It is a horrid disease.

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by meganne 21 Jul 2017

Thanks Laura. It is that and worse.

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by jerrib 21 Jul 2017

Prayers will continue for Rada.

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by meganne 21 Jul 2017

Thank Jerri. This is worse than when I had it because I am trying to keep her positive all the time I am starting to feel more worried. In a way it is a blessing that she doesn't fully understand what the doctor is saying.

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by graceandham 21 Jul 2017

Sorry you know too much to be comfortable with her prognosis. Remember, God is in charge. Will continue in prayer for your friend Rada and her medical team support, as well as for you, the friend support team!

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by meganne 21 Jul 2017

Thank you so much.

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