I am looking for a sashiko design that looks more like hand stitching I have several, but they do not look like hand work.

I bought mine at Embroidery Library but not sure if they look hand stitched enough for you..

try http://www.designsinstiches/com they got a whole page of free sashiko desigs I have used some to quilt a large Quilt and they worked very well I hope this helps you Ursula